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  • WHY I LOVE MY BODY

    WHY I LOVE MY BODY

    VLOG: BEAUTIFUL BODY, BEAUTIFUL SOUL.

    Why I love my body:

    First I love my body because I crafted it myself. I enjoy lifting weights, and my muscles and body is a manifestation of my love of weight lifting.

    Second, I am happy and proud I did it without any strange chemicals, steroids, artificial or “natural” growth hormones. Purely meat and black coffee.

    Eric Kim back muscle flex GoPro vlog

    Third, a manifestation of my theories and training. For example, no protein powder, creatine, all while fasted. No meal in the ”golden 1 hour window” post training. I did everything ”unoptimally” and still got the gains.

    Eric Kim front muscle flex

    My body is mine.

    Fourth, I have pride in my body because it belongs to me. You’re born with only one body, and cannot swap it out for another body — irregardless of how rich or clever you are.

    Fifth, I like the way my face looks. A result of my natural testosterone, manliness, high muscle mass, and low bodyfat percentage.

    A ”perfect body”?

    Eric Kim squats heavy thumb up gym

    So once you have a “perfect body”, then what?

    Then the funny irony:

    Once you have a body you consider perfect, then you no longer think about your body.

    The via negativa body.

  • Don’t seek paradise

    Paradise is a trap. Instead seek forever dynamism.

  • Signs of wealth, signs of poverty

    The interesting thing is that in the states, obesity of the sign of poverty. However, in Southeast Asia and the developing world, obesity is a sign of wealth.

  • Goals hold you back.

    Goals hold you back.

    Rather, instead of goals instead … focus on continuous kaizen improvement, indefinite growth in strength!

    Ever ascending strength is the way!

  • MAX POWER.

    Because you don’t have time to wait!

  • Just put the whole idea within the title

    Assume as if people won’t click through and read it all.

  • Steroids should be permitted

    Ironically enough, allowing for steroid use will encourage NON-steroid use.

    By permitting steroids in powerlifting, you encourage more people to be curious what you can achieve without.

    More respect to people who admit to steroid use (Bjorn) than those who don’t admit it (Eddie Hall).

  • THE PHILOSOPHY OF THE BODY

    THE PHILOSOPHY OF THE BODY

    Beautiful body, beautiful mind:


    I would not trust a skinny fat guy philosophizing about beauty, the human soul, or the body.

    Why is this important? The body is real, the mind is not.

    Also, what manifests as our “mind“, is simply an offshoot of our body.

    Body therapy, not mind therapy

    The reason why this is such an important and radical idea is this: all of this talk about mental therapy, mental health, etc., is misguided. The focus should be bodily health, and physical health, not mental.

    Or another words, if your bodily health is great, your mental health will also be great.

    Why does nobody seem to have good mental health?

    Besides myself, I don’t really know anybody who has good mental health, nor good physical health. Why is this? My theory is that it seems like other guys are too dependent on steroids, drugs, alcohol, marijuana, or other unnatural things, protein powder, creatine, pre-workout powder, etc.

    Also, the problem is that the typical American is far too addicted to media, spends too much time indoors, and is typically an office slave.

    What does a beautiful or healthy body even mean?

    This is where philosophy is important; what is the meaning of a beautiful body, or a beautiful soul?

    The reason I cannot trust anybody as role models is that I don’t know whether they have taken steroids, or “cheated” or not. I can only trust myself in my own experiences. Because I cannot lie to myself.

    For example, my successful 540 pound deadlift, at a body weight of around 160-165 pounds, and at a height of around 5 foot 10 to 5 foot 11. Also, doing it all fasted, not eating breakfast or lunch. Also, Not using protein powder, creatine, pre-workout powder, steroids, drugs, human growth hormone, etc. in my strength building. Just plain old black coffee, and meat.

    Man or woman?

    I’m not gonna talk too much about female matters, because I am a man. I feel uneasy philosophizing too much about woman beauty, if I’m not a woman.

    As a man, I could comment about male aesthetics, and male beauty. My first thought is what do we really seek as men? I think it is to become more sexy. Not necessarily to become more buff, or bigger.

