A thought:

In life, consider what your desired outcome is, and work backwards.

For example, you gotta ask yourself:

What do I REALLY want?

What do you really want from life, and how bad do you want it? What are you willing to sacrifice for it? Also, how do you best want to re-arrange your life or lifestyle in order to achieve your desired outcomes in life?

For example,

1. If your desired outcome is to empower your partner, change your actions or approach which empowers them.
2. If your desire is to make artwork, arrange your life to best give you the ability to make artwork!

Start with the end then work backwards.

ERIC KIM