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Mindset Foundation

Philosophical Roots of Chutzpah: Ground your mindset in philosophies that emphasize courage and audacity. Stoicism teaches focus on what you can control – your own attitude and actions – rather than external fears . This helps you conquer fear, doubt, and hesitation in everyday life . Zen principles add calm detachment – accept the present and let go of outcomes, so fear doesn’t stick. Embrace Nietzsche’s idea of the Übermensch (overman) – see yourself as rising beyond the “mere human” by setting insanely high personal standards . Eric Kim mixes these influences (Stoic resilience, Spartan toughness, Zen simplicity) to craft a fearless mindset . For example, he admires the Spartan saying about enemy arrows blocking the sun – “then we shall fight in the shade” – which turns a fearful threat into fuel for courage . Adopt this alchemy of mind: turn every intimidating situation into an opportunity to prove your boldness.

Unshakeable Self-Belief (Ego as a Creative Tool): Chutzpah requires supreme confidence in yourself and your vision. Give yourself permission to believe “I am bold, I dare” – a mantra derived from the Latin audeo . Eric Kim even advocates embracing your ego as a positive force rather than suppressing it . This means cultivating a strong internal ego that isn’t at the mercy of others’ opinions. Don’t “crowd-source your self-esteem” from social media or peers – approve of yourself first . Treat praise or criticism from others as trivial; what matters is your conviction in your work. Some actionable ego boosts: lift heavy weights to literally feel stronger and more confident (he says “the heavier weights you can lift, the more you augment your ego and self-esteem” ). “Demetricate” your life by detaching from numbers like likes, views, or followers – create for yourself, not for external validation. Challenge inherited rules and norms; question the ethics or standards you were handed, and redefine them on your terms . In short, build an ego fortress: know that you are great (or on your way to greatness), and use that self-belief as rocket fuel for creative risks.

Rewire Fear into Fuel: Instead of seeing fear as a stop sign, view it as a trigger for action. Physiologically, fear and excitement are similar – tell yourself you’re excited when nerves hit . Use the adrenaline to sharpen your performance. For example, the Spartans literally turned a fearful situation (darkness from a barrage of arrows) into motivation to “fight in the shade,” reframing dread as determination . Practice this mental judo daily: when you feel fear of doing something, interpret it as a signal that this is exactly what you should do (it’s likely the action that will make you grow). Eric Kim’s approach is to run toward discomfort. He argues that if you train yourself not to shy away from pain or difficulty, “you will be able to snap fear’s neck” . Visualize fear as a fire you can harness – like a steam engine, pressure can propel you forward. Every time you do something that scares you and come out alive, you teach your brain that fear is often just false evidence. Soon, what used to panic you will energize you instead. Fear is just excitement in need of direction. 💡

Daily Rituals

Morning Mindset Conditioning: Start each day by fortifying your boldness. Develop a morning routine that primes you for audacity:

• Empowering Affirmations: Begin with positive declarations that set a fearless tone. For instance, tell yourself: “I am stronger than any struggle,” “Negativity bounces off me,” or “Every setback is fuel for my rise.” Say them in the mirror with conviction . These aren’t cheesy pep talks – they’re mental conditioning. Research shows affirmations can lower stress and improve performance under pressure by replacing negative thought loops with positive expectations . Write a favorite mantra on a sticky note (e.g. “I dare boldly and create fearlessly”) and stick it on your bathroom mirror as a daily reminder.
• Bold Intent Journaling: Take 5 minutes to journal each morning. Write down your core intention for the day, focusing on confidence. A prompt: “What’s one bold action I will take today?” or “What would I do if I had zero fear?” Journaling your plans in this way cements your commitment and helps rewire your brain toward courage (it’s like rehearsing success on paper) . You can also jot a quick gratitude list with a twist – include things you’re proud you did bravely in the past. This builds a narrative of yourself as an audacious person.
• Cold Exposure: Consider ending your morning shower with 30 seconds of cold water. Deliberate cold exposure is like weightlifting for your willpower – it builds mental toughness and resilience . Eric Kim shares that cold showers taught him he can endure discomfort and even helped him wake up feeling invincible (equivalent to a triple espresso) . The first few seconds might shock you, but focus on breathing deeply through it. Each day try to stay a bit longer in the cold. You’ll notice that a hard blast of cold first thing makes other fears feel more manageable by comparison. It trains your brain: “If I can handle that, I can handle anything.”
• Walking Meditation: Go for a morning walk (even 10 minutes) without your phone. Use this time as a moving meditation to center yourself in a fearless mindset. Breathe deeply, feel your feet on the ground, and envision breathing out any overnight anxieties. This practice grounds you in the present. Walking is also a form of active Zen – it clears mental chatter. Many great philosophers and artists (Nietzsche, Jobs, etc.) walked daily to generate bold ideas. As you walk, perhaps repeat an affirmation with each step (e.g. “bold and free” in rhythm with your stride). By the time you get back, you’ve literally walked into a state of calm confidence for the day.