    For example, when it comes to women, it seems most women prefer more of the Brad Pitt physique in fight club, than the modern day bodybuilder look. In fact, it is only typically men who are more interested in becoming a super super massive, rather than being an attractive quality to women.

    Why is this? My theory is that humans we know what is naturally proportional and what is not naturally proportional. Even me, I was naive for so long, but essentially I’ve learned that when it comes down to it, essentially everybody is on steroids, or some unnatural form of human growth hormone. This includes not only bodybuilders, but powerlifters, strong man, cross fitters, even the people in yoga and the natural “calisthenics” crowd.

    Less adipose tissue

    My first thought is this: for man, to have less body fat, a.k.a. adipose tissue, is more attractive, sexy, and beautiful.

    What is the ideal? You don’t want it to be too low, as when men dip into the single digits for body fat percentage, they often lack testosterone and vigor. I suppose a good ideal it’s just whether you could see your six pack abs or not.

    Testosterone

    Then it seems like the next thing is this: to increase your testosterone, which is the life force energy of a man, as testosterone is the hormones which comes out of her testes. A.k.a. our balls.

    Now this is my critique; there are a lot of guys for slightly older, who rely on unnatural forms of testosterone injection to “even the playing field“. But I think this is a bad idea, as it probably negatively affects your health. If you’re a man who does external testosterone injections, your health will lesson, not improve.

    The more meat-based cholesterol you consume, the better

    Also, what is the most superior way to naturally boost your testosterone? Simple, consume more fatty red meat, more cholesterol, more organ meats like liver and heart.

    Cholesterol is the natural steroid. Therefore, if you want to boost your testosterone, consume more (meat based) cholesterol.

    Things you can control, things you cannot control.

    As an American, I like the idea that I have some control over my fate, and myself. I do not like the idea of being at the mercy of your genetics.

    This is the huge benefits of weightlifting, bodybuilding, powerlifting, etc.; there are certain things you cannot change about yourself, like your height, however, there are things you could change, like your muscle mass, your haircut, or your physical strength and valor.

    A big thing you can control at the gym, how much hype you exert, how loud you get, how loud you scream, I call this hypelifting.

    How I hype myself up >

    Beauty for the sake of what?

    Assuming that you’re already married and have a kid, what is the point of becoming more beautiful? I say it is partly for yourself; you look at yourself in the mirror 1 billion times a day, and you always yourself naked before you shower. Therefore, you want to look beautiful to yourself in your own eyes.

    Secondly, the more beautiful and strong your body, the more elevated wall your thoughts will be, creative artistic or philosophical. I trust no philosopher who doesn’t deadlift.

    For example, how can you trust a skinny fat, overfat male nerd, who is scrunched over his desk all day, commenting about masculinity and courage, when he has never attempted a one rep max lift in his life?

    Third, maybe it is a good idea to look sexy, in front of your spouse, if your goal is to have more children.

    Fourth, it seems that being more beautiful is also advantageous from a social economic perspective. For example, if I want to be in a Hollywood movie, I must look as handsome as Brad Pitt if not more handsome. In fact, I aspire to become the next Brad Pitt, which is good timing considering Korea is on the up and up. Being Korean American is finally an advantageous thing for me.

    ERIC

  • Round Numbers Hold You Back

    For example, Eddie Hall and the 500kg (prior) deadlift record, beaten by Hafþór Júlíus Björnsson in his 501kg deadlift. Why not 502kg deadlift, or beyond?

    With money, fame, influence — avoid round numbers, benchmarks or any numbers at all.

  • How to Build More Clout

    How to Build More Clout

    Clout — to ball up, amass.

    Perhaps clout is actually more important than money.


    1. Don’t be disingenuous

    The first simple thought is this: don’t be disingenuous. Everyone is honest in different ways; just stick to your own gut in terms of what feels right, and don’t do what you feel is “wrong“.

    The tricky thing is this; there will be certain times, when you speak what are you personally believe in, and, others will hate you for it. In other words:

    There will be times, in which you say something honestly, and are not disingenuous, yet you will be hated for it.

    Why is this important? If you desire to build clout, you need to build deep trust with other person. The suspicion that everyone always has, especially when it comes to the Internet:

    Why should I trust you?

