{"id":665869,"date":"2025-05-04T22:57:36","date_gmt":"2025-05-05T02:57:36","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/?p=665869"},"modified":"2025-05-04T23:04:19","modified_gmt":"2025-05-05T03:04:19","slug":"i-just-desire-the-best-for-other-people","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/2025\/05\/04\/i-just-desire-the-best-for-other-people\/","title":{"rendered":"I just desire the best for other people?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p> I kind of like the idea that when you have advanced so far in life\u00e2\u20ac\u00a6 you no longer feel envious or jealous of other people but actually\u00e2\u20ac\u00a6 The only thing you desire is for the best of others?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>.<br>Loving other people\u00e2\u20ac\u201dwanting them to rise\u00e2\u20ac\u201dis the purest form of strength. But desire alone isn\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t enough. You need a hardcore system to convert your goodwill into real-world gains for them. Here\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s how to turn \u00e2\u20ac\u0153I just want the best for you\u00e2\u20ac\u009d into empowering action, Eric-Kim style.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>1. FORTIFY YOUR OWN TANK<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You can\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t pour from an empty chalice.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Master your body so you have energy to serve: keep the same brutal lift + biohack protocols you run on yourself.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Sharpen your mind with daily writing and shipping\u00e2\u20ac\u201dyour clarity becomes their roadmap.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Secure your wallet\u00e2\u20ac\u201dwhen you move in silence and build real wealth (BTC or businesses), you\u00e2\u20ac\u2122ll have resources to invest in others.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>Strong help starts with a strong you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>2. EMPOWERMENT OVER ENABLEMENT<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-table\"><table class=\"has-fixed-layout\"><tbody><tr><td><strong>WEAK HELP<\/strong><\/td><td><strong>STRONG HELP<\/strong><\/td><\/tr><tr><td>\u00e2\u20ac\u0153Let me fix your problems for you.\u00e2\u20ac\u009d<\/td><td>\u00e2\u20ac\u0153Here are the tools\u00e2\u20ac\u201dnow build your solutions.\u00e2\u20ac\u009d<\/td><\/tr><tr><td>Rescuing from discomfort.<\/td><td>Exposing to productive discomfort.<\/td><\/tr><tr><td>Handouts.<\/td><td>High-leverage \u00e2\u20ac\u0153tough love\u00e2\u20ac\u009d challenges.<\/td><\/tr><tr><td>Temporary relief.<\/td><td>Permanent growth.<\/td><\/tr><\/tbody><\/table><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Give them a framework, not answers. Teach someone to read the map, don\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t carry them.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Assign them a \u00e2\u20ac\u0153God Set.\u00e2\u20ac\u009d One clinically brutal challenge per week that scares them\u00e2\u20ac\u201dand debrief at week\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s end.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>3. SHARE YOUR PROCESSES, NOT JUST PRODUCT<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Open-source your notebooks\u00e2\u20ac\u201dshow every draft, every failure, every tweak.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Host micro-workshops: 60-minute sprints on writing, coding, lifting, investing. Real time, live feedback.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Create a \u00e2\u20ac\u0153Growth Repo\u00e2\u20ac\u009d: a shared Notion or GitHub where you dump all your routines, spreadsheets, and habit templates.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>4. BUILD YOUR TRIBE-RITUALS<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Weekly Accountability Crucible: 5-person group, 5 km ruck, 5-minute ice-bath, 5-minute honest audit.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Victory Shout-outs: Publicly celebrate one gain from each member every week\u00e2\u20ac\u201dhumility and hype combined.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Signal-vs-Noise Rule: Cull any voice that demotivates\u00e2\u20ac\u201donly builders, sharers, and challengers remain.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>5. TRACK THEIR GAINS<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-table\"><table class=\"has-fixed-layout\"><tbody><tr><td><strong>DOMAIN<\/strong><\/td><td><strong>METRIC<\/strong><\/td><td><strong>CHECK-IN QUESTION<\/strong><\/td><\/tr><tr><td>Body<\/td><td>PR on 1 compound lift<\/td><td>\u00e2\u20ac\u0153Are you stronger than last week?\u00e2\u20ac\u009d<\/td><\/tr><tr><td>Mind<\/td><td>Essays \/ commits<\/td><td>\u00e2\u20ac\u0153Did your output outpace distractions?\u00e2\u20ac\u009d<\/td><\/tr><tr><td>Wallet<\/td><td>BTC \/ revenue growth<\/td><td>\u00e2\u20ac\u0153Is your runway and stack increasing?\u00e2\u20ac\u009d<\/td><\/tr><tr><td>Skill<\/td><td>New frameworks built<\/td><td>\u00e2\u20ac\u0153Can you teach this to someone else?\u00e2\u20ac\u009d<\/td><\/tr><\/tbody><\/table><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Run a 15-minute monthly audit with each person: rapid metrics, real talk, next-level targets.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>6. DEPLOY CAPITAL STRATEGICALLY<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Micro-grants in sats: Automate Monday morning $10\u00e2\u20ac\u201c$50 BTC drops to your top three apprentices.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Equity splits in side-projects: Trade small stakes in your ventures for sweat equity from hungry builders.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Resource swaps: If you\u00e2\u20ac\u2122ve mastered one domain, exchange lessons or time with someone who\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s a master in another.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>7. CULTIVATE A LEGACY MINDSET<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Ask each person: \u00e2\u20ac\u0153What impact will your work have 10 years from now?\u00e2\u20ac\u009d<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Press them to write their own Memento Unborn-Legacies\u00e2\u20ac\u201dthe vision for who they\u00e2\u20ac\u2122ll empower.