HOW DID THE MODERN DAY MAN BECOME SO SOFT?

Modern day society commands: thou shall be soft.

The problem:

In modern day times, to be soft and yielding “open minded”, “flexible“ is seen as a virtue?

“Niggas soft as bread” — Kanye

How did the modern-day man become so soft?

Butter?

Smooth like butter, like a … undercover (BTS)

Modern day man like butter?