For example, upload your videos first to your own VideoPress video library on your own WordPress website rather than YouTube.

Or creating things FIRST for your own website and blog, then sharing it later or reposting it elsewhere.

Also, perhaps in life — best to always prioritize yourself. Over your wife, kid, etc. Because if you take care of yourself, everyone else will flourish as well. Popular notions of self-sacrifice for the sake of others is a net negative for others.