Micro-Exercises for Boldness Throughout the Day: Treat courage like a muscle you strengthen with frequent reps. Pepper your day with small challenges that keep your boldness levels high:

• “Boldness Snacks”: Every few hours, do a tiny act of courage. This could be as simple as making eye contact and smiling at a stranger on the street, giving an unsolicited compliment to someone (e.g. “Great tie!” or “Loved your point in the meeting”), or starting a chat with a coworker you haven’t spoken to before. These mini-actions keep you in the habit of being outgoing and brave. Remember Eric’s tip: assume everyone is eager to talk to you – it gives you the brazenness and courage to engage anyone . You’ll find most people respond warmly to positivity.
• Stretch Your Comfort Zones: Deliberately choose the “slightly uncomfortable” option in routine situations. If you’re shy about phone calls, call instead of texting once a day. Take a different route home and explore an unfamiliar neighborhood. If you usually avoid speaking up in a Zoom call, push yourself to say at least one opinion or idea. By consistently doing the small things that make you uncomfortable, you send yourself the message that fear doesn’t control you. Over time, your comfort zone expands.
• Physical Power Postures: During breaks, do a quick movement that makes you feel powerful. Stand up, roll your shoulders back, take a big stretch or do a couple of push-ups. Adopting a strong posture can immediately lift your confidence (your body sends signals to your mind). Eric Kim likes doing push-ups anywhere – home, cafe, park – and pushing past the point of pain to prove his strength . Even just a 30-second “victory pose” (arms outstretched as if you just won) can give you a jolt of positive energy.
• “Social Skills Gym”: Treat social interaction like exercise – something to practice regularly so you don’t get “flabby.” As Eric says, “social skills is a muscle – use it or lose it” . So give yourself tiny social challenges: ask your barista how their day is going, strike up a short conversation with the Uber driver, or chat with the person next to you in line. These low-stakes interactions keep your social bravery warmed up. You’ll find that initiating contact gets easier and more natural with each rep, and you become that person who can talk to anyone effortlessly.

By integrating these rituals into your day, you create an upward spiral of audacity. You’re not leaving courage to chance – you’re training it continually. Each morning you set the tone (“I am bold!”), and each micro-exercise reinforces the identity of someone who acts with chutzpah no matter the circumstance.

Creative Exercises

1. Street Photography Confidence Drills: Use street photography as a training ground for fearless creativity. The goal is to get comfortable interacting with people and taking risks in public with your art. Here are drills inspired by Eric Kim’s approach as a street photographer:

• Ask 10 Strangers for Their Portrait: This is the classic chutzpah challenge. Head out with your camera and approach strangers to ask if you can take their photo. Eric’s personal rule: if he finds someone interesting, he must ask to photograph them — no matter what . Adopt this rule yourself during the drill. Your mission isn’t to get 10 “yes” answers – it’s actually to collect 10 rejections! By aiming to get people to say “no,” you reframe the experience: a “no” is not failure, it’s the objective. You’ll likely be surprised how many say “yes,” but you won’t be upset if they don’t. This is exactly how Eric trained himself to love rejection and not take it personally . Each time someone declines or looks at you funny, just say “Thank you anyway!” and move on to the next. After getting 5–10 no’s in a row, you’ll realize rejection hasn’t harmed you at all – you’re literally the same person, unharmed and maybe even amused. Over time, your fear of asking will shrink, and you’ll start approaching people more boldly. (Pro-tip: keep a friendly smile, and lead with a genuine compliment like “Your style is fantastic – can I take your portrait?” It increases your chances and makes the interaction positive.)
• Point-Blank Photography (Getting Closer): Another drill to build audacity is to shoot with a wide-angle lens and get as close as one arm’s length from your subject . This feels scary at first, but it forces you to overcome the fear of intrusion. Pick a busy street and look for an interesting scene or character. Instead of zooming from across the road, move your feet and get right in the mix (always be respectful, but confident). Eric Kim found that “the best way to conquer your fear in street photography” was to jump into the deep end like this – using a 24mm or 28mm lens and coming in close . You’ll learn to hold your ground calmly even when people notice you. If someone catches you photographing them, don’t run away or pretend you weren’t (timidity only makes it awkward). Instead, follow Eric’s advice: smile, make eye contact and say “thank you” after snapping the shot . Often, the person will smile back or shrug. You defuse the tension by being friendly and owning your action without shame. This drill trains you to stop apologizing for your creative pursuits. You have a right to create art – act like it!
• Flash Street Photography (Advanced spice): If you really want to push your comfort zone, try doing some street portraits with a flash in daylight or at night. The sudden burst of light forces you to confront that feeling of “oh gosh, they’ll definitely notice me”. But it also produces dramatic, honest images. Eric’s fearless style often involves him standing just inches from strangers with a flash blazing – an approach even his critics call “fearless” and “confrontationally honest.” By practicing a few bold flash shots, you train yourself to be okay being seen. It’s a rush – your heart will pound the first few times, but afterward you’ll realize you survived and created something cool. (Always be polite if someone reacts negatively – a nod and a smile can smooth most situations. In practice, many people are flattered or curious when you explain you found them photo-worthy.)

