Or why I’ve always been attracted to women with pretty faces:
1. Beautiful faces as a sign of health and good genetics and the chance for better offspring?
I’ve always found Cindy to have the perfect face. I’ve never met another girl or woman with as much of an attractive face. Beautiful big eyes, great facial proportions, full lips, etc. Even from my teenage years — the face was always supreme.
2. You cannot control how your face looks… to an extent.
The cruel reality is this:
There are just some people who aren’t gifted with “beautiful” faces.
We never were asked to be born. We were thrust into this merciless and cruel world without our own permission. We cannot change our generics, and our facial structure (morphology of our face). However some things you can control:
If you have more testosterone in your blood, your face will look more beautiful (for men and women).
Also, if you have less adipose body fat tissue, your face will look more attractive (body fat is evenly distributed around your whole body, including your face, organs, etc).
3. But what makes a beautiful face?
Difference between masculine and feminine beauty. Masculine means more chiseled, harder features, more aggressive look. For women, softer, more elegant and curved, but also relatively low in body fat. It seems the ideal bodyfat for a man is around 10%, a woman around 20%.
4. Racial preferences?
For myself ever since I was puberty onwards, I’ve always found the female Asian face the most beautiful. Preferably East-Asian/Southeast Asian. Why was this? My thought:
I wonder if there is an innate biological reason why we tend to be more attracted to those with a similar racial genetic makeup to us.
For example I remember in high school, I had a lot of friends and knew a lot of girls (Caucasian, Latina, South Asian, African, etc) who were objectively beautiful in my eyes — but I had zero sexual interest in them. I could look at these Caucasian and Latina girls and say:
You are objectively beautiful, a 10/10 for face.
But still… I wouldn’t want to sexually or romantically pursue them.
On a side note, I find myself very attracted to women who are “mixed”— either half Caucasian and half East-Asian, or have some East Asian, or Korean, or Southeast Asian, or Japanese blood in them. Perhaps this is because they kind of look like me? In other words, are we most attracted to people who look like us?
5. Porn preferences?
In Ex Machina, a great scene and reveal:
The crazy killer AI-woman who the male lead was suckered by was a compilation based on his (Google) sexual porn preferences.
In other words:
Let me look at your pornography habits, and inside your Google Chrome incognito history, and I will know your *true* sexual preferences.
For example, ask yourself:
Which type of girls do you jerk off to via porn, if you can actually see their face?
Or what type of faces or body types most attract you?
