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  • How to Become a More Courageous Photographer

    Conquer Courage

    Courage is everything. It is my personal thought that “success“ doesn’t matter. What matters instead is the degree and the level of courage you’re willing to put out, in the context of your own life goals.

    Your life

    Your own life is only this one. A thought:

    Let us assume that there is no afterlife, or no cognizant afterlife. If this were the only life you had, then, how would you live it?

    Some thoughts include having kids, because most likely, your kids will outlive you.

    Also, writing things down, and publishing them online. Or publishing them as open source PDF documents, or books, ensuring them online for free.

    Or, making YouTube videos, and vlogs, and putting them online, no advertisements.

    Your information will outlive you.

    I think deep down, all humans have some sort of built in biological altruism. That is, we care about others. We care about humanity and the human race.

    Therefore as a simple thought:

    In this one life you have, what do you desire to do, create, make, innovate, and share?

    For myself, at the first level I desire to empower other photographers. I remember when I started photography at the age of 18 years old, it was all so confusing. Also, all of the things that I read online, or in books were very unuseful. I seek to create the most motivational, helpful, and encouraging information in regards to photography. Thus my Photography 101 Series.

    Also in the domain of street photography; once again, seeking to empower, motivate, and share philosophical and pragmatic information and knowledge to help other photographers become more confident, courageous, and more certain of themselves and what they do. Also I just want other photographers to become happier.

    Physical courage and strength and photography

    Am I the first person to have thought that there is a link between physical strength, physical courage, and photography?

    For example, my 705 pound squat hold, atlas lift. As I have been increasing my personal physical strength, creating new personal records in my one repetition maximum list, I have become so insanely confident and strong, I am out of control.


  • HOW TO BECOME MORE COURAGEOUS

    Courage is king:

    Talent Management 2030 PDF

    GRAYISMS PDF

  • Human Biology

    Marines Talent Management 2030:

    In praise of older, more mature talent:

    Advancements in neuroscience since 1985 have significantly expanded our understanding of the human brain, which we now know does not fully develop until a person reaches their early to mid-twenties. Until that point, a person is psychologically at a deficit, more likely to make poor decisions and accept unnecessary risk, and less able to control impulses. Marine Corps safety data support this finding: our youngest Marines are responsible for a disproportionate share of the total costs to the service as a result of mishaps, both on- and off-duty. Our youngest Marines are also responsible for a disproportionate share of misconduct across the force. This simple fact of biology cannot be overcome by training, education, or leadership.

    Biology cannot be overcome by training, education, or leadership.

    More physically fit, more physically mature.

    Thought —

    More wisdom in the military, and military generals than others.

    General Gray — Grayisms as really fascinating.

  • White is Boring

  • THOUGHTS ON CRAFTING YOUR OWN IDEAL LIFE

    The ideal life as via negativa — what NOT to have to do or be concerned with!

  • GOD THOUGHTS.

  • Conquer Confidence

  • Intelligence and Fitness

    How to become a high-quality American?

    Retention over recruitment.

    Invest and retain.

  • True Incentives?

    What truly motivates people? I cannot speak for women, but let me speak for men:

    For men, I believe true motivators include the lust and desire to conquer, augment, to build, and also to destroy. I think men desire more power, both physiologically and metaphorically.

    How to Think Infinite

    Pay and money are not true motivators

    We are incentivized by greater challenges. The privilege of even more of a monster of a challenge!

  • Talent

    Talentum, talanton — weight, towards weighing gold.

    Idea:

    There is no such thing as “talented” people — the notion of “talent” is to simply weigh someone, and show their worth or value.

    Talent Management 2030 Design — towards lethality, effectiveness:

    Think space. Think cyber.

  • BOTTOM LINE UP FRONT

  • The War of Photography

    The War of Photography

  • Still So Much Left to Conquer

    Getting some good inspiration from the DOD in Photos:

  • How to Become a More Productive Photographer

    How to Become a More Productive Photographer

    The more photos you produce and make, the happier you will become:

    How-to-Become-a-More-Productive-Photographer-PDF TEXTDownload

    Why productive photography?