Street Photography Drill – getting close with a wide-angle lens and flash. Eric Kim shot this portrait in Hollywood, 2011 using a flash at arm’s length. Such bold techniques teach you to embrace creative risks without fear .

2. Writing Challenges for Unapologetic Self-Expression: Writing is a direct line to your inner voice – it’s the perfect arena to practice being unfiltered and authentically bold.

• The “No-Edit” Freewrite: Set a timer for 10 minutes and write continuously about something you’re passionate about and a little afraid to say. It could be a personal experience, a strong opinion, a taboo topic – anything you typically hold back. Do not stop or censor yourself for the whole 10 minutes. Let the words spill out raw and real, as if no one in the world will ever read it. This trains you to silence the inner critic and just express. Afterwards, read it back and underline any sentences that feel most alive or true. Those nuggets are your authentic voice emerging. You can choose to share some of this writing (see next exercise) or keep it as your secret bravery training. The key is, you proved to yourself for 10 minutes that you can be completely unapologetic on the page – and the sky didn’t fall.
• Public Vulnerability Post: Take a story or aspect of yourself that you usually hide (a struggle, a failure, an insecurity) and craft a short blog post or social media post about it. This is scary – which is exactly why it will explode your confidence once you hit “publish.” 😅 As Eric advises, “share personal secrets you are afraid of others knowing – when you share what you fear, you liberate yourself” . Perhaps you’ll write about a time you were fired, a business that flopped, a personal flaw you’re working on, or an unconventional belief you hold. Frame it in a way that shows what you learned or why you care about it, so the act of sharing has purpose. The first time you do this, you might feel anxious about judgment. But many readers will likely respond positively to your honesty (you may even inspire them). Regardless of the response, you’ll realize that being open is powerful: you’ve taken what fear made into a shadow and dragged it into the light. It can’t hold shame over you anymore. Over time, these acts of radical honesty in your writing make you immune to others’ opinions – you become the author of your own narrative, not the audience.
• Opinion Piece with a Punch: Write a short essay or post taking a stand on something in your field of creativity. Maybe it’s a manifesto on why a certain rule should be broken, or a critique of the status quo. The key is to practice stating your views boldly, without watering them down. Use confident language – banish phrases like “I think maybe” or “just my two cents.” Even if internally you’re unsure, write as if you’re 100% convinced (you can always adjust later). For example, if you’re a photographer, you might write “Why I Shoot Manual and Never Look Back,” or if you’re a writer: “Why Genre Rules Are Meant to be Broken,” etc. State your case with vigor. Publishing such a piece feels risky (you might ruffle feathers), but it builds your tolerance for standing by your ideas. Not everyone will agree – that’s okay. In fact, that’s good. As Eric’s philosophy shows, trying to please everyone leads to mediocre art. You want to polarize a little; it means you have a spine. Post your piece on your blog or social media and welcome any debate as a sign that you’re making an impact. You’ll likely attract new supporters who resonate with your fearless perspective, strengthening your creative community.

3. Speaking Prompts for Fearless Public Communication: Chutzpah should echo in your voice, not just your mind. Practice speaking with confidence, whether one-on-one or to a group:

• Daily Stranger Chat: Challenge yourself to have a brief conversation with a new person every day. This could be as simple as chatting with someone in line at the store or a neighbor you usually just wave to. Use the Eric Kim opener: start with a compliment . “I like your T-shirt! Are you a Lakers fan?” or “Your dog is adorable, what’s his name?” This breaks the ice in a positive way. Then introduce yourself or ask an open question. The content isn’t important – it’s the act of initiating that builds your courage. Assume the other person does want to talk to you (carry that upbeat mindset that “everyone is happy to meet me”) . If the conversation is short, that’s fine. Walk away smiling that you exercised your boldness voice. Over time, these daily hellos will make you naturally more outgoing and fearless about approaching anyone.
• Toastmasters or Open Mic Nights: For a bigger stretch, join a public speaking club like Toastmasters or go to an open mic (could be storytelling, poetry, comedy – anything) and put your name on the roster. The structured format of Toastmasters is great for systematic practice – you’ll get used to speaking in front of friendly faces and get feedback. Open mics are a trial by fire – you step on a stage, heart pounding, and start talking. Both will inoculate you against stage fright. The first few times might be nerve-wracking, but by repetition, you’ll discover that you won’t die from embarrassment. In fact, you often feel exhilarated after speaking – that’s fear converted into thrill. Force yourself to go regularly (e.g. attend 1 open mic every week) as “exposure therapy” until being on a stage feels almost normal. This will spill over into everyday confidence: after you’ve told a story to a room full of strangers, speaking up in a meeting or voicing your opinion among friends will feel easy.
• Spontaneous Speech Drills: Here’s a fun exercise to do with a friend or even alone: practice giving a one-minute impromptu talk on a random topic. Pick any prompt (have a friend throw one at you, like “Why ice cream is amazing” or “The importance of taking risks”). Stand up and speak off-the-cuff for 60 seconds. Focus on projecting your voice and not saying “um” too much. The content can be nonsensical – what you’re really practicing is the ability to start talking confidently without preparation. This trains your brain to trust yourself in the moment. You learn to roll with whatever comes out. If you can get comfortable doing this in a low-stakes setting, you’ll be far less tongue-tied when a boss or client suddenly asks for your input. You’ll have muscle memory of speaking boldly, and it will kick in when needed.

