ERIC KIM

Artist-Philosopher

How to Discover Your Purpose in Life

The middle path of philosophy:

PHILOSOPHY BY KIM

Essays by KIM

  1. Becoming Antifragile
  2. How to “Improve” Men
  3. The Art of Virtue
  4. How to Dominate
  5. JUST SHARE YOUR EXPERIENCES AND WISDOM WITH OTHERS.
  6. How to Get More Done in a Single Day – MEMENTO MORI PHILOSOPHY
  7. THINK FOR YOURSELF
  8. Cruel?
  9. GO DEMIGOD.
  10. How to Be Happy: Challenge and Danger Philosophy
  11. To Become Greater, You Must Become *LESS* Productive!
  12. Imperfect Beauty
  13. The Philosophy of Pleasure
  14. What Interests You?
  15. Anti Theory of Everything
  16. Become?
  17. STRONGER OR NOT?
  18. Carte Blanche Ideals
  19. CHOOSE JOY
  20. Don’t Judge Your Impulses
  21. On Becoming Less Human
  22. COWARDICE.
  23. The Philosophy of Futurism
  24. PHILOSOPHY IS VALUE-SETTING
  25. PHILOSOPHY IS NOT LIFESTYLE
  26. WHY STANDARDIZATION IS BAD.
  27. YOUR OWN TABLE OF VALUES.
  28. RETRO IS BAD.
  29. INSANELY LOFTY THOUGHTS.
  30. Strive to *Lose* Weight, Not *Gain* Weight
  31. DIABLO II ANALOGIES FOR REAL LIFE.
  32. If You Know Your *WHY* You Can Discover Any *HOW*
  33. Life is Too Short to Be Miserable
  34. What Consumption Takes Skill?
  35. OFF THE GRID.
  36. REALITY IS CRUEL.
  37. Pain is Information
  38. WHY REMOVE VULGARITY AND DISORDER FROM OUR EYES?
  39. AUTOTELIC.
  40. UNPLUG.
  41. How to Become a Philosopher
  42. SUBOPTIMAL IS OPTIMAL
  43. THE LUST FOR MORE.
  44. TO DO IS TO BECOME.
  45. IN PRAISE OF AGGRESSIVE.
  46. THE PHILOSOPHY OF OPTIMISM
  47. OUR PHILOSOPHICAL WILL TO EXISTENCE
  48. Is Hope a Vice?
  49. MOVE MEAN
  50. Carte Blanche Ideals
  51. One Interesting Thought
  52. What Lasts? What Doesn’t Last?
  53. A WOUND STIMULATES THE RECUPERATIVE POWERS
  54. Children & Purpose
  55. Thoughts on Becoming a Parent
  56. Where Does Our Desire to Upgrade Come From?
  57. WE ALWAYS NEED SOMETHING FURTHER TO ASPIRE TO.
  58. Self-Task Yourself an Awesome Mission in Life
  59. Differentiation vs Equalization
  60. My Passion to *Become* Something More
  61. No Aesthetic or Ethos is Forever
  62. What is Your Higher Purpose in Life?
  63. IT WILL NEVER SATISFY YOU.
  64. How to Decide
  65. Things You *Want* to Do vs Things You *MUST* Do
  66. Towards a More Beautiful Mode of Existence and Future
  67. EXTREME GRATITUDE.
  68. AMAP (As Much as Possible) or None.
  69. Why or How Does it Matter?
  70. The Philosophy of Time and Events
  71. How *Not* to Resent
  72. FORWARD LOOKING
  73. DOMAIN FLEXIBILITY.
  74. The Miracle of Human Growth
  75. EXTREME ADAPTATION.
  76. Why Plan?
  77. You Don’t Need to Justify Yourself
  78. The Philosophy of Ego
  79. True vs False Passions
  80. How to Achieve Tranquility
  81. On Making Your Own Philosophy
  82. The Purpose of Life is to Create New Life
  83. Think On!
  84. The Wisdom of Doing Nothing
  85. Congruency
  86. My Thoughts on Meditation
  87. The Philosophy of Purpose
  88. Emulate Yourself
  89. Good Fear, Bad Fear
  90. For the Betterment of Humanity or Just Yourself?
  91. What you *really* believe in and care for is manifested through your actions (or non-actions)
  92. Why Culture is Your Enemy
  93. YOUR EXPERIENCES ARE KING.
  94. LIFE IS INHERENTLY GOOD.
  95. Artistic, Physical, and Philosophical Muscles
  96. All New Experiences are Good Experiences
  97. What is the Purpose of X?
