I suppose a very very deep inside is, how to, how can you structure your life in such a way that, ,,, irregardless of ups or downs, you can always thrive from even the downsides?

Like the closest thing I think was uttered by Odysseus who said, while his men was being eaten by cyclops, and he survived… he said, perhaps one day we will even look back at this moment and smile.

So when you’re at like the deepest depths, how can we still smile?  And enjoy the journey?