The signal and the noise: it seems that my problem is that maybe I am too hypersensitive; I see signal when there is not signal, I see false patterns or false motives when there is none?
Perhaps this is a human fallacy; the problem and issue is that we see others as sinister, annoying, bad, with bad motives or whatever… But after a month later, thinking about it… I realize… I over-read the situation?
Lesson: before you make any judgment, wait at least a year?