  98. UTILITY.
  99. Philosophy is a Luxury
  100. The Attempt is More Interesting than the Result
  101. Joyfulness vs “Happiness”
  102. Effectiveness Over Happiness
  103. Self Actualization
  104. MAXIMAL ENGAGEMENT
  105. Life & Pain
  106. On Living Every Day with No Regret
  107. Learn as if you’re going to live forever, live as if you’re going to die tomorrow
  108. Live Every Day Like it Were the Last Day of Your Life
  109. Self-Determination
  110. FALSE GRATITUDE vs REAL GRATITUDE
  111. HOW TO LIVE MORE
  112. THE UPSIDE OF TRAGEDY
  113. Satisfaction is a Sucker’s Game
  114. Supreme Repose
  115. WHAT IS THE PURPOSE OF LIFE? According to ERIC KIM
  116. STUBBORN, FLEXIBLE
  117. EVERYTHING HAPPENS AS IT *SHOULD* HAVE HAD HAPPENED
  118. Good Addiction, Bad Addiction?
  119. What is the Best Life?
  120. The Philosophy of Thinking
  121. The Philosophy of Conspiracies
  122. Conspiracies
  123. Growth
  124. Skepticism.
  125. What Do You Really Want Out of Life?
  126. Seem or Be?
  127. Learn Through Pain
  128. Respect Yourself
  129. In Praise of Elitism
  130. Why Independent Thinking?
  131. I Will Never Die
  132. Bitter is Better
  133. The Genesis of Nihilism and Existential Dread
  134. The Ethics of Personal Enrichment
  135. Good vs Not Good
  136. Punished by Privilege
  137. Abstinence Over Moderation
  138. Just Leave Others Alone
  139. You Can Only Critique that Which You Truly Understand and Love
  140. ERIC KIM Critique of Metaphysics
  141. Only Trust Philosophers Who Deadlift
  142. Heuristic: If Someone Talks Shit About Others Behind Their Back, Most Likely They’re Also Talking Shit About You Behind Your Back
  143. Virtue is a Privilege
  144. What Are Your Life Goals?
  145. Honesty
  146. Why I’m Anti Moderation
  147. No Spite, No Malice.
  148. Ascending Life or Descending Life?
  149. Double Edged Sword
  150. Ignorance.
  151. Why I Don’t Trust “Nice Guys”
  152. Why You Must Share Your Opinion
  153. Selfish Isn’t Evil
  154. Wisdom is the Goal
  155. YOU ARE KING.
  156. MASTER YOURSELF
  157. What is “Good” for You is Often what is Bad for You
  158. Care.
  159. BITTERSWEET
  160. ONE REP MAX
  161. Morality and Ethics is the Snare
  162. BY HELPING YOURSELF, YOU BEST HELP OTHERS
  163. Insanity is Good.
  164. Think Deep.
  165. PHILOSOPHY IS THE FUTURE.
  166. Open Mind vs Closed Mind
  167. ENTHUSIASM IS GENIUS
  168. Towards a More Critical and Rigorous Line of Thinking
  169. How to Encourage and a Foster Independent and Free Thinking
  170. What is the Purpose of Life?
  171. WHY PHILOSOPHY IS SUPREME.
  172. Elitism.
  173. I Cannot Form an Opinion About Somebody Until I’ve Met Them in the Flesh
  174. ALL GENETICS ARE GOOD GENETICS.
  175. Happiness vs Freedom
  176. The Birth of a Hater
  177. My Way Isn’t the Right Way
  178. Walking as an Existential Thing
  179. Why I’m So Tolerant
  180. Mortal Gods
  181. THE HUMAN SPECIES
  182. Why I’m So Skeptical
  183. Just Follow the Money
  184. Why Selfish?
  185. WHY WE CANNOT BLAME OTHERS
  186. Why Are We So Anti Elitism?
  187. What Actually Interests You?
  188. How to Become Yourself
  189. SELF HATE
  190. Optimistic Fatalism
  191. Death is the Ultimate Creative Constraint
  192. FLUX.
  193. How to Think for Yourself
  194. FLESH
  195. How to Live the Best Life
  196. Why Live a Life Without Regrets?
  197. Why Plato Ruined Art and Aesthetics for Us