    To be a productive photographer simply means that you produce many photos. In modern day life, when we think about productivity, we tend to just think of people who are really good at sending emails and being responsive. This is not real productivity. Real productivity is actually creating and producing things, not to simply respond and be responsive to others.

    Muscle and Photography

    I have an interesting theory; I believe there is actually a deep link between muscle and photography. That, the more I build muscle, the more muscular I become, and the stronger I become, I also become a happier and more productive photographer.

    Delete Instagram

    The best way to become more motivated in your photography is to delete your Instagram. Also, just upload all your photos to your own website blog.

    No metrics

    Metrics are bad. Metrics mediocritizes. That means, the more you add metrics to something, the more mediocre you become.

    Why do we feel this pressure to always add metrics to everything? My theory is because the modern-day man has no self-esteem, and feels that in order to justify himself, or feel mighty and strong, he must tie his self-esteem and his self ego to a number, or metrics.

    However, how is this bad? Numbers are a slave mentality.

    There is no such thing as progress

    “Progress” is a modern notion, and also a bad notion.

    When you think about “progress“, typically it is tied to numbers. That when you see the number go up, it is a good thing. And when you see the numbers go down, it is a bad thing.

    However, numbers are a funny thing because sometimes when a number goes up it is good, and sometimes when the number goes down it is good. And sometimes when the number goes up it is bad, and sometimes when the number goes down it is bad. It is highly context dependent.

    For example, increasing your fat and adipose tissue and seeing the number go up is bad. To see your body fat percentage, and your adipose fat tissue going down is a good thing.

    The fewer followers, the better.

    The basic thought we have as photographers is that the more likes, comments, and the more followers we get, the better. But should this really be the goal? Maybe not. For example, assuming that we are the new Spartans, maybe it is better to see the numbers go down. Rather than having 1 million Persian slaves, better to have the elite spartan 300.

    Also a funny thing, when you see certain numbers go up, for example, enrollment numbers at a University of California university, it is typically seen as a bad thing. Better to be a Harvard or a Brown University, in which, the enrollment is actually very very low. To become more prestigious is actually to have fewer people.

    Or, let us consider a party. If you’re having a rich and famous Hollywood party, what is better, to have a single Kim Kardashian attend your party, or 1 million nobodies?

    Or with fashion, is it better to on 1000 articles of H&M clothing, or a handful of Balenciaga clothes?


    See the world from a child’s eyes

    What is the best way to see and experience the world? The purity of a child’s eyes. Child’s mind, child’s eyes.

    Spend more time with kids.

    For example, spending more time with my niece and nephew Benjamin and Amelia. Amelia is now seven years old, and she still has fresh eyes. Even more pure is Benjamin, who is only four years old.

    Even something I have discovered is that once kids enter school, they lose some purity of their mind. They fall more victim to trying to fit in, and their own true individual preferences become overshadowed by peer pressure, and trying to fit in.

    I really think that the traditional K-12 education, even the modern-day university system is bad for individuality and creativity. Even for myself, the last decade, I’ve been trying my best to unlearn, and desocialize myself from past biases.

    Kill our masters

    I believe a really big advance for our own creativity is to kill our past masters in photography. This means, disregard what our masters have said in the past, and we must start afresh. Start anew.

    What does master even mean? Master means maestro, teacher. At a certain point, we must become the teacher, we must become the master.

    Create your own new photographic mode of existence

    How to become your own master in photography:

    Realize and recognize that now, you are your own independent thinker, photographer, and you become the teacher.

    How can you teach photography? Simple — on your own blog, your own email newsletter, your own YouTube channel, your own podcast, etc.

    For example if we think about the Matrix, Morpheus was initially the teacher of Neo. But there’s a certain point in which Neo becomes the new master.

    Carte blanche it all.

    Carte blanche means blank slate. A fresh new piece of paper. A new fresh beginning, wiping the slate clean.

