When I meet uber-successful people, after all their success, riches, etc … what is it they all strive towards or ultimately do and become?
They become philosophers, or focus on philosophy.
For example one of my friends at the gym, who is a crypto-whale (apparently is paying $10M in taxes this year alone), after he reached ‘financial independence’, is just focusing on working out and philosophy.
Paul Graham (founder of Y Combinator), essentially is a tech-philosopher.
Nassim Taleb after financial independence, focuses just on writing and philosophy.
Even my sisters’ boyfriends’ uber-successful father (he went all-in on Tesla), just focuses on philosophy.
Therefore, if we think about the end and work our way backwards, it is not riches success and fame which is the apex position, it is philosophy.
How does one ‘become’ a philosopher?
Funny enough back in the day, you were not allowed to call yourself ‘wise’ or a sage. Thus the ‘humble brag’ was to call yourself a philosopher — a lover of wisdom (philo = love, sophia = wisdom). Therefore to be a philosopher was to simply say:
I am not yet wise, but I strive to become wise.
Why wisdom?
Wisdom is funny; in some ways it is hugely practical (practical everyday life wisdom), but also in some ways, an ephemeral and intangible thing with no utility.
Personally I see philosophy as a more aesthetic and artistic pursuit — even Nietzsche calls Plato more of an artist than a ‘philosopher’.
Is stoicism philosophy?
To me, I actually see stoicism as different than philosophy. Stoicism is insanely practical — whereas philosophy (in the general sense) is not.
Stoicism as a road and as a means towards the more artistic/aesthetic philosophical end.
Is religion philosophy?
Religion is not philosophy. Religion is more of an ethical-moral code of ethics which is societal-based, community-oriented, and has certain ‘laws’ to govern the people (typically based on fear of punishment in the afterlife).
Start by asking ‘why’?
Every child is a philosopher. Every child always questions the status-quo, and asks their parents and teachers:
Most adults are not wise. And also not patient. Thus they get annoyed by kids, and say stuff like ‘Because I said so!’ Or ‘Because I decide! [the French notion]’
Why? Wherefore? To what ends? What is the importance? Why do we value this? Is it practical? Is it cultural? Do we just do things this way because we inherited these methods from the past, or is there real utility to it?
Philosophers think, meditate (reflect), challenge, and write/share/publish their ideas
What is the greatest joy of the philosopher? To think. To challenge. To pursue their personal curiosities, and to strive to find some sort of answer or reason behind things.
I also find it essential to not only think, meditate (reflect), and also publish. Even the philosophers of the past either orally shared their philosophies in the Agora, or wrote their philosophies in books. Today we can just blog them.
The philosopher channels their ego for a greater purpose
In Western philosophy, the ‘ego’ is seen as evil. To be ‘ego-centric’ is bad/evil, and to ‘have an ego’ is also considered bad/evil. In Western society, to prioritize the individual over the collective is seen as evil. Thus, in order to become more virtuous, one must become less ego-centric.
I say the opposite — the ego is good, and the ego is your personal tool and instrument for the greater good.
Beyond you
This is what I believe:
The more you pursue philosophy, the more BEYOND yourself you start to think. You start thinking hundreds and even thousands of years after your personal death, and you start to meditate questions for humanity and your own progeny.
And it isn’t about being ‘selfless’– it is that you just care so much for the future and the future of humanity that your own personal ‘happiness’ is no longer of much concern to you.
Empty your mind
The best way to start thinking more and becoming more philosophical is via-negativa — subtract noise, distractions, social media, email, text messages, TV, shows, Netflix, films, etc.
Ironically enough, one does not become wiser by reading more books on philosophy. In fact, as Nassim Taleb says– you become wiser by REMOVING junk and foolish ideas or distractions from your mind.
Subtraction
For example, if you desire to become more focused, rather than forcing yourself to ‘be focused’, much more effective to SUBTRACT distractions from your life.
Or if you desire to become more productive, rather than adding more Apple gadgets to your life, for example getting rid of my phone made me 1000x more productive than getting the newest iPhone or Apple tool.
Physiology
The philosopher is not a sickly, ‘skinny fat’, or anaemic individual. The philosopher is strong, robust, in great health, muscular legs and arms, upright position, healthy tan and skin, loves to be outdoors, loves people, sun exposure, lifting weights, and being a part of society.