  198. Self Respect
  199. Hypocrite vs Contradict
  200. Ideals vs Reality
  201. Spaceship Philosophy
  202. What is Your Ideal Life?
  203. MY EXTREME GRATITUDE TOWARDS LIFE AND BEING ALIVE!
  204. Critique of Utilitarianism
  205. Don’t Treat Others the Way You Want to Be Treated
  206. The Eternal Recurrence of Tragedy and Joy in Life
  207. Elite Asceticism
  208. Why I Don’t Like Numbers
  209. Action and Reaction, Cause and Effect
  210. The Antidote to Nihilism: The Philosophy of Nothingness
  211. ERIC KIM Notes on Meditations by Marcus Aurelius
  212. EXPLOIT CHAOS.
  213. WHY I DON’T BELIEVE IN GENETICS
  214. Self-Wisdom
  215. The Future Belongs to the Fearless
  216. INDIVIDUALISM
  217. Why Live Forever?
  218. THIS TOO WILL PASS.
  219. Why Education?
  220. How to Become Yourself
  221. Things Shouldn’t Go Back to the Way They Used to Be
  222. Why Am I So Cruel?
  223. The Great Joy of Existence
  224. Virtue for the Sake of Virtue
  225. NO DISDAIN.
  226. INTELLIGENT IGNORANCE
  227. A LIFE WITHOUT PAIN, DIFFICULTY OR TRAGEDY ISN’T A LIFE WORTH LIVING
  228. BITTER IS BETTER.
  229. EXPLOIT THE BEST FROM TRAGEDY AND LIFE 
  230. DISREGARD FOR SELF-PRESERVATION
  231. PAIN.
  232. WHAT IF EVERYTHING IS NOT GONNA BE ALRIGHT?
  233. Tomorrow is Never
  234. Life is the Ultimate Creative Constraint
  235. EMBODIED REALITY
  236. BLACK SWAN
  237. THINGS WILL NEVER GO BACK TO THE WAY THEY USED TO BE
  238. What are you *really* afraid of?
  239. HAPPINESS ISN’T THE GOAL
  240. Philosophy is King
  241. Why is Selfish Evil?
  242. YOU’RE CONSTANTLY IN A STATE OF BECOMING
  243. ENTITLEMENT A SIN?
  244. NARCISSISM
  245. BE BRUTALLY HONEST WITH YOURSELF
  246. WHY FREE WILL?
  247. OBEY YOUR OPINION
  248. EGO IS GOOD.
  249. WHY IT IS GOOD TO BE INTO YOURSELF
  250. Seek the Good Pain
  251. Anti-Perfection in Photography, Art, and Life
  252. Can You Become an End into Yourself?
  253. WHY I LIVE
  254. Why I Hate Decline
  255. Why I Eat
  256. Why am I So Positive and Optimistic?
  257. EFFORT IS ENJOYMENT
  258. Never Stop Gaining
  259. TRUST YOURSELF
  260. A Life of Maximal Personal Independence
  261. What Do You Desire to Become?
  262. What Do I Want from Technology?
  263. Stratified Society
  264. Do You Love or Hate Reality?
  265. On the Brian, Body and Mind
  266. I’m Maximally Happy, Now What?
  267. Care over Fame
  268. ACTIVE NIHILISM
  269. Never Stop Subtracting
  270. How to Live a Happier and More Epic Life
  271. A Risker Life is a Better Life
  272. Only Work on Things You Can Imagine Doing for Eternity
  273. How to Maximize Your Happiness
  274. Influence
  275. The Gladiator Makes His Plans once He Enters the Ring
  276. Meditations on Meaning in Life
  277. There is Nothing More Interesting than Human Beings
  278. Is Hope a Vice?
  279. EGO
  280. Why Be Unique?
  281. Happiness is Metabolism Health and Strength
  282. You’re the Hero
  283. Is Productivity a Virtue or Vice?
  284. Why Do We Prize the Rare?
  285. The Joy of Uncertainty
  286. How Should I Best Use My Time and Life?
  287. A Life Without Pain or Suffering Isn’t a Life Worth Living
  288. Free or Unfree?
  289. What Do You Really Care For in Life?
  290. Anti-Satisfaction in Life
  291. Why Think?
  292. The Eternal Return
  293. Only Do What is Best for You!
  294. Truthiness
  295. Why Be Happy?
