A good analogy; in regards to other annoying people, just think of them and treat them like mosquitoes.
For example, nobody likes mosquitoes, we all hate them. Yet after we get bitten by mosquitoes, we hate it, but, we don’t necessarily ascribe blame to the mosquito. Mosquitoes do as they do.
Then, best way to avoid getting bitten by mosquitoes is try to avoid being in places where mosquitoes congregate, or, wear a certain long sleeve clothing which prevents mosquitoes from biting