So I think a critical issue here is that a lot of people seek some sort of ideal or perfect lifestyle, which is like the summit of perfection, and then sticker with it for the rest of their lives.

However the critical issue here is that once again, this assumes that your life is static not dynamic. For example once you have a kid, certainly your life must change, for the better!

For example this time around in Saigon, now that I got four-year-old 10, I’m spending like 80% the day at the park instead of the coffee shop. And this is a positively good and desirable thing!