These creative exercises – in visual art, writing, and speaking – are like a chutzpah bootcamp. They systematically desensitize you to the fears that hinder creative expression (fear of rejection, of judgment, of imperfection) and replace them with habits of bold action. The more you do them, the more being bold becomes your default setting. 🎨🖋️🎤

Social Disruption Missions

Sometimes you have to shock the system – really push your comfort zone – to realize how irrational the fear of public judgment is. Social disruption missions are playful experiments where you do things that might normally embarrass you, on purpose, to kill your fear of what people think. Think of it as exposure therapy for shyness. Research shows that deliberately doing embarrassing acts can help confront social anxiety and teach you that negative outcomes are usually minimal . Here are some missions to try (they’re meant to be a bit outrageous, so when you return to “normal” life, you feel invincible):

• Public Silly Act: Go to a public place (a busy sidewalk, a park) and do something silly for 30 seconds with full commitment. For example, set a timer and do a goofy dance on the sidewalk, or sing a Disney song out loud (bonus if a friend records you for laughs). Yes, people will notice – that’s the point. When the 30 seconds are up, just walk away like nothing happened. 💃 Reality check: Most onlookers will either smile, think you’re just a fun street performer, or ignore you. You’ll likely never see them again anyway. If you embarrass yourself publicly, it’s highly unlikely you’ll ever encounter those people again – so why fear their judgment? (They’ve already moved on with their day.) Doing this mission a few times trains you to not take yourself so seriously. You realize a moment of looking foolish has zero lasting damage. In fact, you often feel euphoric afterward, because you faced down a primal fear and survived. Each time, the fear of “making a fool of myself” loses more of its power over you.
• Eye Contact Challenge: This one is simpler but still uncomfortable: spend a day consciously making more eye contact than usual, and holding it a second longer than feels natural. With strangers you pass, briefly meet their eyes and smile. With coworkers or servers, really look at them when talking. If you normally look away quickly, force yourself to stay with that tiny discomfort. You might feel weird at first, but you’ll notice many people respond warmly, and others just carry on. It teaches you that being seen is not a threat. You don’t have to hide or make yourself smaller. Owning your presence in public (even nonverbally) is a form of everyday chutzpah. This mission builds a subtle but deep confidence and also makes you appear more confident to others.
• Wardrobe Shock Experiment: Wear something outrageously bold in public that pushes your comfort boundary. The idea is to stand out on purpose and realize it won’t kill you. Maybe it’s a loud, neon-colored outfit, an eccentric hat, or an edgy fashion statement you’ve been too shy to try. Walk through a crowded area dressed in your peacock gear and do your normal activities. At first you’ll be ultra-self-conscious, but after a while you acclimate and might even start to enjoy it. You’re telling your psyche: I have the right to be seen. Perhaps recall that many iconic figures (artists, rockstars, etc.) dressed flamboyantly – because making yourself visible is a sign of confidence. This mission will help you internalize that you control how you feel about yourself, not some random observer. By the end of the day, you’ll likely care a lot less about blending in. Next time you have an opportunity to express yourself (through style or voice), you’ll remember that you’ve literally walked around as “the weirdo” and the world didn’t end – so you’re free to be you.
• Radical Honesty Day: For an entire day, commit to radical honesty in your interactions. This doesn’t mean being rude or tactless; it means no white lies, no people-pleasing falsehoods. If someone asks your opinion, give it truthfully (with kindness). If you usually hide your needs or preferences, practice stating them plainly. Example: if friends choose a restaurant and you don’t like it, say “Actually, I’d prefer somewhere quieter – loud places make me anxious,” instead of suffering in silence. Or if you’re running late to work, instead of a vague excuse, just say “I overslept. It won’t happen again.” This mission is scary because we’re taught to mask so much in daily life to avoid judgment or conflict. But you’ll find that most people handle honesty better than expected – many will respect it. More importantly, you will start to feel a new sense of integrity and courage. You prove to yourself that you’re not responsible for managing everyone’s impressions of you. Your job is to be authentic; others’ reactions are their business. This is profoundly liberating. After a day of honesty, you’ll likely incorporate more of that bold transparency into your life going forward.
• Social Permission Slip: Do something in public you’d normally seek permission or validation for, without asking permission. For example, if there’s a closed-off VIP area at an event that you’re curious about, stroll in confidently as if you belong (worst case, someone asks you to leave – not a big deal). Or if you’re at a buffet and want a second dessert, take it without an apologetic comment. The idea is to stop asking for permission for every little thing and exercise the assumption that “I’m allowed to do this until someone stops me.” This mission can show you how often we needlessly hold ourselves back. Of course, use common sense and respect laws and boundaries – it’s more about psychological permission. You might be surprised how often no one stops you. The rope separating you from that “exclusive” section may have been more mental than real. By testing limits, you recalibrate your sense of what you’re entitled to do. This will bleed into your creative and professional life – you’ll be more likely to take initiative without waiting for an OK from others.

