For example, living with family or your in-laws; many many many many more benefits, 1000x benefits, but maybe 10,000X annoyances and downsides.

Therefore a simple idea; perhaps the best way to think about things and approach things is this: there seems to be an asymmetry here; the greater upside, the even greater your downside!

GREATER UPSIDES, (EVEN GREATER) DOWNSIDES