    I know for myself personally, when I hear somebody say something very very unpopular, or unorthodox, my ears perk up and I’m actually more prone to listen to the person. Why? A lot of people who are “nice“ are actually very disingenuous, and have hidden motives. Or in other words, put more trust in the asshole, than a nice guy. Why? It is impossible to fake being an asshole. It is very easy to fake being a nice guy. Similarly speaking, whenever you’re traveling, in the Middle East or in India, never trust anybody who says “my friend“.

    Also, with our own personal relationships, real friends don’t call each other their friends; we just consider them as an extension of ourselves.

    So, if someone tells you, “I am so happy that you’re my friend”, be very suspicious. They are more likely to use you as a dependency, rather than being a true friend.

    2. Think at the decade plus level

    With Elon Musk, his success is at least 20 years plus. He has been building SpaceX and Tesla for a very very long time. It did not just happen overnight.

    I wonder if I actually agree with Peter Thiel; rather than “iterate “your way forward, better to set an interesting and audacious 10+ year goal, and pursue it with great vigor and tenacity.

    Why is it so difficult for people to think long-term? My theory is that it is just not that encouraged; also to think long-term is not natural. We see others right now with social media fame, and we want to emulate it. But if you think long-term, all social media platforms will soon die sooner or later.

    Do you remember my space, Napster, Flickr, live journal? Blogger?

    Even young kids, don’t use Facebook.

    Even in the world of photography, when I started off, it was all about Flickr. Now, nobody uses Flickr, and it is all about Instagram. But, sooner or later, people forget what Instagram is as well.

    3. Own your own platform

    Whwb I was in middle school in high school, xanga was popular for blogging. But finally one day, they deceased their services, and all the content which was created on Xanga was deleted.

    I am very happy that about a decade ago, I created my own website. Erickimphotography.com, which was registered through 1and1.com, which is now rebranded as ionos.com

    I am very happy that my website has lasted until now.

    Be very suspicious about building your own empire on foreign soil.

    For email newsletter, sendy.co — which is what I use here.

    For website and blog, WordPress.org

    The least bad service provider right now seems to be bluehost.com. I use ionos.com and don’t love it, but at least it works.


    4. Think video and vlogs

    We trust faces and voices more than abstract text.

    Make a YouTube channel for the sake of building clout, not money.

    For example, even my friend Timothy Flanagan told me:

    You had me sold on Cambodia after your first video!

    Note, after the first VIDEO, not blog post, article, newsletter, etc.

    5. Why do we put more faith in video than text or photo?

    Video because real life looks more like video than text or photo.

    I also like shooting vlogs on GoPro hero 10, ultra wide, 1080p, 24fps, disable blinking and disable front LCD because I can vlog and steam my thoughts without being self conscious.

    This is what I’ve learned:

    When I shoot a vlog and I can see myself in the LCD screen, if distracts me, and I cannot flow my words and ideas as easily.

    Also, it is insanely small (fits in your front left pocket) and you can vlog yourself or thoughts whenever inspiration strikes!

    6. Overthink your importance

    When I first discovered how influential I was, I was surprised. That top guys in Hollywood and Silicon Valley knew me, followed me and admired me — huge compliment. And this is what I discovered:

    My level of clout was always that high, but I didn’t realize it until AFTER I discovered the information.

    Thus the lesson: don’t be humble.

    Humility is a vice.

    Bragging isn’t the opposite of being humble. And to brag isn’t necessary. Just think in your own mind, solo, individually —

    I am insanely influential, and whatever I say and share can and WILL influence the top dogs.

    Thus, don’t sell yourself short. Don’t censor yourself.

    7. Clout for the sake of what?

    Ultimately what do you want to do with your clout? If you see your clout as a tool?

    I say—

    Use your clout to change the minds and souls of others.

    Also, my strategy:

    Share the knowledge ideas and information I wish I had access to when I was a kid, teenager, starting off, etc.

    For example, I would say my purest self was probably when I was either 12 years old, 14, 16, or 18, certainly before I went to college. In some ways, college corrupted me a little bit, and certainly life post-college corrupted me even further.