Throughout these missions, remember a crucial insight from psychology: the Spotlight Effect. We tend to vastly overestimate how much others notice or care about what we’re doing . In truth, most people are wrapped up in their own world and barely register our “embarrassing” antics. Realizing this is key – you aren’t as important to strangers as your anxiety makes you think (and that’s a good thing!). Internalize that, and you become free. As one Reddit quip put it: “Embarrassment is a social construct – the moment you start doing stuff to embarrass yourself on purpose is the moment you realize how little it matters.” .

After completing a few social disruption missions, you’ll likely develop a kind of superpower: non-reactivity to public opinion. You’ve proven to yourself that even if people see you fail, look silly, or stand out, you’re still fine – in fact, you’re stronger. This resilience will manifest in everyday situations: walking into a room of strangers with head high, speaking up when others might stay quiet, and generally carrying yourself with a fearless aura. You’re training to be unflappable and truly not give a f** (in the best way)* about trivial judgments.

(Caution: these missions are meant to stretch comfort zones, but not to traumatize. If any are too much for you, scale appropriately. The idea is progressive desensitization – start smaller if needed, and build up.)

Frameworks for Growth

Boldness isn’t a one-time act; it’s a continuous growth process. By implementing some personal frameworks, you ensure that your chutzpah keeps compounding over time. These systems will help you make courageous decisions quickly, track your progress, and turn setbacks into stepping stones.

Fast Decision-Making Systems (Bias Toward Bold Action): Chutzpah often means acting before your doubts paralyze you. Develop rules of thumb that push you to decide and act boldly without overthinking:

• The 5-Second Rule: If you have an impulse to do something bold (speak up, pitch an idea, approach someone), count “5-4-3-2-1…go!” and do it before your mind talks you out of it. This simple tool, popularized by Mel Robbins, interrupts hesitation. By launching into action within 5 seconds, you shut down the voice of fear. For example, you’re in a meeting and an idea pops up – you feel fear (“maybe it’s dumb”) creep in; instead, silently count down and then just start speaking. You can refine or explain as you go. More often than not, you’ll be glad you did. This trains you to trust your gut and move.
• Worst-Case Scenario Reframe: When facing a big risky decision, quickly map out the true worst-case outcome – you’ll often find it’s not as catastrophic as your fear suggests. Eric Kim did this when he considered leaving a traditional job to pursue photography/blogging full-time. His fear cycle went: “If I quit, I might go broke, then be homeless, starve, and die.” Writing it out made him realize how irrational that was – realistically, the worst case was moving back in with family for a while . Hardly death! He overcame the fear once he saw the real stakes. Do the same: jot down the chain of events you fear and then ask, is the final outcome truly deadly or just unpleasant? In modern life, true worst-cases (like literal starvation) are rare . Usually, you’d recover. This perspective frees you to act. A helpful maxim: “If the worst case is survivable (or more likely, unlikely), and the best case is life-changing, just do it.”
• “Hell Yes or No” Method: This is a filter to ensure you pursue things that excite you (which you’ll naturally be bolder about). When an opportunity or idea comes, gauge your gut reaction. Does it light you up (a “Hell yes!” feeling)? If yes, commit quickly. If you feel lukewarm or ambivalent, it’s probably a “no.” This way you channel your energy into bold moves you actually care about, instead of dithering on things that don’t thrill you. High performers often use this to avoid overcommitment and ensure passion in their choices. It also simplifies decisions – strong intuition = go, weak intuition = pass.
• 2-Minute Bravery Rule: Similar to above, if something can be done within 2 minutes and it scares you, do it immediately. For instance, hitting “send” on that email pitching your services to a dream client, or making that phone call you’ve been avoiding – if it’s brief but scary, count down and knock it out now. This prevents procrastination from magnifying the fear. Action beats anxiety.

By using these fast-decision frameworks, you cultivate a persona of someone who leaps while others linger. You’ll seize opportunities before fear shouts you down. And in hindsight, you’ll almost always be glad you tried, even if it doesn’t work out, because you gain experience and avoid the pain of regret.

Metrics to Measure Personal Courage: What gets measured gets improved. Create a “courage scoreboard” for yourself to gamify your growth:

• Rejection Counter: Keep track of how many times you get rejected or hear “no” each week in pursuit of your goals. This could include pitching your ideas, asking for collaborations, selling prints, asking people out – anything where no is a possible answer. Aim to increase this number! It means you’re taking swings. Eric Kim advises sending so many requests that you come to expect no response (e.g. send 100 cold emails expecting maybe 99 no’s) . One entrepreneur, Jia Jiang, even did 100 Days of Rejection Therapy – actively seeking one rejection a day to desensitize himself . The result: he became fearless and realized rejection isn’t a big deal. Adopt a smaller version for yourself: for example, try to get 3 rejections per week. If you haven’t been rejected in a while, it might mean you’re not stretching enough. Paradoxically, the more rejections you rack up, the more confident and successful you’ll likely become, because each “no” is proof you’re in the arena (and each “no” brings you closer to an eventual “yes”). Make it a badge of honor: journal your rejections with pride.
• Courage Journal / Log: Keep a daily log of acts of courage. Note at least one thing you did each day that required guts. It could be “spoke up about a problem at work,” “introduced myself to someone new,” “published a blog post about my true feelings,” etc. Some days might be big wins, other days small – all are counts. Review your journal each week and give yourself a score or gold star for each courageous act. You’ll start to see your frequency trend up, and you’ll have tangible proof of your progress. Also note outcomes: you’ll see that many fears turned out unfounded (e.g. “I thought speaking up would get me in trouble, but my boss actually appreciated it”). This reinforces positive feedback for brave behavior. Over time, you’ll identify which areas you’re consistently bold in and which need more work, allowing you to focus your training.
• Comfort Zone Expansion Map: Draw a two-circle diagram: inner circle is “Comfort,” outer circle is “Growth.” Each week, write down something new that entered your growth zone – something that used to freak you out that now feels easier. For example, maybe weeks ago, giving candid feedback was firmly outside your comfort zone, but after practicing, you’d now place it closer to or inside comfort. Track these movements. It’s a visual reminder that your comfort zone is expanding outward, swallowing up things that used to lie beyond. Aim to keep adding to the outer ring by tackling fresh challenges (e.g. “Attend an event alone,” “Ask for a raise,” “Run a workshop,” etc.). If a month goes by without any new dot in the growth ring, it’s a sign you might be coasting – time to up the ante with a new challenge.
• Courage KPIs: You can even invent specific metrics tailored to your life. For instance, if you’re a content creator, measure “posts published without fear” (maybe times you hit publish without over-editing or worrying). If you’re in sales, measure “daring client calls made.” If you’re dating, measure “new people approached.” Quantify the behavior, set a target (“I’ll initiate 5 difficult conversations this month”), and track it. Treat boldness like a skill with its own performance indicators. This helps you treat fear-conquering with the same seriousness one might treat fitness or finances – something you deliberately improve.

The point of metrics is not to remove the humanity from courage, but to give you concrete goals and proof of growth. It’s highly motivating to see numbers that once were zero climb into the dozens or hundreds. It also makes the pursuit of courage more like a game – and games are fun. You’ll start chasing that next “point” of courage with enthusiasm.

Turning Rejection & Failure into Momentum: A core trait of chutzpah is resilience – the ability to use every setback to fuel further action rather than shrink. Here’s how to alchemize “failure” into victory:

• Reframe “No” as “Not Yet”: Train yourself to hear “no” or “you can’t” as “try again differently”. Many highly successful people faced repeated rejections (writers with dozens of publisher rejections, entrepreneurs with failed startups) but they viewed each as learning, not a final verdict. When you get rejected, ask “What can I learn from this? How can I improve or try a new angle?” This turns the rejection into a research data point rather than an ego bruise. Every “no” contains feedback – maybe implicit, maybe you have to ask for it. Use that to refine your approach and then bounce back. By treating rejection as feedback, you’ll actually look forward to the next attempt armed with new insight. This growth mindset is key to maintaining momentum.
• Reward Yourself for Failure: This sounds odd, but it works. When you take a bold risk that doesn’t pan out, celebrate it. Say you give a public talk and it goes poorly, or you launch a product and hardly anyone buys – that hurts. But instead of slinking away, do something nice for yourself that evening (your favorite meal, watch a movie, whatever feels like a treat) because you did something courageous, regardless of outcome. By rewarding the action and not the result, you reinforce that being courageous is a win in itself. You’re conditioning yourself to be outcome-independent. Ironically, this makes you more likely to succeed long-term, because you’ll keep trying and innovating without fear-paralysis. Thomas Edison reframed his many “failed” lightbulb attempts as finding ways that didn’t work – necessary steps to find the way that would.
• The Bounce-Back Ritual: After a big disappointment or embarrassment, have a go-to ritual to get back on your feet quickly. It might be an intense workout (to blow off steam and chemically boost your mood), or calling a friend/mentor who always encourages you, or journaling about the experience to extract lessons and vent emotions. The goal is to shorten the downtime between falling and getting up. As Eric Kim emphasizes through his writings, steady onward march is vital – “stoutly proceed like a juggernaut busting through walls” no matter what . Imagine yourself like a boxer: you might get knocked down in Round 3, but you’ve trained to stand up by the count of 8, grin (even if bloody), and signal “bring it on” for the next round. Over time, failures start to feel like fuel. Each one gives you a bit more fire to prove you can adapt and overcome.
• “Next!” Mindset: Cultivate a mentality where after any rejection or flop, you immediately say “Next!” aloud (yes, actually say the word). This snaps you out of dwelling on the past and refocuses you on the future. Missed that sale? “Next!” Didn’t get the grant? “Next!” The faster you move to the next action, the less time fear has to metastasize into discouragement. It’s not about ignoring the loss – you’ll still analyze it – but it’s about not letting it stall your momentum. Think of it like surfing: if one wave knocks you off, you pop up on the board and paddle for the next wave. The more waves you attempt, the better surfer you become. Keeping that forward momentum is crucial to not lose the chutzpah you’ve been cultivating.

