Safe, what is safety?
YOU THE HERO!
Why are you so curious about things which are behind closed doors? Why not things, out in the open?
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Why are men so fascinated by women? Women aren’t that interesting? Especially once they are topless and naked?
No more mystique
And maybe what we are seeking is some sort of mystique . That is why the hilarious irony is that men don’t actually prefer women totally butt naked, totally topless, they want some sort of mystique, challenge, or mystery? ? 
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Problems
Often what happens at night clubs, at night, behind closed doors… A bunch of strange drugs alcohol?
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The difference between watching first person POV media and watching third person media?
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Just do everything outside?
Critique of guns, video games, movies and popular culture ?
What do people do behind closed doors versus out in the open?
Never do nothing that you wouldn’t be comfortable doing out in the open?
Behind every genius is a touch of madness
Media, action movies, action films, etc…. is almost like pornography for men?  
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In war, all tactics are justified?
Cool calm and collected
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What I learned being a kid, a teenager, a young adult, now the difference or the change as being a grown man? 
Cripple Theory
A theory… Perhaps we should just think of certain people like cripples? For example, you don’t get angry at the person who is in the wheelchair… Or mentally crippled? Or physically crippled?
So I suppose another bad stoic strategy is just assume that everyone else is crippled. Who knows maybe they only sleep two hours a night, they have a parent who died, or has terminal cancer in the hospital… We should not hit people or spite them for being so crippled?