Author: ERIC KIM

  • PRIDE.

    Self pride is the best pride. The only pride?

    Better to have pride in yourself, your own self innovations, rather than purchasing external innovation!

  • Man & Space

    It isn’t about men needing his “own space”, but rather … avenues for domination?

  • Real man never blame anybody else

    Never blame or even mention your wife, your kid, etc. Also never even blame yourself. You just do as you do!

    For example, non-manlike to say — I didn’t do or purchase X because she said she didn’t like it!

  • OBEDIENCE IS FOR SLAVES

    The real man as unable to be obedient.

  • INNOVATOR

    The passion of the innovator:

    The insane desire to create it!

    Not for the sake of becoming rich, but instead … the sublime self curiosity that the innovator has, and the desire to see it manifested in the world?

    Even to sell and market the product is an offshoot of the innovator who thinks:

    Wow, this thing I created is so great and sublime, I *MUST* share it with others and the world!

  • I hate big houses

    It takes too long to walk around!

    Better instead … smaller, but more luxury!

  • Nobody cares for pricing

    We don’t care for the price, we care for the thing.

  • Market research is bad

    Consumers have no taste. The creators and innovators must be the taste makers!

  • How *should* a man act and behave?

    The genesis of philosophy and virtue.

  • My triceps are super sore after the 940 pound atlas lift?

    What does it feel like the day after I atlas lifted 940 pounds on my shoulders successfully?

    Interestingly enough, I don’t really feel it at all in my back, not even my legs or hips. Instead, I felt it a lot in my triceps? Not even my shoulders or neck?

  • All the “-isms” seem like marketed and consumerist things and trends?

    For example feminism seems like to be a marketed and consumerist notion to get women to stay single, to stay consumers longer.

    Also for men, “manliness” and notions of masculinity… also marketed notions? Note all these muscle cars and sports cars marketed to men to become more tough, rugged. Same goes for these trucks and SUV’s.

  • LIFE THOUGHTS

    1. Your personal health (you, yourself, you as the individual) is the most supreme and critical. Never go a single day without working out. The night before, I skipped going to the gym, but as a consequence, it took me around 2 hours to fall asleep. Ironically enough then, going to the gym may seem like a ‘waste of time’, but if it helps you sleep, and *stay* asleep, it is critical.
    2. Never do anything to make other people ‘happy’. Typically it will lead to your own personal dishappiness. Also, other people tend to be implacable anyways (yourself included). So seeking ‘happiness’ for all parties seems like a foolish path.
  • HOW MEN AND WOMEN ARE AT ODDS

    Man is befuddled why woman doesn’t act and think like him. Women, the same.

  • FUTURE

    FUTURE VLOG

    THE FUTURE OR NOTHING:

  • INSANELY HIGH CEILINGS

    Better for our thought, thinking, ambitions?

  • ALL LUXURY EVERYTHING.

    1. Only luxury fabrics and clothes.
    2. Luxury disposable products?
  • WHY THIS ANTI MASCULINITY TREND?

    Theory, because masculine men cannot be controlled. Men who are unpredictable and independent and free spirited aren’t good for consumerism, capitalism, modern day society.

  • Male vs Female Writers

    There is a difference.

  • THANK GOD FOR THE CHINESE.

    Got this random ingrown toenails fixer, replete with these stainless steel sprinted extenders … only the Chinese would be smart and clever enough to actually come up with this, produce it and sell it to the American market! So smart.

  • MEAT, POWER, & PRODUCTIVITY

    The more meat you consume, the more powerful and productive you shall become?

  • Social Experiments

    The social scientist.

  • Social Skills

    Social Skills

    How to improve your social skills:


    FLEX AT AN UPCOMING ERIC KIM EXPERIENCE >


    Why?

    Something I believe deeply in is the future for social skills. Why? First and foremost, the prime consideration for humans is social. Without having other embodied humans around us, nothing is worth it.

    This is where modern day capitalism and consumerism is weird; rather than putting the emphasis on other human beings, it puts the emphasis instead on objects, nonhuman things. For example, we become obsessed with watches, cars, clothes, homes, etc. But the ultimate goal is instead, direction maximize our real life face time with other humans.

    Even zoom is bad. Why? To communicate with another human being that is not facilitated in the flesh is jarring.

    Even something that is interesting in regards to other human beings men and women, when I see them on the screen, versus in the flesh. Why in the flesh you could see subtle things like height. Height matters.

    For example, you could see pretty girls on Instagram or social media, or showing off their body parts. Yet, if you see them in real life, and they are very short and small, like 5 feet tall, or 4 foot 11, it is different. Even Aristotle once said, ”Is there such thing as a beautiful small woman?” Or for men,

    Short men are never a threat.