By implementing these frameworks – fast decisions, tracking courage, and resilient reframing – you create a self-correcting, self-improving cycle of bold behavior. You become a fearless decision-maker who moves quickly and learns rapidly. You measure what matters (courage, not comfort) and you wear your setbacks as badges of honor, not scars of shame.

Integration with Creative Practice

Chutzpah isn’t an abstract philosophy – it should directly fuel your creative work and innovative projects. This final section ties everything together: how to apply your audacious mindset to photography, blogging, art, or any creative/innovative endeavor, and in doing so, attract a devoted audience (your cult following) that resonates with your fearless authenticity.

Creativity Unleashed by Chutzpah: When you remove fear, your art can truly flourish. Here’s how to channel chutzpah into various creative domains:

• Photography: Dare to take the shots others wouldn’t. If you’re a photographer, push your boundaries in subject matter and technique. Eric Kim exemplifies this with his street photography – he’ll get ultra-close with a wide lens, use flash in unconventional ways, and photograph strangers with an audacious intimacy that gives his images a unique energy . Emulate this bold approach in your own style: photograph what intrigues or even scares you. Is there a type of scene or person you find intimidating to shoot? Go after it (respectfully). Climb rooftops for a different angle, kneel in the middle of the street for that perfect composition, ask that fascinating character for a portrait. The motto here is “Don’t think; just shoot” . Your creative intuition knows what it wants to capture – don’t let overthinking or worry about “is this allowed?” stop you. As Eric says, “better to shoot a bad photo than not shoot at all” . In the digital age, shots are cheap – take the risk and experiment. The most iconic photographs in history were often gutsy or even controversial in their time. By being fearless, you’ll create images that stand out for their honesty and impact. Over time, you’ll develop a signature style that’s authentically you, because you weren’t afraid to break some rules and follow your creative gut.
• Writing/Blogging: Write with your real voice – the one that might be a bit loud, weird, or “too much” for some, but deeply connects with others. Apply chutzpah by sharing ideas you truly believe in, even if they’re unconventional. Eric Kim’s blog, for instance, is full of passionate, unfiltered essays where he isn’t afraid to proclaim his philosophies (from declaring “Ego is good” to championing Stoicism to candidly discussing personal life). This candor and bold stance is exactly what has earned him a dedicated readership. To integrate this, stop second-guessing whether people will like what you write. Write what you feel compelled to say. If an opinion piece comes out a bit strong or a personal story a bit raw – that’s good. It means it has flavor. Bland content offends no one, but it inspires no one either. Accept that if you write boldly, some people will dislike or disagree – that’s a natural side effect of originality. In fact, Eric proposes that perhaps being disliked is preferable to being ignored . When a post sparks debate or even some hate, it’s evidence you touched a nerve. Don’t let negative feedback deter you: remind yourself of Eric’s attitude – haters can always unsubscribe; it’s your blog, your platform to speak your truth . Keep marching forward with your content like a juggernaut, immune to the slings and arrows . Practically, this might mean publishing more frequently (perfectionism be damned) and not diluting your message to be palatable. If you have a strong take on an industry trend, publish that fiery think-piece. If you want to mix genres or drop the polished academic tone for slang – do it! Your fearless content will attract your tribe – those who crave that authenticity. Which leads to…
• Innovation & Projects: Whether you’re developing a product, business, or art project, chutzpah will be your competitive edge. Be willing to try crazy ideas and pivot quickly without fear of looking foolish. The most groundbreaking innovations often seemed crazy at first. Cultivate what Peter Thiel calls a “missionary” mindset instead of a mercenary one – do things because you believe in them deeply, not because they are safe bets . For example, Eric Kim experimented with launching an online platform (Ars Beta) to change how photography feedback works . It was a bold vision (anonymous feedback, crypto elements) that many might have dismissed as impractical. Maybe it succeeded or maybe it “failed,” but either way it was a forward push that taught valuable lessons and set the stage for future ideas. Give yourself permission to innovate audaciously. If you’re an entrepreneur, that might mean targeting a market everyone says is too niche or using a business model others scoff at. If you’re an artist, it could mean mixing mediums in bizarre ways or staging an exhibition in an unconventional space. The framework is: if it excites you and hasn’t been done (or has been done safely), go for the version that scares you a little. When you encounter naysayers (and you will), channel your inner chutzpah to keep going. Consider adopting Eric’s experiment: declare everything you create as “open-source” or freely share your process – a radical generosity that defies the norm of guarded secrets . It might just set you apart as a true innovator unafraid of being copied because you’re always three steps ahead with new ideas.