The true philosopher also should deadlift. I say no philosopher can really philosophize about the body/and/or/mind unless they can deadlift at least 405 pounds (405 pounds for male philosophers, 315 pounds for female philosophers).
Why is the physiology of the philosopher so essential? Simple —
Much of the history of philosophy is beriddled by sickly individuals, who simply seek to understand why they themselves are suffering, and ultimately end up injecting their own malice and poison to others.
Why are we so fascinated by sickly individuals?
There is a bias that typically we are more interested in the morose, strange, and degenerate individual. Why? They are almost like circus animals– strange, foreign, and curious. They catch our attention.
It is almost like a car wreck– when we see a car wreck, we cannot help but not notice. As much as I hate rubber-necking on the freeway, when it is finally my turn to witness the car accident, I typically also slow down.
What is the purpose or end to philosophy?
The great thing about philosophy is that it is so multi-faceted. For me, it seems the end is more moral, ethical, and aesthetic.
Sociologically speaking– much of how our society is structured and governed is based on ethics and morals.
With art and creativity and photography, it is aesthetic.
Courage in philosophy
To me courage in philosophy is being able to stake a claim without having to piggy-back or quote someone else.
In fact, the biggest boon I got in reading all the old-school philosophers is this:
All the pre-socratic philosophers (who came BEFORE Socrates), were more aesthetic-poets, than being these ‘humble braggers’.
How can doing philosophy benefit you?
Philosophy is both practical and also fun. To muse on certain ideas in itself is a great joy, but also, studying philosophy and becoming more philosophical is practical. For example:
- Discovering more focus, purpose in your life
- Becoming more zen in life, less of the bad stress, and more of the good stress (eustress)
- A greater feeling of control over your personal fate and life
- Greater feelings of joy, general wellness and well-being, both physical and mental health.
- Ability to enact more impact in the world.
How to get started?
Truth be told, you don’t need to read any philosophers to become a philosopher. However it helps.
For myself, out of all the philosophers I have personally studied, the greatest ones who helped me include:
- Seneca (Epistles/Letters to Lucilius, and all his essays)
- Marcus Aurelius (Meditations)
- Diogenes
- Nassim Taleb (all his books — Antifragile and Skin in the Game as my favorites)
- Nietzsche (Will to Power, The Antichrist, The Joyful Wisdom)
- Peter Thiel (for tech/philosophy matters) — read ‘Zero to One’
- Heraclitus
Better to have a short and curated list of some personal favorite philosophers and just re-read their books and texts, than to try to get a buffet-selection of all the philosophers who existed.
How to share your philosophical musings
I say just blog it. Make your own self-hosted website/blog (wordpress.org), and use a host like bluehost.com or 1and1.com and just start blogging. Better to publish something and have a 1% chance of changing the perspective of 1 other human being on planet earth, than sitting quiet and not sharing your thoughts.
Why does my opinion matter?
Your opinion just means what you think. There is no right or wrong opinion; just personal or impersonal.
“Matter” — your potential to impact or enact change in others.
Once again — better to just share your opinion, and have a 1% chance of changing someone else’s perspective, than staying silent.
ERIC
Essays by KIM
- Imperfect Beauty
- The Philosophy of Pleasure
- What Interests You?
- Anti Theory of Everything
- Become?
- STRONGER OR NOT?
- Carte Blanche Ideals
- CHOOSE JOY
- Don’t Judge Your Impulses
- On Becoming Less Human
- COWARDICE.
- The Philosophy of Futurism
- PHILOSOPHY IS VALUE-SETTING
- PHILOSOPHY IS NOT LIFESTYLE
- WHY STANDARDIZATION IS BAD.
- YOUR OWN TABLE OF VALUES.
- RETRO IS BAD.
- INSANELY LOFTY THOUGHTS.
- Strive to *Lose* Weight, Not *Gain* Weight
- DIABLO II ANALOGIES FOR REAL LIFE.
- If You Know Your *WHY* You Can Discover Any *HOW*
- Life is Too Short to Be Miserable
- What Consumption Takes Skill?
- OFF THE GRID.
- REALITY IS CRUEL.
- Pain is Information
- WHY REMOVE VULGARITY AND DISORDER FROM OUR EYES?
- AUTOTELIC.
- UNPLUG.
- How to Become a Philosopher
- SUBOPTIMAL IS OPTIMAL
- THE LUST FOR MORE.
- TO DO IS TO BECOME.