  296. Permissionless Living
  297. In Praise of Unconventional Wisdom
  298. Become the Change Which You Wish to See in the World
  299. Happiness
  300. Beyond Freedom
  301. Idolize People, Not Stuff
  302. What Makes You Stronger? What Makes You Weaker?
  303. Why Hate?
  304. The Secret of Happiness
  305. You’re Constantly in a State of Becoming
  306. Life is about Choices, Not Obligations
  307. Anti-Nihilism
  308. First, Do What is Best for You.
  309. Live Dynamic
  310. How to Prosper
  311. Is the Point of Life to Be Satisfied?
  312. SUPREME EFFORT OF WILL.
  313. How to Become more Idealistic
  314. Thrivival 101
  315. Create Yourself
  316. Non-Small
  317. Inspiration
  318. How to Live a Heroic Life: Dare the Heights!
  319. Human Augmentation
  320. Prune
  321. Happiness: Do What You Want to Do (And Don’t Do What You Don’t Want to Do)
  322. Avoid Vain (Empty) Pursuits in Life
  323. Modern Slavery
  324. Kill the Leeches
  325. Wisdom Augmentation
  326. Why We Need Friction in Life
  327. Straight Line Philosophy
  328. What’s Your End-Game in Life?
  329. Create Your Own Happiness Today
  330. Desire Both Pain and Pleasure in Life
  331. Try the Impossible
  332. SELF-RESPECT
  333. Anti-Social Extrovert
  334. Never Blame Anybody But Yourself
  335. Human Flourishing
  336. Simpler, Not Better.
  337. How to be Free
  338. Embrace the Extremes
  339. Cultivate Your Own Culture
  340. COURAGE.
  341. Thrivival
  342. Inner Power
  343. How to Live a Purposeful Life
  344. My Definition of Happiness
  345. Why Change is Good
  346. Why Work?
  347. How to Live the Happiest Possible Life
  348. The Two-Pronged Approach to Maximize Joy in Your Life
  349. You Always Have Another Option!
  350. INFINITISM
  351. Never Stop!
  352. What is Your Self-Directed Purpose in Life?
  353. Live Today Like it Were Your Last
  354. Do You Photograph to Live, or Live to Photograph?
  355. ARTIST-PHILOSOPHER
  356. Live Life to the Fullest!
  357. In Praise of Selfishness
  358. Why You Must Be a YAY-SAYER to Succeed in Entrepreneurship and Life
  359. Why I Love Walking
  360. Live Life Like a Video Game!
  361. Simple Luxuries in Life
  362. Treat Your Life Like a Fun Experiment!
  363. Only Prove it to Yourself
  364. You Don’t Always Need to Feel Joyful to Live a Fulfilling and Meaningful Life
  365. Life is Too Short to Be Bored!
  366. Money Cannot Destroy Boredom
  367. How to Find Inspiration in Life
  368. Why You Must Ignore Haters to Succeed and Win in Life
  369. An Active Life is a Happy Life
  370. My Simple Joys in Life
  371. Never Stop Striving
  372. How to Motivate Yourself in Life
  373. How to Be Optimistic in Life
  374. How to Dictate Your Purpose in Life
  375. In Praise of a Dynamic Life
  376. PURPOSE.
  377. How to Enjoy Life
  378. Photography Therapy
  379. How to Conquer Regret
  380. Take Your Play Very Seriously.
  381. How to Prosper
  382. Memento Vivere
  383. Destroy in Order to CREATE
  384. Trust Your Body More Than Your Mind
  385. Make Photos to Make Meaning in Your Life
  386. Seek Knowledge, Not Information
  387. The Purpose of Human Life
  388. How to Overcome Impedence
  389. Why I Love Death
  390. How to Be Centered in the Eternal Now
  391. How to Be Happy
  392. Why Do You Care What Others Think of You?
  393. Why I’m Happy
  394. Why?
  395. Why I’m So Prolific
  396. How to Reduce LAG in Life

