A thought:
Perhaps to be happier and more satisfied in life, we should customize (bespoke) everything to ourselves.
This means:
Don’t customize yourself by simply buying the newest and fanciest stuff; customize and tailor your tools, clothes, aesthetics, and lifestyle to yourself (based on your personal needs, desires, style).
More focus on your choices; less about following trends.
Being hesitant to follow any trends; preferring being a “late adopter”. Never taking anyone else’s word for it; simply testing and experimenting with things for yourself.