In modern society, being shy is a huge disadvantage. Becoming less shy comes through training. Real thoughts:
- Start powerlifting. More testosterone means more social confidence.
- Test your limits. Strike up small talk with all strangers who you meet, and see if you can use words or phrases which make you seem interesting to them.
- Don’t censor yourself. Say what’s on your mind without obeying political correctness.
- Start off by asking everyone you interact with, “How you doing?” And when they ask you, don’t give a fake response.
- Make eye contact with strangers and smile! Say hello. Ask strangers for their hand and shake their hand.