The goal: yourself. You. My self.
When I talk to you, I’m actually talking to myself
When I talk to you, I’m actually embodying you as myself. My ideal reader is myself. Therefore whenever I give you advice or thoughts, it is as if I’m giving myself advice.
Being selfish is smart
To be into yourself, to be selfish is intelligent. To put the needs of others above yourself; this is insane.
When I help others, I help myself.
A truism I’ve discovered about myself:
When I help others, it is always in my own self-interest.
For example, when I help Cindy I help myself. If she’s maximally empowered, so am I. So my “selfless” behavior towards Cindy is actually selfish.
Why I help others
I only like to help others in whom I see myself. Dylan Fan; I see myself.
Why help yourself?
When I help myself, I feel happy, invigorated, and alive. When I help others, I feel my own ego and self becoming augmented. With my friends, I see my soul in them. When I help my friends, I help myself.

Be honest towards yourself
No guilt. Just become honest towards yourself. Don’t let others guilt or shame you into thinking otherwise.
Stay hard, stay firm, stay strong!
ERIC