    What is purity? Purity is:

    Your own individual beliefs, before you learn to self censor yourself through “political correctness”, “woke talk”, etc.

    Also —

    Your mode of thinking BEFORE you gotta worry about the stressors of making money, “making a living”, etc.

    8. You already got clout

    This is the thing; everyone already has clout, simply it is different depending on where you live, who the people you have access to, the technologies you use, etc.

    Therefore, rather than desiring to wish you had access to clout of the elite in society, rather, take extreme pride in the clout you already got and leverage that to the maximum.

    Also, if you think about your clout as a ball, something which you amass and make bigger, to make the ball bigger is to gain clout is a gradual process.

    9. Seek the elite Spartan 300s

    One of the big biases that we have is that we think that having more followers is better. However this is false. Think yourself: would you rather have 300 followers, or 1 million followers?

    Now this is the nuance; of those 300 followers, would you rather have access to the 300 elite spartan warriors, and assuming that those 1 million followers were a bunch of Persian slave mercenaries?

    Or —

    Would you rather have the world’s most beautiful woman (one human being) as your wife, or access to ten million “average” women?

    I would prefer the first (Cindy).

    Don’t seek more followers for the sake of more followers. Very much like if you’re a bodybuilder, you don’t seek more weight for the sake of more weight. The goal is to increase the weight of your muscle mass (skeletal muscle), NOT the weight of your fat (adipose tissue).

    Numbers lie.

    10. Practical assignments

    1. Make your own self hosted website via bluehost.com and WordPress.org. Name it your first and last name .com (or first name last name photo .com)
    2. Make a YouTube channel and start uploading videos and vlogs. If you got a Google or Gmail account, you already got a YouTube channel. Just go to YouTube.com/upload and start uploading. Just use your iPhone, iPad or smartphone front camera. Or just use the video function of your standalone digital video camera. I used to even vlog on my RICOH GR III 28mm.
    3. Install the Google Amp Plug-in for your WordPress.org blog. Learn via https://amp.dev. For your theme use the Newspack theme.
    4. Open source it all. Make your photos and videos and audio freely open full resolution to download, no paywalls, etc. Open source as a life approach.

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  • LESS CULTURAL BAGGAGE.

    One of the big upsides of living in Cambodia is there is no cultural baggage, either for me or Cindy.

  • Who would be better at moving furniture, the long distance runner or the powerliflifter?

    I put my money on the powerlifter.

    My theory: a single one repetition maximum strength lift also translates into long-term muscular endurance?

    Also, if you could squat over 600 pounds, could you beat a long distance endurance athlete in a 100 meter short sprint?

  • The Chinese are more honest than Americans

    Chinese people as less fake, more honest what they want. No ideas of political correctness.

    Also the Chinese are more friendly, honest, and upfront.

  • Interoperability

    Not one or the other, but to make all of them interoperable.

  • AMERICA IS RACIST.

    AMERICA IS RACIST.

    Even Benjamin Franklin was a racist.

    “Why increase the sons of Africa by planting them in America, where we have so fair an opportunity, by excluding all blacks and Asians of increasing the lovely white?”

    Benjamin Franklin, 1751

    Via http://timothy-flanagan.com

  • HERETIC

    In today’s safe society better to become more heretical.

  • Pain addiction

    Why do people love getting tattoos, ad infinitum?

    My theory: perhaps people are addicted to the pain associated with getting a tattoo.

    Then a more interesting theory; perhaps pain is an addictive behavior. This is why people strive to find the meaning in pain and suffering in life, because in some ways,

    Pain is the feeling of pleasure.

  • Don’t use acronyms

    One of my British acquaintances told me something interesting, that we are Americans love to use acronyms for everything, assuming as if everyone knows what they are. However, that is not the case. Perhaps for greater clarity, best for us to not use acronyms, or if you do decide to use acronyms, Also in line text spell it out in full as well.

  • Americans are just bored.

    What drives American consumerism? Simple; Americans are just bored.

  • If you don’t like it, just unsubscribe from it or stop following it.

    If you don’t like me, just stop following me.

    The hidden irony; perhaps you should judge your success based on how many people unsubscribe or Unfollow you, rather than the positive.