    Disregard all of the past bias in photography, and start new.

    ERIC


    Have a fresh new start in your photographic life

    Become a new photographer:

    1. Conquer your fears in Boston March 25
    2. Conquer innovation in Berkeley April 15
    3. Empty your mind in HADONG SOUTH KOREA June 19-23rd

    New Tools

    HAPTIC TOOLS to conquer it all:

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    3. MUSE BY KIM

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    Random News, things on my mind

    1. The Decisive Decade — National Defense Authorization — apparently President Biden just signed a new defense treaty, which is nearly $1 trillion. My practical thought is really at this point, money is just a fiction. Where did this $800 billion come from? Some nerd at a computer pressing a button. My long-term thought is this will continue to devalue the US dollar, and fiat currency in general. Maybe this is actually a good sign for crypto and Bitcoin. Money seems fake. I say now is a good time to start buying and hoarding more Bitcoin.
    2. How to think infinite
    3. Just hit the 705 pound squat lift atlas hold — feeling god mode.
    4. Infinite potential — the beauty of America and free enterprise is that technically, and entrepreneurially thinking, we have no limits.

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    Photo Assignments

    1. On your standalone digital camera, whether it be a Ricoh, a Leica, Fuji, etc., shoot everything that you eat and drink. I think this is a good strategy if you want to stop eating sugar, and other things that make you fat.
    2. Buy a GoPro, or the new GoPro mini, and just shoot it Ultra Wide mode, and record yourself lifting at the gym. Funny enough, I find that watching videos of myself working out is more motivating than watching other videos of other people working out.
    3. Stop using Lightroom. Just switch to Apple photos, and I also recommend getting an iPad Pro, the 11 inch, and using it to review all your photos. Also just shoot JPEG, the best way.

    More ideas

    1. Masters
    2. Street Hunt
    3. Modern Photographer

    HAPTIC PRESS


    “Better to make a bad photo that no photo.”

    EK


    EK PHOTO TURBO NEWSLETTER MOTIVATION


  • How to Become the Best Version of Yourself

  • How to Think Infinite

    On thinking infinite and beyond:

  • CEILINGS ARE BAD.

  • INFINITE POTENTIAL.

    Also infinite directions and opportunities. The upside of free enterprise, freedom of self employment, sole proprietorship, the freedom to be self employed, self owned, self directed.

  • DOMINATE IT ALL.

  • CEILINGS ARE BAD

  • INFINITE POSSIBILITIES

  • I WANT TO CONQUER IT ALL!

  • SUPER SAIYAN NO LIMITS.

    705 pounds and beyond

    EK TUBE

  • 705 POUND SQUAT LIFT ATLAS HOLD GOD MODE. #HYPELIFTING by ERIC KIM

    700 and beyond:

  • Become the Tastemaker

  • GOD MODE.

    How to go god mode:

    Just broke the 700 pound barrier for my atlas lift, squat push lift hold.

    New total: 705 pounds.

  • No two reps are the same or alike.

  • PRODUCE YOUR OWN HAPPINESS

    One rep max attempts at the gym!

  • PRODUCE YOUR OWN HEAT

    Literally and metaphorically. When it is cold, and you’re cold, just go to the gym and lift heavy!

  • Without health, none of it is worth it.

  • You are an instrument for thriving

  • Gut Decisions

    The best decisions are gut decisions.

  • Good News for Crypto and Bitcoin

    Good News for Crypto and Bitcoin

    Biden just pumped $800 billion dollars, around 1 trillion dollars into the Defense.gov US Military.

    Funny enough, this is a bad sign for fiat currency. Why? The more that the US government prints fake money to pump up the US military, assigned that somewhere, this system makes no sense.

  • How to Become Your Own Master in Photography

    Becoming Your Own Master in Photography

    EK TUBE

  • Future Fashion

  • Enterprise

    To undertake. In-between, take.

    Hendo — to seize. To hold.

  • The Decisive Decade

    The US military department of defense concept and strategy (PDF).

