THE WILL TO REFUSE, THE WILL TO REFUSAL.

My New Year’s resolution is via negative; this year funny enough, I will actually strive to be more stubborn, less acquiescing… less open minded .. no more taking the “suggestions” of others.

The hilarity of the situation is this; people “suggest “things for you to do or whatever, yet when you say “I’m good”, or say I don’t want to, or refuse… They call you the close minded one. But actually, if they give you a suggestion and you refuse, isn’t the proper and virtuous one for them to say “oh ok”— just a suggestion!