    Then clout, impact and influence is via negativa; you become more influential as more people unfollow you.

  • When in doubt, just record it.

    The ethos of the vlogger. Just GoPro it.

  • Stimulants which are not caffeine or sugar?

    Embodied reality, street life, the gym, iron, and music as stimulants?

    Beautiful woman as also stimulants.

  • Street photography shouldn’t only be about surrealism

    Why is the bias for street photography only surrealist images? This is because we are all the followers of Henri Cartier Bresson, who is himself a surrealist.

    I like it how they call it “life photography“, or “street life photography“ in Vietnam. CHU VIET HA.

  • WHY OPEN SOURCE

    WHY OPEN SOURCE

    Simple — treat others the way you would like to be treated.

  • VIDEOPRESS.COM OVER YOUTUBE

    VIDEOPRESS.COM OVER YOUTUBE

    VideoPress.com — their tagline should be ”video freedom”, or ”video without distractions”.

    Part of a premium subscription service to Jetpack WordPress.com premium plugin.

    Why Videopress? Make it easy for your viewers to download your videos! And also, make it easy for you to download your own videos!

    Self hosted video is the future.

  • VLOG: HOW TO INCREASE YOUR CLOUT

    Vlog: How to increase your clout

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    How to Build More Clout

    Clout â€” to ball up, amass. 

    Perhaps clout is actually more important than money. 


    1. Don’t be disingenuous

    The first simple thought is this: don’t be disingenuous. Everyone is honest in different ways; just stick to your own gut in terms of what feels right, and don’t do what you feel is “wrong“.

    The tricky thing is this; there will be certain times, when you speak what are you personally believe in, and, others will hate you for it. In other words:

    There will be times, in which you say something honestly, and are not disingenuous, yet you will be hated for it. 

    Why is this important? If you desire to build clout, you need to build deep trust with other person. The suspicion that everyone always has, especially when it comes to the Internet: 

    Why should I trust you? 

    I know for myself personally, when I hear somebody say something very very unpopular, or unorthodox, my ears perk up and I’m actually more prone to listen to the person. Why? A lot of people who are “nice“ are actually very disingenuous, and have hidden motives. Or in other words, put more trust in the asshole, than a nice guy. Why? It is impossible to fake being an asshole. It is very easy to fake being a nice guy. Similarly speaking, whenever you’re traveling, in the Middle East or in India, never trust anybody who says “my friend“. 

    Also, with our own personal relationships, real friends don’t call each other their friends; we just consider them as an extension of ourselves. 

    So, if someone tells you, “I am so happy that you’re my friend”, be very suspicious. They are more likely to use you as a dependency, rather than being a true friend. 

    2. Think at the decade plus level

    With Elon Musk, his success is at least 20 years plus. He has been building SpaceX and Tesla for a very very long time. It did not just happen overnight. 

    I wonder if I actually agree with Peter Thiel; rather than “iterate “your way forward, better to set an interesting and audacious 10+ year goal, and pursue it with great vigor and tenacity. 

    Why is it so difficult for people to think long-term? My theory is that it is just not that encouraged; also to think long-term is not natural. We see others right now with social media fame, and we want to emulate it. But if you think long-term, all social media platforms will soon die sooner or later.

    Do you remember my space, Napster, Flickr, live journal? Blogger?

    Even young kids, don’t use Facebook. 

    Even in the world of photography, when I started off, it was all about Flickr. Now, nobody uses Flickr, and it is all about Instagram. But, sooner or later, people forget what Instagram is as well. 

    3. Own your own platform

    Whwb I was in middle school in high school, xanga was popular for blogging. But finally one day, they deceased their services, and all the content which was created on Xanga was deleted. 

    I am very happy that about a decade ago, I created my own website. Erickimphotography.com, which was registered through 1and1.com, which is now rebranded as ionos.com

    I am very happy that my website have us lasted until now. 

  • UNORTHODOX WORKOUT IDEAS

    1. FLOOR BENCH PRESS ATTEMPTS

    2. WEIGHTED CHINUPS

    3. Farmer’s Carry Deadlift

  • How to become more tenacious, how to improve your grip strength.