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Why?

Why app — the pre-cursor to CHAT GPT?

Announcing Why App?

Try out ZEN OF ERIC on Facebook Messenger.


The “5 why?” challenge

Why app icon

To gain deeper personal truths about why you do anything, or why you feel a certain way … the Zen of Eric Facebook Chat bot isn’t intelligent. It is not AI. It is rather a sounding board for your own thoughts. It won’t tell you anything you don’t already know in your own heart. ZEN OF ERIC (“Why App”) is a chance for you to ask yourself the big ‘why?’ questions in life, to discover a deeper truth for yourself.

If you have Facebook and Facebook Messenger, send ZEN OF ERIC a message here.

How it works

Zen of Eric why app chat bot

Essentially we programmed it the following way:

You start chatting with it and saying hello, then you can have the chance to introspect and think about certain things in life.

Once you start chatting, the ZEN OF ERIC chatbot will keep asking you “Why?” until you type: “stop“.

Why did we build this on Facebook messenger?

My friend Stoytcho built this on Facebook Messenger for the practical purpose that the Facebook Messenger app is a robust platform for chat bots and chat applications. Also, you can use it on your laptop, desktop, phone, or tablet. You can interact with it wherever, whenever.

Is there a ‘proper’ way to use Zen of ERIC?

No. Just play around with it. No need to use it if you don’t want to. Rather, see ZEN OF ERIC as a personal mirror or sounding board for yourself, if you just want to flesh out your own thoughts, and to type out and explicate your thoughts.

How to use ZEN OF ERIC in my everyday life

  1. When you’re bored at home, shoot a message to ZEN OF ERIC CHAT BOT to just say hello, to get your creative juices flowing.
  2. When you’re stuck on the toilet, instead of checking Facebook/Instagram/Twitter/News/Snapchat, start an introspection session with Zen of Eric.
  3. If you’re stuck in line at the grocery store, open up Facebook Messenger and say hello to Zen of Eric.
  4. When you wake up and feel unmotivated, instead of scrolling through email, shoot a message to Zen of Eric
  5. When you read the news and you feel really disappointed and afraid, send a message to Zen of Eric.
  6. Use Zen of Eric when you’re happy, bored, sad, depressed, anxious, or anything else!

Privacy concerns

Truth be told, we cannot put 100% faith in Facebook, or Facebook Messenger. It is quite unfortunate we had to build it on Facebook Messenger, but there is really no other better alternative (for now).

I (ERIC KIM) and my friend Stoytcho did not build this to extract any of your dirty secrets for ourselves. It is simply a tool I asked Stoytcho to build for me, for my personal reasons. Even I use it for myself and my sister Annette used it to discover deeper meaning in her life.

So my simple suggestion:

Don’t tell ZEN OF ERIC anything hyper-personal. We don’t really know what Facebook does with all our data.

All the conversations are not saved to a database. In other words, we (Eric, Cindy, and Stoytcho) can’t see what you write. Only you see your conversations with the Zen of Eric.

Also note:

Zen of ERIC is NOT Eric Kim! It is just a soul-less Facebook messenger chat bot, which is programmed to ruthlessly bombard you with “why?’s” to give you deeper philosophical truths about your own personal life.

Example ideas with ZEN OF ERIC

  1. You can start off with an example prompt to get your creative juices flowing, or you can say “no” and simply ask it any question on your mind.
  2. Some example questions include:
    1. Why do I feel so down?
    2. What is the purpose of my life?
    3. What should I do today?
    4. Why do I care about x, y, z?
  3. Keep asking it questions until you get bored, then type “stop“. Just use it enough for your own personal benefit.

What now?

So let us say you used ZEN OF ERIC, and you discovered some very interesting truth about your life. Now what?

My suggestion:

Write a blog post about your introspection, and share it with your friends and family!

Other ideas on how to make your introspections “actionable”

After your introspection session with Zen of Eric, here are some things you can do and actually ACT upon your newfound insights:

  1. Write yourself an email (send it to yourself) with your introspection.
  2. Write your introspection (just for yourself) on a piece of paper, or in your personal journal/diary.
  3. Talk with your friend/family member over dinner about your philosophical inquiry, and also ask them lots of “WHY?” questions as well.

Try ZEN OF ERIC FACEBOOK CHAT BOT NOW >

URL: https://www.messenger.com/t/ZenOfEric


Dear friend,

The most powerful 3-letter word is “Why?”

Why is why important?

Hanoi, 2016 eric kim street photography hanoi
Hanoi, 2016

It is one of the first words we learn as a kid, yet is beaten out of us when we are young.

To be honest, when a kid always asks you, “Why?” it can get a bit annoying.

But that is where all of our creative energy, insight, and curiosity comes from.

