{"id":666240,"date":"2025-05-10T04:21:13","date_gmt":"2025-05-10T08:21:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/?p=666240"},"modified":"2025-05-10T04:21:16","modified_gmt":"2025-05-10T08:21:16","slug":"youre-cooler-than-me-but-im-hotter-than-you","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/2025\/05\/10\/youre-cooler-than-me-but-im-hotter-than-you\/","title":{"rendered":"You\u00e2\u20ac\u2122re cooler than me but I\u00e2\u20ac\u2122m hotter than you?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>How to become hotter?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>\u00e2\u20ac\u0153This is why I\u00e2\u20ac\u2122m hot!\u00e2\u20ac\u009d &#8211; TI<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>Kind of funny lexical thing, \u00ef\u00bf\u00bc the difference between being cool and hot.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>For example, it seems that typically, being hotter is better than being cooler.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>For example, as a man, the desire is to get a hot girl, hot woman. <strong>The hottest girl in the club not the coolest girl in the club<\/strong>. \u00ef\u00bf\u00bc<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Actually if you think about it, what would a \u00e2\u20ac\u0153cool\u00e2\u20ac\u009d, girl even look like? Somebody who\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s kind of antisocial, doesn\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t make eye contact, is dressed kind of raggedly? Like my mom likes to say, \u00e2\u20ac\u0153<em>Raggedy Ann<\/em>\u00e2\u20ac\u009d\u00ef\u00bf\u00bc<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Then, you think about the woman in the red dress. Hot, full of fire\u00e2\u20ac\u00a6 A woman in a red dress will always be peak hotness.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In fact, even an interesting thought, when you go to yoga hot yoga or a studio or whatever\u00e2\u20ac\u00a6 We\u00e2\u20ac\u2122re in red could actually make you more attractive?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>For example, I even remember there was like this like older guy quite fit, doing hot yoga topless, with red shorts. It was very attractive.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And then you think about a hot rod, what color is the hot rod? Obviously red.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>With men, the weird thing is that hotness is typically not associated with men. Instead and rather, we talk about a guy being cool?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>One of the best things or phrases or concepts I learned in Vietnam is \u00e2\u20ac\u0153hot boy\u00e2\u20ac\u009d. In fact when I would go to the salon, I would just ask them to make me a \u00e2\u20ac\u0153hot boy\u00e2\u20ac\u009d haircut, \u00ef\u00bf\u00bcand they immediately knew what I meant.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Also what\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s interesting in Vietnam is that the men, are actually more flamboyant than the women. The men are very very hot, the women are a little bit more conservative? \u00ef\u00bf\u00bc<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I don\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t know if it\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s modern cultural media or whatever\u00e2\u20ac\u00a6 But, it seems that the modern day aesthetic for men is to be \u00e2\u20ac\u0153cool\u00e2\u20ac\u009d, always wearing sunglasses on the block your eyes, in some sort of ironic way, some sort of a hat to cover up your balding and or lack of a cool haircut, Facial hair to hide your double chin or triple chin., typically wearing some sort of long sleeve or droopy top layer clothing to hide your lack of muscles and physique and like of melanin and sun exposure and your lack of a tan, and, driving some sort of entry-level Porsche or Audi vehicle, to try to be cool?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But rather, I prefer this idea of becoming a hot boy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">how to become hotter?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00ef\u00bf\u00bcBecome more unplugged<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Most people are ugly? \u00ef\u00bf\u00bc\u00ef\u00bf\u00bc\u00ef\u00bf\u00bc<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>How to become hotter? \u00e2\u20ac\u0153This is why I\u00e2\u20ac\u2122m hot!\u00e2\u20ac\u009d &#8211; TI Kind of funny lexical thing, \u00ef\u00bf\u00bc the difference between being cool and hot. For example, it seems that typically, being hotter is better than being cooler. For example, as a man, the desire is to get a hot girl, hot woman. 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