    For example, I am very fortunate that I am quite tall, around 5 foot 11 if I exaggerate. Realistically I’m more 5 foot 10, maybe 5 foot 10 1/2. But I always like to round up. I think in Korea I’m 180 centimeters, the golden standard.

    At the gym, I don’t really care if anyone is more buff or muscular than me, as long as I am taller than them, I still feel dominant.

    Why does height matter?

    Something that I have realized is there is a link and a connection between height and social class. Richer and more affluent people, higher class people tend to be taller. More poor working class people, or recent migrants are immigrants tend to be short.

    Why is this? My theory:

    In the past, there was an evolutionary benefit to height.

    For example, not always but often times taller men tend to be bigger and stronger. Therefore, a woman would find a tall and strong man as more powerful and strong and beneficial.

    Even for men, a trend that I see is that shorter men, or even medium sized men like the idea of marrying and having children with really really tall supermodels.

    Therefore my theory:

    A lot of short men tend to have a lot of money, and have the ability to attract really really tall super model women, and therefore their children and future generations of children keep getting taller and taller.


    How to stand taller

    You cannot change your height, but, you can change your posture. To stand upright, tall, shoulders back, chest up, chin up.

    For example, even a lot of taller guys who are very very tall I see hunched over, with very poor posture. This looks very unattractive.

    I also have another theory is that naturally, when your testosterone and muscle mass is high, and your body fat percentage low, your body will actually naturally assume a more dominant, upright posture.

    Even another funny thing that I say is in regards to ego; when I see my testosterone insanely high, when I’m about to hype myself up before a one rep max, let’s see my 940 pound atlas lift, and my half legging compression short short tights are rolled all the way up, exposing my bare demigod thighs, and also my compression shirt is rolled up showing off my midsection and my nipples, and I am in the zone, other men around me… I see their egos deflating. When your testosterone and ego is high, and other men witness this, maybe it is a zero sum thing in which their ego also deflates.

    Actually, maybe this is false. Instead, maybe only insecure men find me as a threat to their own masculinity. My new friend at the gym Taylor, insanely buff dude, always congratulates me after a successfully heavy lift. Theory:

    If you are a self-confident man, and you witness great feats of strength from other men, you will always congratulate them, rather than feeling small.

    Demigod hype >


    ERIC KIM WORKSHOPS

    1. DOMINATE SOCIAL SKILLS IN DOWNTOWN LA PHOTO AND LIFE
    2. SPREAD YOUR WINGS IN SAIGON VIETNAM
    3. CONQUER PHILLY

    What are you made of?


    Social skill techniques, experiments, approaches

    Some things you could do:

    1. Lock your headphones, AirPods, AirPods pros in a drawer, and don’t use them anymore. Instead, if you’re going to listen to music, just blast it on your iPhone at max volume, or play it off a bluetooth speaker. At the gym, go “raw dog” as my friend Kevin Hoang says. If you go to the gym without headphones or music on, the upside is you actually have the chance to talk to people! The gymnasium, the gym as a new social space to interact with other human beings.
    2. Practice hypelifting: The basic idea is that before you do a new one rep max, allow yourself to scream, shout, go primal, slap yourself in the face and legs, choke up, and just fucking lift it!
    3. Sign up for a yoga membership at a local yoga studio, whether it be CorePower or ra yoga. Chat with the person next to you, or when you’re in the locker room talk with other people there too. Think of going to a yoga studio as a social experience. Not “working out“
    4. Sign up for a local gym membership, which has a sauna. Make some small talk with other guys in the sauna.
    5. Cancel all of your media streaming services. If you want to socialize, just go to the gym, yoga, or the mall, and try to make small talk with anyone you meet.

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    Now what?

    The sociology of life and happiness:

    Live more public life, live more social!

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    Stoicism

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    1. Seneca
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  • Social Skills

    How to improve your social skills:


    FLEX AT AN UPCOMING ERIC KIM EXPERIENCE >


    Why?

    Something I believe deeply in is the future for social skills. Why? First and foremost, the prime consideration for humans is social. Without having other embodied humans around us, nothing is worth it.

    This is where modern day capitalism and consumerism is weird; rather than putting the emphasis on other human beings, it puts the emphasis instead on objects, nonhuman things. For example, we become obsessed with watches, cars, clothes, homes, etc. But the ultimate goal is instead, direction maximize our real life face time with other humans.

    Even zoom is bad. Why? To communicate with another human being that is not facilitated in the flesh is jarring.

    Even something that is interesting in regards to other human beings men and women, when I see them on the screen, versus in the flesh. Why in the flesh you could see subtle things like height. Height matters.

    For example, you could see pretty girls on Instagram or social media, or showing off their body parts. Yet, if you see them in real life, and they are very short and small, like 5 feet tall, or 4 foot 11, it is different. Even Aristotle once said, ”Is there such thing as a beautiful small woman?” Or for men,

    Short men are never a threat.