- IN PRAISE OF AGGRESSIVE.
- THE PHILOSOPHY OF OPTIMISM
- OUR PHILOSOPHICAL WILL TO EXISTENCE
- Is Hope a Vice?
- MOVE MEAN
- Carte Blanche Ideals
- One Interesting Thought
- What Lasts? What Doesn’t Last?
- A WOUND STIMULATES THE RECUPERATIVE POWERS
- Children & Purpose
- Thoughts on Becoming a Parent
- Where Does Our Desire to Upgrade Come From?
- WE ALWAYS NEED SOMETHING FURTHER TO ASPIRE TO.
- Self-Task Yourself an Awesome Mission in Life
- Differentiation vs Equalization
- My Passion to *Become* Something More
- No Aesthetic or Ethos is Forever
- What is Your Higher Purpose in Life?
- IT WILL NEVER SATISFY YOU.
- How to Decide
- Things You *Want* to Do vs Things You *MUST* Do
- Towards a More Beautiful Mode of Existence and Future
- EXTREME GRATITUDE.
- AMAP (As Much as Possible) or None.
- Why or How Does it Matter?
- The Philosophy of Time and Events
- How *Not* to Resent
- FORWARD LOOKING
- DOMAIN FLEXIBILITY.
- The Miracle of Human Growth
- EXTREME ADAPTATION.
- Why Plan?
- You Don’t Need to Justify Yourself
- The Philosophy of Ego
- True vs False Passions
- How to Achieve Tranquility
- On Making Your Own Philosophy
- The Purpose of Life is to Create New Life
- Think On!
- The Wisdom of Doing Nothing
- Congruency
- My Thoughts on Meditation
- The Philosophy of Purpose
- Emulate Yourself
- Good Fear, Bad Fear
- For the Betterment of Humanity or Just Yourself?
- What you *really* believe in and care for is manifested through your actions (or non-actions)
- Why Culture is Your Enemy
- YOUR EXPERIENCES ARE KING.
- LIFE IS INHERENTLY GOOD.
- Artistic, Physical, and Philosophical Muscles
- All New Experiences are Good Experiences
- What is the Purpose of X?
- UTILITY.
- Philosophy is a Luxury
- The Attempt is More Interesting than the Result
- Joyfulness vs “Happinessâ€
- Effectiveness Over Happiness
- Self Actualization
- MAXIMAL ENGAGEMENT
- Life & Pain
- On Living Every Day with No Regret
- Learn as if you’re going to live forever, live as if you’re going to die tomorrow
- Live Every Day Like it Were the Last Day of Your Life
- Self-Determination
- FALSE GRATITUDE vs REAL GRATITUDE
- HOW TO LIVE MORE
- THE UPSIDE OF TRAGEDY
- Satisfaction is a Sucker’s Game
- Supreme Repose
- WHAT IS THE PURPOSE OF LIFE? According to ERIC KIM
- STUBBORN, FLEXIBLE
- EVERYTHING HAPPENS AS IT *SHOULD* HAVE HAD HAPPENED
- Good Addiction, Bad Addiction?
- What is the Best Life?
- The Philosophy of Thinking
- The Philosophy of Conspiracies
- Conspiracies
- Growth
- Skepticism.
- What Do You Really Want Out of Life?
- Seem or Be?
- Learn Through Pain
- Respect Yourself
- In Praise of Elitism
- Why Independent Thinking?
- I Will Never Die
- Bitter is Better
- The Genesis of Nihilism and Existential Dread
- The Ethics of Personal Enrichment
- Good vs Not Good
- Punished by Privilege
- Abstinence Over Moderation
- Just Leave Others Alone
- You Can Only Critique that Which You Truly Understand and Love
- ERIC KIM Critique of Metaphysics
- Only Trust Philosophers Who Deadlift
- Heuristic: If Someone Talks Shit About Others Behind Their Back, Most Likely They’re Also Talking Shit About You Behind Your Back
- Virtue is a Privilege
- What Are Your Life Goals?
- Honesty
- Why I’m Anti Moderation
- No Spite, No Malice.
- Ascending Life or Descending Life?
- Double Edged Sword
- Ignorance.
- Why I Don’t Trust “Nice Guysâ€
- Why You Must Share Your Opinion
- Selfish Isn’t Evil
- Wisdom is the Goal
- YOU ARE KING.
- MASTER YOURSELF
- What is “Good” for You is Often what is Bad for You
- Care.
