An ethical thought: I never want any man to feel guilty towards me. For example, I don’t care when other people are late for my appointment, as I just use that time to read a book on my phone. Yet a lot of people when they show up late to my appointment, they feel really bad and guilty, and I want them not to feel guilty.

Therefore maybe an idea is this: treat others almost like myself. that is, I should not feel guilty, as I don’t want others to feel guilty about me.