    For example, I am very fortunate that I am quite tall, around 5 foot 11 if I exaggerate. Realistically I’m more 5 foot 10, maybe 5 foot 10 1/2. But I always like to round up. I think in Korea I’m 180 centimeters, the golden standard.

    At the gym, I don’t really care if anyone is more buff or muscular than me, as long as I am taller than them, I still feel dominant.

    Why does height matter?

    Something that I have realized is there is a link and a connection between height and social class. Richer and more affluent people, higher class people tend to be taller. More poor working class people, or recent migrants are immigrants tend to be short.

    Why is this? My theory:

    In the past, there was an evolutionary benefit to height.

    For example, not always but often times taller men tend to be bigger and stronger. Therefore, a woman would find a tall and strong man as more powerful and strong and beneficial.

    Even for men, a trend that I see is that shorter men, or even medium sized men like the idea of marrying and having children with really really tall supermodels.

    Therefore my theory:

    A lot of short men tend to have a lot of money, and have the ability to attract really really tall super model women, and therefore their children and future generations of children keep getting taller and taller.

    How to stand taller

    You cannot change your height, but, you can change your posture. To stand upright, tall, shoulders back, chest up, chin up.

    For example, even a lot of taller guys who are very very tall I see hunched over, with very poor posture. This looks very unattractive.

    I also have another theory is that naturally, when your testosterone and muscle mass is high, and your body fat percentage low, your body will actually naturally assume a more dominant, upright posture.

    Even another funny thing that I say is in regards to ego; when I see my testosterone insanely high, when I’m about to hit myself up before a one rep max, let’s see my 940 pound atlas lift, and my half legging compression short short tights are rolled all the way up, exposing my bare demigod thighs, and also my compression shirt is rolled up showing off my midsection and my nipples, and I am in the zone, other men around me… I see their egos deflating. When your testosterone and ego is high, and other men witness this, maybe it is a zero sum thing in which their ego also deflates.

    Actually, maybe this is false. Instead, maybe only insecure men find me as a threat to their own masculinity. My new friend at the gym Taylor, insanely buff dude, always congratulate me after a successfully heavy lift. Theory:

    If you are a self-confident man, and you witness great feats of strength from other men, you will always congratulate them, rather than feeling small.

  • How to Peacock

    The virtuous art of showing off:

  • Money for the Sake of What?

    I believe there to be a different gender dynamic in regards to money; it seems that for women, money is a means for security and safety. For men, money as a means to increase our power and dominance.

    Or another words, manage your own money.

  • Peacock.

    How to peacock:

  • FUTURE-PROOF

    VIDEO

    Podcast

    Audio

    Difficult to ‘deep fake’ a voice, a vlog, and a video:

    FUTURE PROOF THOUGHTS:

  • HOW TO FIGHT THE AI (ARTIFICIAL INTELLIGENCE)

    In a world of CHAT GPT, I think 99% of the time, it will pass the Turing test (you don’t know if the text was written by a human or a robot). So instead, the solution:

    Produce more videos and vlogs.

    Certainly you can ‘deep fake’ a video, but still, the real *soul* and passion of a video cannot be faked!

    Or think, could an AI create a MATRIX, a GODFATHER, or even a John Wick?

  • What do men want from women?

    I don’t think it is necessarily sex, but instead … as fellow play mates, and fascination?

    Perfect women as rare birds?

    Man would not desire to inhabit this world without (beautiful) women.

  • FUTURE-PROOF

    How can we future-proof it?

  • HOW TO LIFT 940 POUNDS LIKE A DEMIGOD

    9 PLATES, A 35, AND A 2.5 POUNDER (ATTACHED VIA ERIC KIM BELT AND CARABINER), AND 55 POUND TEXAS POWER SQUAT BAR:

    VIDEO

    ATLAS LIFT IS THE WAY:

  • STRENGTHEN MY LEGS

    The next time someone asks me why or what the purpose of my atlas lift is, my response is simple:

    To strengthen my legs.

    Currently speaking, my legs are insane. There is nobody in the gym with as strong legs as mine! Or out there in general? Not on steroids?

    Theory:

    Do I have the strongest legs in the world, for a man who is not on steroids? 100% natty?

  • INSTINCTS VS SOCIETY

    The two are often at odds.

  • HOW TO GO DEMIGOD.

    940 pounds:

    Audio

    Podcast

    This is the way:

  • EVERYTHING HAPPENS FOR THE MOST SUPREME

    Everything happened not for a ‘reason’, but with enough fore-sight or hind-sight, everything in the long run … everything happened as it *should* have happened, for the most supreme best for you!

    Even things which in the moment seemed like disappointments or ‘bad’ outcomes, ultimately helped you in the long run!