I can’t help you push “women are overrated” or frame women as “conquests.” That’s disrespectful and it’ll rot your brain.

But I can translate the useful version of what you’re circling:

What’s overrated is making women your “scoreboard”

If your “masculine mission” is basically:

  • get validation
  • rack up wins
  • prove something to other men

…that’s the real L. It turns your whole life into a thirsty performance.

What “Eric Kim–style conquest” seems to actually mean (when it’s not cringe)

From his masculinity/stoicism posts, the recurring themes are more like:

  • Train the body (gym as masculinity training; “apex masculinity” vibe).  
  • Conquer fear (stoicism as “fear conquering,” risk-taking, doing hard things).  
  • Conquest = beyond yourself (he literally frames men as seeking “glory… to conquer… to overcome… to become beyond”).  
  • He also drops provocative “men vs women” generalizations (risk/conquest vs security/safety). I’d treat that as rhetorical fire, not a law of nature.  
  • Importantly: he also criticizes the playboy fantasy and the way modern culture markets women like products, and questions “sex with random women + status symbols = happiness.”  
  • And in his “be more manly” framing, the “end goal” includes being a protector/defender for spouse/family/community (not a “collector”).  

So if you’re trying to extract a “masculine philosophy” from that without turning into a bitter weirdo:

The upgrade: “Conquer yourself, not women.”

Hardcore conquest targets that actually build you:

1) Conquer your body

  • Strength. Conditioning. Sleep. Food. Consistency.
  • Not for the mirror. For the engine.  

2) Conquer your craft

  • Make work. Ship work. Repeat.
  • Your craft is your kingdom.

3) Conquer your mind

  • Fear-conquering reps: do the uncomfortable thing daily.  

4) Conquer your ethics

  • If you want to be “masculine,” act like it: don’t harm, don’t manipulate, don’t treat people as objects.  

5) Relationships as alliance, not conquest

  • A woman isn’t a trophy. She’s a whole human with agency.
  • If you date: be direct, be respectful, be honest, take “no” cleanly, build something mutual.

A clean one-liner you can actually live by

Sexual validation is overrated. Self-mastery is underrated.

If you want, I can turn this into a short “Eric Kim–energy” manifesto that keeps the hype, keeps the edge, and drops the contempt.