    National Defense Strategy—

    1. Building enduring advantages (integrated deterrence)
    2. Campaigning
    3. Anti authoritarianism (PRC — People Republic of China).
    4. United-States-ROK (Republic of Korea, South Korea)
    5. Gray Zone Activities
    6. Deterrence by Denial
    7. Lethal (anti access)
    8. Free Minds, Free Enterprise
  • The Fewer Followers, the Better

    All you need is 300.

  • How Fashion is Bad

    people want to buy beautiful clothes in order to become beautiful, but in fact, the only beauty is the body, your own human body.

    Instead of spending all that money on fashion, beautiful clothes, beautiful accessories, beautiful cars, beautiful bags, beautiful wallets, beautiful watches, etc., instead use that money time and effort at the gym, at yoga, weightlifting, and meat.

  • LOGOS ARE FOR LOSERS

  • How to Build a Demigod Bod

    How to Build a Demigod Bod

    In order to build a demigod body, some simple thoughts and strategies:

    1. First of all, intermittent fasting. This means no breakfast no lunch, only one massive dinner, one insanely massive and epic meal a day. And I also encourage a 100% carnivore diet, only exceptions include eating dark leafy greens, kale collard greens, or kimchi with no sugar added.
    2. For food, beef neckbones is really good, also lots of collagen, beef ribs, and also beef organ meats. Beef liver, beef hard, beef small intestines.
    3. At the gym, I recommend working out at least once a day. Ideally twice a day. This is the new modern luxury to be able to work out twice a day. Lately I’ve been working out twice a day, lifting weights at the gym, and also doing yoga with Cindy at CorePower. I really like the yoga sculpt class, which is essentially a hybrid class in between weightlifting and yoga. Or the C2 class, which is just a normal yoga class. The reason why I like both weightlifting and yoga is that I have discovered superficially the better I get at yoga, flexibility, poses etc., the stronger I become at the gym. Currently speaking, this is the strongest I’ve ever been in my life. My spine is also 1000 times stronger, I feel like my spine is made out of adamantine.

    Why demigod bod?

    There are certain things which are in our control, and certain things which are not in our control. One thing which is not in our control is how rich or famous we will become. However, one thing we do have the power of is how to craft and build our bodies.

    The body is democratic. All human beings, assuming that you have a normal bodily physiology, is more or less the same. I don’t believe in “genetics“, this is essentially the new racism 2.0.

    I truly believe that any human being, regardless of male or female can build a demigod body. Women should strive to become demigoddesses, and men should strive to become demigods.

    For men — Achilles is the goal. Or Hercules.

    For women — Athena, or Pallas Athene.


    No supplements

    No protein powder, no creatine, no pre-workout powder, no steroids, no testosterone, no synthol, etc.

    All you need is beef. Don’t eat chicken. Chicken is not meat, and not beef.

    Don’t eat fruits or vegetables. Fruit is just candy with a good conscience, and vegetables are just pretentious starch. I have never witnessed a vegan or vegetarian who looked like a demigod.

    Insanely epic hypelifting

    Rack pull, atlas lift, one rep max style:

    MUSCLE BY KIM:

    ERIC KIM 551 POUND DEADLIFT
    1. 150 POUND DUMBBELL DEADLIFT // MUSCLE HYPELIFTING BY KIM
      The Art of Hypelifting
    2. How Did ERIC KIM Get So Strong?
    3. ERIC KIM DEADLIFT PR (250KG, 551 POUNDS)
    4. ERIC KIM 255 KG (562 POUNDS) DEADLIFT ATTEMPT
    5. VLOG: WHAT I LEARNED AFTER DEADLIFTING 3.3X MY BODY WEIGHT (540 POUNDS)
    6. ERIC KIM 4 PLATE SQUAT
    7. MUSCLES ARE THE ULTIMATE WEALTH
    8. ERIC KIM GYM GOPRO POV
    9. *BEYOND* MAINTENANCE.
    10. HOW TO GET BIGGER ARMS
    11. THE BEAST KETTLEBELL WORKOUT (48 KG, 105 POUNDS)
    12. NOT WHO IS RICHER OR MORE SUCCESSFUL, BUT WHO CAN DEADLIFT MORE?
    13. KETTLEBELL HOME WORKOUT (48 KILOGRAM, 105 POUND): 1 HANDED CLEAN AND SQUAT
    14. The Philosophy of Fitness
    15. Menacing Body
    16. Hyper Nourishment
    17. One Man, One Kettlebell
    18. STRENGTH OVER SIZE
      Minimum Viable Workout (MVM)
    19. Movement is Art: ERIC KIM WARMUP
    20. ENJOY THE MOVEMENT.
    21. Strengthening or Weakening?
    22. Muscular Motivation
    23. Limit Your Reps, Maximize Your Power Output
    24. Love of the Body
    25. The mind is overrated; the body is king.
    26. BENCH PRESS GYM
    27. How to Squat
    28. SUMO DEADLIFT GYM
    29. ADRENALINE.

    Why build your body?

    Your own body as a work of art!

    In Praise of Building Your Body


    My Muscle Philosophy:

    Treat your body as sculpture.

    This is not my body

    The first thing:

    I don’t see my body as belonging to me. I look at my body like it belongs to someone else.

    When I look at the Lamborghini of someone else, I admire it. When I see the muscles and physiques of anyone else, I admire it. Then I had the epiphany:

    Why not transform my own body into a Lambo, and admire my own body instead?

    The logic

    The great logic:

    1. It is far cheaper to get buff than to buy a Lambo.
    2. The human body is the apex beauty. This means your personal goal in life should be to beautify your own personal body to the maximum (without plastic surgery, steroids, etc).
    3. Ultimate democratic approach: Genetics doesn’t matter. Sex doesn’t matter. Racial ethnicity doesn’t matter. Anyone can both add muscle mass and subtract fat.
    4. It doesn’t cost much to get ripped. Just intermittent fast [no breakfast, no lunch], one big ass meal a day, and mostly a ‘ketogenic’ diet.
    5. Your body is always with you. Why not beautify your body to inspire yourself?

    The joy of sculpting your own body

    To sculpt your own body is insanely fun. Why? You can see the change over time!

    Once again, the goal is simple:

    Never stop adding muscle mass, and never stop reducing body fat, or keeping it low (around 10%).

    Muscle and your body is highly practical.

    The more muscle you have, the more energy you got. The more power you got to make art-work, and live with gratitude, joy, and hyper-vigor.

    Strengthen on, and flex on!

