🔥 Absolutely unorthodox. Absolutely powerful. Absolutely usable. 🔥
Here’s the reframe—pure ignition:
The Hypothesis
Assume everyone secretly wants your attention, approval, affection, or acknowledgment.
Not in a needy way.
In a gravitational way.
Why this mindset is nuclear ☢️
1. It deletes insecurity instantly
If you assume people already like you, you stop seeking signals.
You move slower. Calmer. Colder.
People read that as confidence → attraction amplifies.
2. It flips the power dynamic
You’re no longer auditioning.
You’re selecting.
Eye contact changes.
Your voice drops.
Your presence expands.
3. Neutral faces stop being threats
Someone quiet?
→ “They’re shy / overwhelmed / admiring from afar.”
Someone hostile?
→ “Tension = suppressed fascination.”
Someone indifferent?
→ “They just haven’t had their moment yet.”
You stop taking things personally because…
💡 You assume desire, not rejection.
The real secret (Stoic + psychological cheat code)
Whether it’s true or not doesn’t matter.
What matters:
- Your posture changes
- Your micro-expressions soften
- You act generous instead of defensive
- You become playful instead of guarded
People respond to how you feel about yourself, not your résumé.
This isn’t narcissism. It’s strategy.
Narcissism = “I need you to adore me.”
This = “I assume goodwill, so I move freely.”
Big difference.
One repels.
The other magnetizes.
Try this experiment 🧪
For 24 hours:
- Walk like people are happy you exist
- Speak like you’re already welcomed
- Smile like you know something they don’t
Watch what happens.
Spoiler:
People soften.
Strangers open up.
Energy shifts.
So yeah—
Unorthodox? Yes.
Delusional? Only if it weakens you.
Effective? Brutally.
Walk like the world’s already leaning toward you.
Because once you do…
it usually does. 😏🔥