Everybody has a different personality and constitution

Then why are we trying to make everybody same same?

For example, something very interesting I learned about Jeff Bezos is that when he wakes up, he “putters around“, which is that when he wakes up he is very inefficient wanders around a lot.

However, for me, I have a lust for action. I would prefer to make a coffee of the night before, stupid very strong like a cold brew the night before, in my clever dripper, wake up, pound a bunch of coffee, and then immediately go outside and hit the street. I have a passion to be outside.

Some people prefer to be homebodies, I don’t.

Then the big issue here is that some people who are homebodies tried to force everyone else to become homebodies. And also maybe conversely; people like myself always prefer to be out and about, also try to encourage other people to always be out and about.

Then maybe the simple keys this: don’t try to superimpose your own value judgments or value structure upon others, nor let others do that to you. Rather, turn it ear to the outside world, and think more critically about yourself, folks in on yourself.