To never be satisfied with answers, and to always keep asking:

Why?

How vs Why

Photo by Luis Donoso
Photo by Luis Donoso

I am a “how” person. I want practical skills, on how to do more stuff, to be more productive, how to be more rich, etc.

But more robust is the “Why?” question.

For example, don’t ask yourself how to make more money, but why make more money.

For me, I ask myself that all the time.

Why do you want to make more money, Eric?

Because I think if I have more money, I can help more people. I can help support my sister, my mom, myself, Cindy, and eventually have enough money to help my friends and local community in need.

Why do you want to help your family, friends, and others?

Because I believe they have so much untapped creative potential, yet their wages and dependence on money is holding them back.

Lesson: I want to empower everyone. To do the best creative work possible. To ultimately, empower all of humanity.

Blessings on blessings on blessings.

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Berkeley, 2015 #cindyproject

I’m lucky enough that I have enough. Enough– I have the one all black outfit I wear everyday that I am satisfied with, that I think makes me look cool.

I don’t currently write on a laptop; all is done on an iPad on IA WRITER– it helps my carpal tunnel in my right thumb, from typing too much. I also prefer the 1 pound weight, even compared to the lightest laptops. I returned my 12-inch MacBook laptop recently, because I thought it was a waste of money for $1800. If I need to process photos or use Lightroom, I just borrow Cindy’s laptop. Or I might try to figure out how to use Lightroom on the iPad.

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I don’t have a car, nor do I want a car. I don’t want to do stupid DMV payments, pay for insurance, fix and maintain the car, change the tires, change the oil, or have it take space. I prefer renting a car, or riding Uber.

I have a Ricoh GR II camera: the best digital camera ever made, for $600. If I lose or break it, I can easily buy another. I frankly think it’s a better camera, even compared to $7,000 digital Leica’s.

Dalat, Vietnam 2016 #cindyproject

If I’m bored of photography, I have my film Leica. And ultimately, film will always look better, and be cooler than digital photography.

I don’t like owning a phone. So no more lusting after a new iPhone or android phone. Thousands of dollars, and stress saved.

I don’t need anything else

cindy project - in and out - kettleman city

I like having bundles of cash sitting in the bank, doing nothing. Giving me some financial cushion, to sleep at night. I like not wasting money in stupid restaurants, with confusing names, and I always end up leaving hungry. I prefer eating cheap Vietnamese food anyways, and I can always eat my 5-6 egg snacks in the evening to assuage my hunger.

I have access to all the books of history via project Gutenberg, and I can read them for free as .epub files, or PDF, or text. No more books I need to buy.

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Tokyo, 2016

I like living in a small studio apartment, or cheap hotel. I don’t like owning furniture, too much stress. I don’t really wanna own a home: too much taxes, stress of fixing broken toilets, and shit falling apart.

I don’t want to own an office space. Less freedom to travel to coffee shops and do creative work.

Dalat, Vietnam 2016 / Photo by Cindy
Dalat, Vietnam 2016 / Photo by Cindy

I used to want to live in a fancy city like SF, NYC, or Tokyo– but I don’t like paying a lot of money for rent. I prefer to live in LA, Saigon, or any city with a lower cost of living. Less stress about rent, more freedom to buy more espresso, and play.

I don’t want to have a lot of responsibilities or burdens in life. I just want maximum freedom to write, read, think, philosophize, share, teach, and explore. I want to be a child, forever.

I’ll always desire more.

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Dalat, 2016

Obviously, I am still a sucker for technology, materialism, consumerism, and shit I don’t need. It’s in my American DNA.

eric kim street photography - the city of angels - black and white-5-nails-sweat-downtown-la

But whenever I feel stressed about money, worried about the future, or concerned– I always ask myself the question:

Why?

I feel that so much of us would be a lot more happy if we just asked ourselves “Why?” more often.

eric kim photography wedding - black and white - ricoh gr ii-5

For myself, I always desire to buy more shit I don’t need, or feel anxiety, because of the following reasons:

  • Desire to impress others
  • Fear of homelessness, bankruptcy, death.
  • Fear of living a life not to the maximum
  • Fear of looking dumb in front of others
  • Fear of regret dying with unfulfilled dreams

But honestly, I got everything I need. I got Cindy, my family, friends, internet, coffee, and my camera. I got this blog, and a mind that can create things from nothing. I got inspiration from living life on planet earth, and I’m alive.

eric kim photography wedding - black and white - ricoh gr ii-7

What greater blessing is there than being alive, and being grateful of being alive?

eric kim cindy project garden grove

For me, it is to create more. To me, affirming life is to create poetry, photos, art, words, ideas, thoughts, and products that can uplift you and others.

