I was talking to a random Uber driver from Lagos Nigeria, and I asked him about things in America, and he told me that one of the big issues is that so many people are just living in pain. Very wise way to think about things.
Why? When others are in pain, the way they treat you or and try to engage with you is not fault.
Therefore when it comes to random people on the Internet, just think, the comments they give or things they say is just a reflection of their pain