    ERIC

    MUSCLE 101

    1. DUMBBELL SHOULDER OVERHEAD PRESS (1 ARM)
    2. What is the Ideal Male Form?
    3. How to Workout Quickly from Home
    4. How to Augment Your Muscle Mass
    5. Fat (Adipose Tissue) not ‘Health’
    6. To Be Happier, Just Workout at the Park
    7. ERIC KIM GOPRO POV WORKOUT VIDEO
    8. Why Become More Muscular?
    9. How to Get a 6 Pack
    10. Greedy for the Gains
    11. Simple Home Workout
    12. LAMB
    13. ERIC KIM FLEXES HIS MUSCLE
    14. ERIC KIM WORKS OUT AT HOME GYM
    15. More Muscle, More Productivity
    16. How to Increase Your Muscle Mass
    17. Extreme Vanity
    18. There is No Proper Form
    19. Why I Love Working Out
    20. Better to Powerlift and Deadlift Heavy One Rep Max Attempts than
    21. Drive Fast Cars and Motorcycles
    22. Why I Love Working Out at the Park
    23. RICOH WORKOUT
    24. YOUR BODY *IS* YOUR BANK ACCOUNT
    25. In Praise of Ghetto Workouts
    26. Rock Workout
    27. How to Workout
    28. Dynamic Warmup
    29. My Fitness Motivation Hacks
    30. Why Make Workout Videos?
    31. ERIC KIM FITNESS
    32. How to Lift Weights
    33. ERIC KIM WORKS OUT
    34. ERIC KIM ROCK PARK WORKOUT
    35. My Body is a Work of Art!
    36. Park Workout Ideas
    37. The Physiological Joy of Working Out
    38. Anti Body Body Shaming
    39. How to Workout at Home With Only a Barbell
    40. 11 Tips How to Use Photography to Get More Fit
    41. How to Lose Fat Fast
    42. Become More Creative With Your (Limited) Home Gym Workouts
    43. Flexibility is “Micro Strength”
    44. NEVER STOP GAINING MUSCLE
    45. ERIC KIM PARK LIFE
    46. How I Workout at my Home Gym
    47. In Praise of Pistol One Legged Squats
    48. Powerlifting Style Workouts at the Park
    49. The Philosophy of Bodybuilding
    50. YOUR BODY IS YOUR BANK ACCOUNT
    51. WHY I WORKOUT AT THE PARK
    52. How to Strengthen Your Rotator Cuff
    53. In Praise of Rings Workout
    54. How to Workout at the Park
    55. Why I Don’t Eat Breakfast or Lunch (In Praise of One Huge Dinner Meal a Day)
    56. HOW TO LOVE YOUR BODY
    57. Is Working Out at the Park Superior to Working Out at the Gym?
    58. Why I Workout
    59. WHY PHOTOGRAPHERS SHOULD WORKOUT
    60. How to Increase Your Testosterone
    61. My Workout Philosophy
    62. How Appearance Matters
    63. How I Workout at Home
    64. My Philosophy of Food
    65. The Best Park Workouts
    66. How to Quit Sugar
    67. How to Workout in the Streets and Park
    68. How Much Meat Can You Eat in a Day?
    69. APEX MALE MASCULINITY
    70. HOW I WORKOUT AT THE PARK
    71. How to Lose Fat
    72. How I Became Stronger and Buffer and More Swole During and After Quarantine
    73. What is Skinny-Fat?
    74. In Praise of Working Out at the Park
    75. Why Meat is Good
    76. Flesh over Metal
    77. Why Lower Your Bodyfat?
    78. How to Augment Your Recovery
    79. Increase Intensity, not Reps
    80. My Park Workout
    81. How to Fast
    82. HOW I WORKOUT FROM THE PARK
    83. How I Got So Swole
    84. Pure Power or Sculpture?
    85. How to Workout in the Streets
    86. How to Workout At Home With No Equipment
    87. Super Saiyan is the Goal
    88. MY POWERLIFTING PHILOSOPHY
    89. MY EXERCISE/WORKOUT PHILOSOPHY
    90. What if Mood Originates in the Stomach and Gut? Digestion Health
    91. Why I Don’t Consume Protein Powder or Supplements
    92. Real vs Fake // Natural vs Unnatural
    93. You Can’t Fake Strength
    94. How to Grow Your Muscles
    95. How to Add Muscle and Subtract Fat at the Same Time
    96. ERIC KIM BODY MUSCLE FLEX
    97. Don’t Build Muscle, Build Strength.
    98. Visual Kinesthesia: Muscles and Art
    99. How to Maximize Muscle Growth and Fat Loss

  • My New Favorite Clothes

    Lululemon clearance (we made too much) stuff —

    1. License to Train Shorts — Faded Zap is great. Size medium fits good.
    2. Metal Vent Tech T-Shirt 2.0 — Pink Clay is lit, Electric Lemon also looks good. Get size small to accentuate your muscles.
    3. Drysense Tshirt: Sonic Yellow looks good

    Paypal checkout through the Lululemon.com website is insanely frictionless!

  • Wear Size Small Tshirts

    Shows off your muscles better. Also the added benefit of feeling your muscles bulging, expanding under your shirt. A good motivator to keep lifting, working out, and getting even more swole?

  • MY PASSION IS BLOGGING!

    Can’t stop, won’t stop.