- BITTERSWEET
- ONE REP MAX
- Morality and Ethics is the Snare
- BY HELPING YOURSELF, YOU BEST HELP OTHERS
- Insanity is Good.
- Think Deep.
- PHILOSOPHY IS THE FUTURE.
- Open Mind vs Closed Mind
- ENTHUSIASM IS GENIUS
- Towards a More Critical and Rigorous Line of Thinking
- How to Encourage and a Foster Independent and Free Thinking
- What is the Purpose of Life?
- WHY PHILOSOPHY IS SUPREME.
- Elitism.
- I Cannot Form an Opinion About Somebody Until I’ve Met Them in the Flesh
- ALL GENETICS ARE GOOD GENETICS.
- Happiness vs Freedom
- The Birth of a Hater
- My Way Isn’t the Right Way
- Walking as an Existential Thing
- Why I’m So Tolerant
- Mortal Gods
- THE HUMAN SPECIES
- Why I’m So Skeptical
- Just Follow the Money
- Why Selfish?
- WHY WE CANNOT BLAME OTHERS
- Why Are We So Anti Elitism?
- What Actually Interests You?
- How to Become Yourself
- SELF HATE
- Optimistic Fatalism
- Death is the Ultimate Creative Constraint
- FLUX.
- How to Think for Yourself
- FLESH
- How to Live the Best Life
- Why Live a Life Without Regrets?
- Why Plato Ruined Art and Aesthetics for Us
- Self Respect
- Hypocrite vs Contradict
- Ideals vs Reality
- Spaceship Philosophy
- What is Your Ideal Life?
- MY EXTREME GRATITUDE TOWARDS LIFE AND BEING ALIVE!
- Critique of Utilitarianism
- Don’t Treat Others the Way You Want to Be Treated
- The Eternal Recurrence of Tragedy and Joy in Life
- Elite Asceticism
- Why I Don’t Like Numbers
- Action and Reaction, Cause and Effect
- The Antidote to Nihilism: The Philosophy of Nothingness
- ERIC KIM Notes on Meditations by Marcus Aurelius
- EXPLOIT CHAOS.
- WHY I DON’T BELIEVE IN GENETICS
- Self-Wisdom
- The Future Belongs to the Fearless
- INDIVIDUALISM
- Why Live Forever?
- THIS TOO WILL PASS.
- Why Education?
- How to Become Yourself
- Things Shouldn’t Go Back to the Way They Used to Be
- Why Am I So Cruel?
- The Great Joy of Existence
- Virtue for the Sake of Virtue
- NO DISDAIN.
- INTELLIGENT IGNORANCE
- A LIFE WITHOUT PAIN, DIFFICULTY OR TRAGEDY ISN’T A LIFE WORTH LIVING
- BITTER IS BETTER.
- EXPLOIT THE BEST FROM TRAGEDY AND LIFEÂ
- DISREGARD FOR SELF-PRESERVATION
- PAIN.
- WHAT IF EVERYTHING IS NOT GONNA BE ALRIGHT?
- Tomorrow is Never
- Life is the Ultimate Creative Constraint
- EMBODIED REALITY
- BLACK SWAN
- THINGS WILL NEVER GO BACK TO THE WAY THEY USED TO BE
- What are you *really* afraid of?
- HAPPINESS ISN’T THE GOAL
- Philosophy is King
- Why is Selfish Evil?
- YOU’RE CONSTANTLY IN A STATE OF BECOMING
- ENTITLEMENT A SIN?
- NARCISSISM
- BE BRUTALLY HONEST WITH YOURSELF
- WHY FREE WILL?
- OBEY YOUR OPINION
- EGO IS GOOD.
- WHY IT IS GOOD TO BE INTO YOURSELF
- Seek the Good Pain
- Anti-Perfection in Photography, Art, and Life
- Can You Become an End into Yourself?
- WHY I LIVE
- Why I Hate Decline
- Why I Eat
- Why am I So Positive and Optimistic?
- EFFORT IS ENJOYMENT
- Never Stop Gaining
- TRUST YOURSELF
- A Life of Maximal Personal Independence
- What Do You Desire to Become?
- What Do I Want from Technology?
- Stratified Society
- Do You Love or Hate Reality?
- On the Brian, Body and Mind
- I’m Maximally Happy, Now What?
