Social media creates a box for you to fit into. You must cut off your limbs in order to fit into the box, rather than figuring out to create a new box to fit your own pre-existing self.
Or another consideration, instead of finding a shoe and then trying to force your foot to fit into it, isn’t it better to determine what your foot shape is, and then find the ideal shoe for it?
For example, I have wide feet. Most shoes are narrow. Therefore instead of trying to find a narrow shoe that fits me, isn’t it better for me to just look for wide shoes?