Based on my observations… Of strong men versus weak men.
I’m not 100% sure the genesis of weak men… But based on my general observations, a lot of men who are weak, super skinny skinny fat and feeble…  generally come from homes which are troublesome; for example, having a violent and physically abusive father who beat your mom in front of you, and you were helpless and powerless to do anything about it. 
Or, kind of the fatalism that I see a lot from people from Eastern Europe, the former Soviet block, in which for them… All is doom and gloom, irregardless of how good things are?
Also, a lot of this fatalism is draining. They just like to bitch and moan about how terrible everything is, and even when you show them real proof of how good things are… They refused to accept it, and they just want to keep on complaining and bitching and moaning about everything the whole planet, global warming, how there will no longer be a society elect for the next generation, while they have zero plans of actually having kids.
My very very simple solution is keep away from them; 
Aggie example… Let us see that you knew with 100% certainty that a certain person had Covid, or the flu… Would you go up to them, face-to-face, and let them talk at you for an hour, no face mask on, and as they are spitting their Covid germs and their flu germs at you… Certainly you’re going to get infected, whether you like it or not.
And then let’s say a few days later, or a week later you start to feel Covid symptoms, or flu symptoms… Aren’t you going to be kicking yourself in the butt, knowing that you should have known better?
So my simple stoic thought is simple — some people who are sick and disease… You don’t hate them or spite them for being sick or disease… But you just stay away.
People are sick, infected, disease germ ridden, or infectious in different ways, metaphorically literally, their soul, their personality… Even talking to them on the phone, FaceTiming them, or text messaging them or emailing them can spread infection.
I think the only people should ever ever care about is not your family, former friends or acquaintances etc.… But your true friends, maybe not even friends plural… Just one. Your best man, your best man at your wedding, only one other male so you would put your trust in, assuming that you died in a tragic car accident, the person you wouldn’t trust taking care of Your son or the rest of their lives.
Thinking about Achilles, essentially his best friend, his friend, his other man soulmate was Patroclus. There’s a lot of weird commentary that Achilles and Patroclus had some sort of weird homoerotic relationship, I think this is false… I think it’s based on a lot of scholars who try to exaggerate this strange notion. In the tent of Achilles, certainly Achilles is the alpha dog and man here, and his best man Patroclus this kind of like his side piece, his male sidekick. But both of them have beautiful women in bed.
Women playing video games?
Another very weird trend, you have 34-year-old women, 30-year-old women playing Diablo four, or World of Warcraft, quest, killing monsters, for the sake of what? 
Men who are into video games?
I have a certain theory… Essentially men, kids, teenagers, individuals who got into video games didn’t really have a father, father figure, or parental guidance growing up.
For example, the reason why so many kids from the hood or bad environments or neighborhoods end up getting into video games is because of an intelligent safety mechanism;  for example, let us say that you grew up in a dangerous neighborhood, with gangs, the smart strategy is to stay at home, play video games, watch anime, and avoid interacting with gang members.
Also… I see it now, when kids, whether boys or girls going to video games, playing video games on their cheap android tablets, essentially the issue here is that they don’t really have a father figure, parent figure, parent with enough physical vigor or strength to actually engage them. Or the parent is off at work, or doing something else.
Or, the parents themselves, are also impotent,  and they themselves are secretly watching Netflix, YouTube or Hulu, or playing video games late at night.
The very simple thought is that no man, past the age of 20 years old should play video games. I think it is OK ultimately if teenagers, before they go off to college play video games with each other whatever. But once you go to college, it is not For a man to play video games anymore.
What should a real man do instead? For his leisure, train in combat, weightlifting or whatever… Things that get their physical vigor up.
work is war ***