- Care over Fame
- ACTIVE NIHILISM
- Never Stop Subtracting
- How to Live a Happier and More Epic Life
- A Risker Life is a Better Life
- Only Work on Things You Can Imagine Doing for Eternity
- How to Maximize Your Happiness
- Influence
- The Gladiator Makes His Plans once He Enters the Ring
- Meditations on Meaning in Life
- There is Nothing More Interesting than Human Beings
- Is Hope a Vice?
- EGO
- Why Be Unique?
- Happiness is Metabolism Health and Strength
- You’re the Hero
- Is Productivity a Virtue or Vice?
- Why Do We Prize the Rare?
- The Joy of Uncertainty
- How Should I Best Use My Time and Life?
- A Life Without Pain or Suffering Isn’t a Life Worth Living
- Free or Unfree?
- What Do You Really Care For in Life?
- Anti-Satisfaction in Life
- Why Think?
- The Eternal Return
- Only Do What is Best for You!
- Truthiness
- Why Be Happy?
- Permissionless Living
- In Praise of Unconventional Wisdom
- Become the Change Which You Wish to See in the World
- Happiness
- Beyond Freedom
- Idolize People, Not Stuff
- What Makes You Stronger? What Makes You Weaker?
- Why Hate?
- The Secret of Happiness
- You’re Constantly in a State of Becoming
- Life is about Choices, Not Obligations
- Anti-Nihilism
- First, Do What is Best for You.
- Live Dynamic
- How to Prosper
- Is the Point of Life to Be Satisfied?
- SUPREME EFFORT OF WILL.
- How to Become more Idealistic
- Thrivival 101
- Create Yourself
- Non-Small
- Inspiration
- How to Live a Heroic Life: Dare the Heights!
- Human Augmentation
- Prune
- Happiness: Do What You Want to Do (And Don’t Do What You Don’t Want to Do)
- Avoid Vain (Empty) Pursuits in Life
- Modern Slavery
- Kill the Leeches
- Wisdom Augmentation
- Why We Need Friction in Life
- Straight Line Philosophy
- What’s Your End-Game in Life?
- Create Your Own Happiness Today
- Desire Both Pain and Pleasure in Life
- Try the Impossible
- SELF-RESPECT
- Anti-Social Extrovert
- Never Blame Anybody But Yourself
- Human Flourishing
- Simpler, Not Better.
- How to be Free
- Embrace the Extremes
- Cultivate Your Own Culture
- COURAGE.
- Thrivival
- Inner Power
- How to Live a Purposeful Life
- My Definition of Happiness
- Why Change is Good
- Why Work?
- How to Live the Happiest Possible Life
- The Two-Pronged Approach to Maximize Joy in Your Life
- You Always Have Another Option!
- INFINITISM
- Never Stop!
- What is Your Self-Directed Purpose in Life?
- Live Today Like it Were Your Last
- Do You Photograph to Live, or Live to Photograph?
- ARTIST-PHILOSOPHER
- Live Life to the Fullest!
- In Praise of Selfishness
- Why You Must Be a YAY-SAYER to Succeed in Entrepreneurship and Life
- Why I Love Walking
- Live Life Like a Video Game!
- Simple Luxuries in Life
- Treat Your Life Like a Fun Experiment!
- Only Prove it to Yourself
- You Don’t Always Need to Feel Joyful to Live a Fulfilling and Meaningful Life
- Life is Too Short to Be Bored!
- Money Cannot Destroy Boredom
- How to Find Inspiration in Life
- Why You Must Ignore Haters to Succeed and Win in Life
- An Active Life is a Happy Life
- My Simple Joys in Life
- Never Stop Striving
- How to Motivate Yourself in Life
- How to Be Optimistic in Life
- How to Dictate Your Purpose in Life
- In Praise of a Dynamic Life
- PURPOSE.
- How to Enjoy Life
- Photography Therapy
- How to Conquer Regret
- Take Your Play Very Seriously.
- How to Prosper
- Memento Vivere
- Destroy in Order to CREATE
- Trust Your Body More Than Your Mind
- Make Photos to Make Meaning in Your Life
- Seek Knowledge, Not Information
- The Purpose of Human Life
- How to Overcome Impedence
- Why I Love Death
- How to Be Centered in the Eternal Now
- How to Be Happy
- Why Do You Care What Others Think of You?
- Why I’m Happy
- Why?
- Why I’m So Prolific
- How to Reduce LAG in Life
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