So friend, when in doubt in life, always ask yourself:

Why?

Be STRONG,
ERIC

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SOCIOLOGY

Health Hacks

  1. Green tea *AND* coffee: Lately as a fun experiment, I’ve been consuming Hadong South Korea looseleaf green tea, steeping it in my clever dripper with a filter, brewing it strong, and drinking black coffee espresso. The funny thing is that it looks like a lot of people try to quit coffee and replace it with green tea. Why not just have both?
  2. Funny thought: if you watch porn, but don’t rub one out, is it still porn? I think from a strength health perspective, ironically enough trying to conserve your spunk is a good idea. Avoid “energy suicide”. Save your spunk for your partner, girlfriend, wife, etc.
  3. Quit Reddit: bad for your brain, health and wisdom.
  4. Hot sauna: it could either be dry or wet. I think there is something extremely restorative about doing a hot sauna, especially when the weather outside is really cold or damp or wet humid cold. You don’t need to build it at your own house, just go to any local commercial gym which offers it. Also, a good place to just lay down, take a nap. Also funny enough, it might be one of the best ways to get off of your phone, as your phone will often overheat when in the sauna and turn off. Also, I found a sauna a good place to meet other men, and just shoot the shit.
  5. Yoga: a funny thing about yoga is that I don’t really think it is for “working out“. The big upside I’ve discovered about going to yoga is it is a good place to people watch, and often the room is hot and humid, heated and sometimes the add humidity, which feels like a hot sauna. Also the physical space of yoga studios tend to be pretty calm and relaxing, and a good place to escape the monotony of your own home or office. I had a chat with a random guy in the yoga locker room, a slightly older guy but fit, and he said that he also liked going to yoga because it was a good chance for him to relieve his stress from work, and also the upside of all the attractive women in the yoga studio. Funny thought — instead of watching porn, better to just sign up for a local yoga membership, and start to talk to all the pretty ladies. Also after doing yoga, taking a nice shower, after getting all sweaty, it is insanely relaxing. Even more restorative than getting a nice massage. Doing yoga seems like an active massage.
  6. The upside of doing yoga, learning a lot of these yoga poses is that it will benefit your weight lifting. For example, in the past, I’ve had all these injuries from weightlifting, like doing bench press, damaging and tearing my rotator cuff, etc. However, after learning a lot of his yoga poses and doing them quite religiously, this is the strongest I have ever been in my life, at the age of 35, and I am even able to lift 935 pounds on my back, no problem. The simple approach to doing yoga-like things is not following any sort of routine. Rather, just learn the poses which feel good to you, and before you lift weights at the gym, just do a single repetition of each. No need to hold the poses for any random duration of time, or going through any random number of cycles. My warmup routine >
  7. Quit sugar, all starches, vegetables, fruit, fake or “real” sweeteners, “zero calorie” silly monkfruit sweeteners etc. And there is no need for us new Spartans to consume anything sweet. Also quit smoking weed, quit drinking alcohol. These things all weaken us.

Creative Adrenaline

This is why coffee is so good unto creativity? Also my creativity after or before or during a one rep max attempt at the gym?

FEAST!

Every evening dinner should be a feast!

Just grilled up a tomahawk steak, and two t-bone steaks with the cast iron, both on max heat on the frying pan (to make it crispy), and at 475 degrees in the oven to cook it!

MEN & MEAT

Do men have more of a passion and preference for meat compared to women?

Real patriots.

What does it mean to be a real patriot? My simple thought: if your country were to go to war, would you self enlist? Skin in the game. (Taleb)

Becoming Stoic

One of my current interest in passions, actually for a long time, is regarding stoicism, philosophy, etc.

Why? I think in the realm of philosophy, stoicism may be the only school of thought which actually is useful in every day living. For example, conquering fear doubt and hesitation, how to advance through setbacks, how to deal with other people etc.

Stoicism 2.0?

I think ever since Nassim Taleb, stoicism has gained a new renaissance. Stoicism is now quite main stream, and interesting to a lot of people.


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