It seems that true fashion is when people conquer the fear of being ridiculed, and just do some thing in a certain way which they find interesting or suitable to them. For example at the gym, I’ve discovered that in fact, rolling up my shirt to become a crop top is positively advantageous when lifting really really heavy weights. Also, just wearing my compression have tight leggings shorts, and rolling it all the way up, up to the point it looks like a speedo, is also positively advantageous when lifting insanely heavy. The hilarity is that a lot of guys are afraid of doing this, because they are afraid of looking “gay“. But truth be told, when your masculinity is so high, being afraid of being called gay is not even a notion. Also it is good to realize that nobody cares if you are gay or not. In fact, the most masculine men actually act very “gay”— slapping the asses of other guys, doing ball taps, making inappropriate jokes, etc. It seems that the people who are the most homophobic actually end up closet gay, or maybe bi-curious.

I have some theories. Maybe the first one is a hormonal one, take your testosterone up. Intermittent fasting, stop drinking alcohol, stop smoking weed which kills your testosterone. Also, 100% carnivore diet, consume more dietary cholesterol, which is a natural steroid and natural testosterone booster.

Also, maybe from a stoic perspective, expect rejection or a bad outcome to happen, so at least you conquer the fear of rejection.

Also, maybe it is a good idea to have an insanely high elevated ego, and conquering the fear of looking like a show off. Maybe it is a virtue to be a show off.