    The notion of tenacity, literally comes from tenere, which means hold onto. Therefore, it seems advantageous to improve your grip strength, both figuratively and literally.

    First, you can use an aid, like chalk. I don’t actually recommend using straps, hand or wrist straps, as it is a crutch.

    Also, one thing I’ve noticed is that you should consider using the most optimal equipment. For example, the big downside of doing deadlift with a straight bar, is that it rolls off and out of your hand. This is why powerlifters adopt a mixed grip, as the bar will not roll out of your hand. But the downside of using a mixed grip, is that it unevenly distributed the weight on your shoulders, pecs, biceps etc. This is simply wasted force. You do not want to waste any force, or waste any force transfer.

    A better approach is to use a trap bar, or a hex bar, as the neutral grip doesn’t slip. And if your grip slips, it is just because you are not strong enough (yet).

    Fun exercises at the gym

    I really like doing very very heavy chin ups, elevated on the platform, with a neutral grip. Range of motion is not important here.

    What is important is just strapping on a very very heavyweight (for example, three 25KG plates), using a chin up belt or a dip belt, a weight belt, and to just hold the grip as long as possible, until your grip gives out.

    Back in the states, I would often do this in my apartment gym, doing heavy weighted chin ups, with four 45-pound plates.

    Random thought; if you figuratively increase your hand grip strength, will this also increase your physiological, and self-motivated grip strength, your tenacity?

    I once read that one of the best predictors of life, longevity, and one’s strength is testing your grip strength. That older folks, with stronger grips, live longer and healthier, and better.

    How hard can you grip bro?

    Very interesting, first time this is happened to me. I gripped so hard, during my workout today, that blood came out, under my middle finger calluses.

  • SELF TRAINING

    Only you train yourself, according to your own rules and personal interests.

    Anti getting a personal trainer.

  • Why is everybody trying to become someone else?

    For example, why is everyone copying and trying to become Migos? Or trying to become Jay Z? Or trying to become Kanye? Or trying to become Elon Musk, or becoming Steve Jobs?

    Why does everyone try to become Arnold, or Ronnie?

    Why not just strive to become yourself?

    Even Migos, why are they trying to become old Migos?

    My interesting interventionalist thought: it is bad to even strive to become your past self. The best motivation, is to think about yourself right now, and the potential future you.

    I LIKE THE NEW EK.

    For example, bad for eric kim to try to become the old eric kim, back in downtown Los Angeles. Also, bad for eric kim trying to become the Berkeley Eric Kim. Also, bad for eric kim trying to become the Vietnam eric kim. The best Eric Kim is the Eric Kim right now, in Phnom Penh Cambodia.

    The best you is you right now.

    The best media is the newest media

    Don’t listen to old music. Just listen to new music. Don’t watch old movies, watch new movies.

  • GROWTH AND LIFE IS ALL AND PROGRESSION.

    “It’s all about progression”— JAY Z

  • Good reasons to go to the gym

    First, bowel movements. Second, water consumption. Third, sociability. Fourth, getting creative ideas. Fifth, a good change of scenery!

  • ANTI MODERN HUMANS

    Becoming modern means becoming less friendly, being more standoffish, being more isolated, sticking to yourself. Less social, less loud, etc.

    The more modern you become, the worse you become. Perhaps the more barbaric we become, the better.

  • Fun exercises

    The best way to become self motivated in working out and fitness is this; only do exercises which are genuinely fun for you.

    For example, never do any exercises that you feel like you “must“ to do, or “should“ do, in order to become more “balanced“.

    This is why I love powerlifting and hibernating so much, it is insanely fun for me an interesting. What I hated doing in the past was the silly programs, 24 sets of 10 repetitions, five sets of five repetitions, it’s a run

  • DOUBLE DIP.

    As ineffectiveness efficiency thing, think about how your double dip. For example, I really like walking, and walking to the gym which takes me about 30 minutes. During that walk, I could use my GoPro and just Vlog some thoughts. This is good.

  • Think BEYOND social media

    The best way to increase your clout and influence.

  • MAKE THEM JEALOUS,

    Show favoritism. Don’t hide it.

    Make them work for it. Make them work harder for your affection.

    Be selective.

  • What are we for?

    What are humans for?