For example, lots of small fires can be controlled but one really huge fire cannot.
So also perhaps in relationships, better to have lots of small little scuffles and arguments (which can be quickly and easily consoled) rather than one really huge argument which can lead to a divorce or even something worse which cannot be fixed.
Focus on minimizing your downside when it comes to error, and also be very anxious and paranoid when it can come to a really huge accident which can end your life (for example, best to be hyper paranoid when driving a car or riding a bicycle in a city), because these accidents can truly end your life or end up leaving you having some sort of permanent disfigurement.