Impossible to judge, understand or gauge people until you’ve met them in the flesh. Face to face. Sharing the same air. To talk with them in the flesh, look at them in the eye, hear their voice, studying their height and facial features and their physique, body composition and their physiology.
Why is this the case? The internet distorts. TV, media, YouTube, shows, movies, music, celebrity magazines distort and cherry pick things out of context. You can hear hearsay … but trust none of your heroes until you’ve met them in the flesh!