Building a Cult-Following Through Fearless Content: As you consistently apply chutzpah to your creative practice, you’ll notice something amazing – your authenticity and boldness will attract a loyal audience organically. People are drawn to those who exude confidence and originality, because it’s rare and magnetic. Here’s how to cultivate that community:

• Be Polarizing (within reason): Don’t try to appeal to everyone – appeal wholeheartedly to your kind of people by being unabashedly yourself. It’s better to have 100 raving fans who love your unique style than 10,000 lukewarm followers who clicked “like” once and forget you. When you share fearless content, some will inevitably dislike it or not “get” it, and that’s fine. In fact, as Eric humorously notes, he might be “one of the most hated photographers” online by some circles – yet simultaneously, he’s beloved by an international community of fans who thrive on his energy . The lesson: if no one dislikes your work, you’re probably not strongly affecting anyone. Those who do connect will feel like they’ve found something special with you. They’ll become your evangelists. So embrace being a bit polarizing. This could mean taking a strong aesthetic stance (e.g. “HDR is awful photography – fight me” if that’s what you believe), or it could mean infusing your quirky humor that some might find odd but your fans find endearing. The world has 8 billion people – your authentic vibe will resonate with plenty, and you only need a subset to form a “cult” following. Let the others peel away.
• Engage Authentically with Your Audience: A cult following forms when people feel a personal connection to you and a shared identity with your mission. So, talk to your audience. Reply to comments and emails genuinely (don’t need a PR voice). Share behind-the-scenes peeks or personal anecdotes – this makes people feel invested in you, not just your work. Eric often shares personal stories (from fitness journeys to philosophical musings to daily life struggles) on his blog, which makes readers feel like friends on the journey with him. Create that sense of community and openness. For example, you could run Q&A sessions, start a newsletter where you speak more intimately, or even host meetups/workshops (online or offline) where you interact with your followers. When people see that you fearlessly present yourself and also care about them, they’ll go from casual followers to die-hard fans.
• Consistency & Evolution: Cult followings don’t form overnight – they brew through consistent output and a clear evolution that people can latch onto. Keep putting your fearless content out regularly so people know you’re serious and here to stay. Consistency builds trust. At the same time, show your growth and invite your audience along. “Hey, remember when I was terrified to do X? Here I am doing Y now!” This narrative of growth is inspiring; your audience feels like they’re part of a bigger story. For instance, if you started implementing this chutzpah program, share milestones: “A year ago I would never have spoken on stage. Last night I did my first live talk – here’s what I learned.” Your transparency and evolution will encourage others and deepen their loyalty to you, the bold leader of this little tribe.
• Stand for Something: All cult figures have a creed or a vibe that followers rally behind. What’s yours? It might be a slogan, a motto, or just an overarching ethos. Maybe it’s “Stay Bold, Stay Creative” or “No Fear, All Flow” – whatever encapsulates your philosophy. Use it often. This isn’t just marketing fluff – it’s a genuine beacon for like-minded souls. Eric Kim, for example, embodies the ethos of open-source knowledge sharing and “just shoot from the heart” in photography. His followers know that and buy into more than just a person – they buy into a mindset. Define your chutzpah-driven mission and articulate it. Your content then becomes not just about you but about a movement. And a movement is magnetic.

By infusing chutzpah into your art and interactions, you essentially differentiate yourself in a crowded world. You’re signaling: “I am not afraid to be myself and create what I want”. That energy is infectious. People who are tired of the safe and mundane will flock to you for inspiration and leadership. They’ll support your projects, buy your art, share your posts, because you represent something they value – freedom and boldness.

Remember, a cult following isn’t about numbers, it’s about intensity of connection. If your work changes one person’s life or mindset, that’s impactful. And when you operate fearlessly, you tend to change many more than one. Stay true to your voice, and trust that those who need to hear it will find you and stick around.

Congratulations – you’ve now got the blueprint for developing audacious confidence and fearless creativity! This program has given you philosophy to chew on, daily habits to build strength, exercises to push your creative limits, wild missions to shatter your comfort zone, and systems to keep you growing and accountable.

The journey won’t always be easy – you’re literally reconditioning years of fear-based programming – but it will be exhilarating. Every time you push through a fear, take a moment to acknowledge how badass that is. You’re becoming the kind of person that your previous self would look at and say, “Wow, I wish I could do that.”

Keep Eric Kim’s indestructible spirit in mind: bold, playful, experimental, and unapologetically alive. In his own words, “Your life is your art. Don’t give a fck about what others think – just do you.”* The more chutzpah you live with, the more life opens up its possibilities. Doors appear where none were visible before. People respond to you differently (with respect, admiration, or at least curiosity). Most importantly, you respect yourself – because you know you have the courage to honor your true desires and creative impulses.

So starting today, replace hesitation with action. When in doubt, err on the side of boldness. Cultivate that inner voice that says “Why not me?” and “Screw it, let’s try.” Use this manual as a living document – revisit the exercises, tweak the rituals, add your own flair. Chutzpah is both an art and a science; make it uniquely yours.

Now go forth and create fearlessly, live audaciously, and inspire others by example. The world belongs to the bold. It’s time to claim your place among them. 😉

Stay bold, stay hungry – your universe is unlimited!