Another turbo thought: perhaps in life you should only pursue your great desires, rather than the lukewarm ones. How do you differentiate the both? Simple: just be insanely honest with yourself. You will naturally gravitate towards your strong and great desires, and the goal is to avoid your lukewarm and “meh” desires.
This is what I think: your strong desires are the ones which naturally arise within yourself. The lukewarm desires or the desires which are implanted in you by society.