  • DEMIGOD BODY

    DEMIGOD BODY

    EK DEMIGOD BOD

  • Buy the most expensive thing you can afford, and own it forever

  • Don’t Optimize Yourself for Google

    Also, don’t optimize yourself for the machine, or any other algorithm!

  • The Atlas Lift

    The Atlas Lift

    Towards a new concept — the Atlas Lift:

    What is the concept?

    The concept is simple:

    Load up the barbell on a squat rack, and just see the maximal heavy weight you can lift up and hold on your shoulders, then put it back.

    Benefits

    1. Towards building a demigod body
  • Don’t fight back or respond.

  • Pressing Motions are Bad?

    They call it weight-lifting, not weight-pressing.

    Theory —

    Lifting exercises are good (rack pull, atlas lift), pressing motions are bad? (bench press, dumbbell press, floor press?)

  • How to Get Insanely Massive Arms

    Farmers walk. Rack pulls. Weighted chin-ups. Insanely heavy dumbbell deadlift.

  • LIT LIFTS

    700 pound atlas lift:

    7 plates and beyond, 700 pounds and beyond is lit:

  • WE MUST GO FASTER

  • Live Untethered

  • How to Become More Social

    How to Become More Social

    Become more social, become happier, stronger, and more!

    How-to-Become-More-Social-PDFDownload

    PODCAST VIDEO

    It is my personal thought in today’s world, to be social is a virtue. If you think about it, all success stems from the social.

    For example, much success is to be had when you network, meet investors, build business connections, etc.

    Also, assuming that you want to become a personality, start a YouTube channel or blog, etc., being more social is better than being less social.


    Experience this

    1. YouTube video vlog
    2. Blog post

    What holds us back?

    I think a lot of people are held back by the fear of making other people feel uncomfortable. However let us note, if somebody is uncomfortable by your behavior, that is their problem, not yours. I think it is better to attempt to be insanely friendly, and make somebody feel uncomfortable, rather than not to attempt it at all.

    Pragmatic exercises

    A very very simple thought is if you want to become more social, one of the best places to go to is the gym. Or you could go to yoga, just sign up for a CorePower membership.

    When you’re at the gym, don’t work out with headphones or AirPods on. This will give you the opportunity to talk to more people, and also let other people have the opportunity to talk to you.

    Much of our social life is held back by the fact that our social sensors, a.k.a. our eyes in our ears are blocked. Our eyes are blocked by our phones, and our ears are blocked by our headphones or AirPods. If you want to be more social, just keep your phone in your backpack, and also don’t bring headphones to the gym, and also don’t work out with headphones on.

    Get loud

    Something funny that I have discovered is as I have become more loud, hypelifting at the gym, yelling loud, I attract a lot of attention. And as a result, a lot of people actually come up to me and just start chatting with me. Thus ironically enough, to open up more avenues of social life, get louder.

    Also, when you see somebody that you like, somebody you want to talk to, or somebody who is just wearing a cool outfit or accessories, compliment them. Just approach them and compliment them on their clothes, shoes, accessories, look, etc. This can open up an opportunity for you to have a conversation with them.

    Joke around

    And the reason why I am so social is that I am like a big kid. I like to joke, have fun, be an entertainer and joker. I think a lot of people want to “look cool“, but in fact, that is just a signal of insecurity and lack of self-confidence.

    Street confidence

    A lot of street photography is confidence in the context of strangers on the streets. There is a silly bias in street photography that you’re not allowed to talk to people. I say it doesn’t matter whether you shoot it with permission or without, it just depends on the situation, what type of photo you want to make, and your mood.

    In fact, I believe it actually takes more courage to approach a stranger and ask for permission to make a portrait of them, than to shoot a candid photo of them.

    A very very simple way to approach a stranger and ask to make a portrait of them is to approach them, and say, excuse me sir, or excuse me miss, I love your look. Do you mind if I make a portrait of you?

    A simple way to build your confidence is approach a bunch of strangers and try to intentionally get rejected 10 times. The STREET NOTES approach // digital.

    Only talk to people you are genuinely interested in

    A simple thought is let your natural enthusiasm drive you. That means only interact and talk to people and socialize with people that you’re interested in. For example, if you get the sense that somebody has good vibes, just approach them and start talking to them. Tell them that you like their good vibes. I think it is a good idea to wear your heart on your sleeve.

    Ask people for their first and last name

    If you frequent the gym a lot, or go to yoga, or some other regular fitness activity like CrossFit, etc., get to know peoples names. Ideally their full first and last name. I also find that in order to remember someone’s name, I ask them whether they know somebody famous with the same first name. This just adds a little bit more friction to help you force to remember their name.

    Let us remember that there is no sweeter sound than the sound of our own name.

    Even my friend Timothy Flanagan tells me, after being a teacher for over 30 years, kids get easily offended if you don’t remember their name, yet they do not realize that a new teacher needs to remember at least 100 names.

    Even when I teach workshops, I have actually found that the number one critical thing to build a relationship with your student is to strive with all your strength to remember their name. Ideally their first and last.

    Go out.

    It is hard to be social if you just stay at home all day. Yet a lot of people want to stay home in order to “save money“. I say, maybe it is a good idea to eat out, go to restaurants, go to the local all you can eat Korean barbecue place in order to socialize with people you can socialize with — waitresses waiters and anybody else you encounter.

    Practice

    To be social as a practice. I say practice being social every day, all day. Better to make small talk, than to make no talk.

    Ask deep questions

    Surprisingly enough, one of the best ways to quickly build a rapport with somebody is to ask deep questions. Ask them about their life passions, life goals, etc. 99.9% of the time people will tell you honestly. Go big.

    No such thing as failure

    Better to attempt to be social, and get strange stares, to be laughed at or ignored than not to attempt it at all!

    ERIC


    Conquer your fears and meet new peers

    What can you become this new year?

    1. BOSTON
    2. BERKELEY
    3. HADONG SOUTH KOREA

    EK WORK


    New year, new photos

    Become more prolific this year!

    1. Creative everyday // print
    2. 30 days to jumpstart your photography
    3. Embark on your own photography adventure workflow

    More in HAPTIC SHOP


    New year, new confidence.

    Shed the old leaves. Become a new, better you!

    ERIC


    Confidence thoughts

    1. How to become more confident
    2. How to become more confident in yourself
    3. Become more confident through stoicism.
    4. How to become a demigod vlog // direct video link

    Share the confidence!

    Feeling more confident? Feel free to forward this to a friend needing a quick pump!

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    “That which doesn’t kill you makes you stronger.” – Nietzsche


  • Blasphemy

    To deceive. -(S)mel— erroneous.

    Also (s)mal— small, little.

  • How to Become a Demigod

    The goal is demigod —

    How do we go towards it? What does it mean?

    Video

  • New Masculinity

  • Why T-shirt

    Why T-shirt

    When atlas squat hold lifting 700 pounds with my sleeves rolled up sleeveless, the bar was so heavy that it digged into my shoulders and rubbed off some skin. Lesson — tshirt is good because it covers your shoulders a bit, better for squats!

    Second lesson —

    Don’t buy or use cutoff or sleeveless shirts when lifting insanely heavy weights at the gym — whether squats or rack pulls and beyond.

  • Anti Anaemic Models / People

    Why do all the male Lululemon models look so weak and anaemic?

    Lesson —

    Only use male models who lift weights!

  • More Dynamic, More Extreme

  • I AM A (DEMI)GOD

    I AM A (DEMI)GOD

    Glorify yourself:

  • I AM THE KING!

    KING KIM in the house

  • MUSCLE MONSTER

    MUSCLE MONSTER

  • FLESH IN THE GAME.

    Put your flesh at risk, at danger — at the front lines to take damage. You’re the defender, the avenger.

  • Unique.

  • Don’t Multitask

  • Standing Computing

    iPad Pro — no stupid keyboard, pencil, etc.

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