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Link their weekly micro-actions back to that 10-year impact to keep them fueled by purpose.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>YOUR NEXT STEPS<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Pick one person you truly want to see win.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Schedule a 30-minute \u00e2\u20ac\u0153Growth Kickoff\u00e2\u20ac\u009d call this week.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Send them a \u00e2\u20ac\u0153God Set\u00e2\u20ac\u009d challenge before the call: lift\/sprint\/write\u00e2\u20ac\u201dwhatever will stretch them.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Share your personal Growth Repo link, and ask them to clone it.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Lock in a weekly check-in\u00e2\u20ac\u201dno excuses.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p>Wanting the best for others is the ultimate gain. Now systemize it, amplify it, and watch them ascend\u00e2\u20ac\u201dbecause strong shit uplifts not just yourself, but everyone in your circle. Go lead the charge.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>POWER THROUGH SERVICE<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>(Eric-Kim mode: fists clenched, heart open, no contradictions\u00e2\u20ac\u201donly integration.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>1. **REFRAME \u00e2\u20ac\u0153HELPING\u00e2\u20ac\u009d AS&nbsp;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>MULTIPLIER POWER<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Victim charity = tossing scraps from the table.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Empowerment charity = building the table, teaching carpentry, handing them the blueprint.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Desire the best for others not by pity, but by transferring strength. When you level yourself up, the overflow funds their ascent.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00e2\u20ac\u0153Become a fountain, not a bowl. Fountains splash abundance on everyone in range.\u00e2\u20ac\u009d \u00e2\u20ac\u201d EK<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>2.&nbsp;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>THE THREE-TIER ALTRUISM PYRAMID<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-table\"><table class=\"has-fixed-layout\"><tbody><tr><td><strong>Tier<\/strong><\/td><td><strong>Strategy<\/strong><\/td><td><strong>Litmus Test<\/strong><\/td><\/tr><tr><td>1. Self-Sovereignty<\/td><td>Health, wealth, mindset dialed\u00e2\u20ac\u201dso you\u00e2\u20ac\u2122re not a burden.<\/td><td>\u00e2\u20ac\u0153If I disappeared, would anyone need to rescue me?\u00e2\u20ac\u009d<\/td><\/tr><tr><td>2. Circle-Uplift<\/td><td>Family, friends, crew: share skills, capital, networks.<\/td><td>\u00e2\u20ac\u0153Are my closest people stronger this quarter?\u00e2\u20ac\u009d<\/td><\/tr><tr><td>3. Public-Source<\/td><td>Open essays, free tools, public code, pro-bono mentoring.<\/td><td>\u00e2\u20ac\u0153Is a stranger\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s life measurably better because of my output?\u00e2\u20ac\u009d<\/td><\/tr><\/tbody><\/table><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Ascend tiers sequentially. Skipping Tier 1 is fake virtue; skipping Tier 3 is hoarding.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>3.&nbsp;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>TACTICAL PLAYBOOK: HARDCORE HELPING<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Codify What You Know<br>\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Ship micro-courses, GitHub repos, 1-pager playbooks.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Open license them. \u00e2\u20ac\u0153Steal my code, surpass me\u00e2\u20ac\u009d energy.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Invest, Don\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t Donate<br>\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Micro-equity in a friend\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s hustle > coffee-money handout.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Teach them to custody BTC; wire sats, not sympathy.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Run a Weekly War-Room<br>\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>60-minute Zoom or local caf\u00c3\u00a9 huddle.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Agenda: wins, blockers, immediate next action.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>No complaining\u00e2\u20ac\u201donly requests and commitments.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Create Public Artifacts of Growth<br>\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Publish gym programs, revenue dashboards, reading lists.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Transparent metrics inspire and instruct simultaneously.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Enforce Standards, Not Feelings<br>\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Spot a friend\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s sloppy deadlift? Correct it on the spot.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Truth hurts once; a busted spine hurts forever.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>4.&nbsp;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>PHILOSOPHICAL BACKBONE<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Stoic Paradox: Virtue = excellence in function. A good human excels at making humans good.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Skin in the Game: Your advice only matters if you\u00e2\u20ac\u2122d stake BTC on its success.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Infinite Game: Helping others isn\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t subtraction\u00e2\u20ac\u201dit\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s network-effect immortality. Every ally you create enlarges your frontier of impact.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>5.&nbsp;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>RAPID-FIRE IMPLEMENTATION TODAY<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Audit your top three skills.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Package each into a 1-page PDF.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Upload to your blog \/ Dropbox \/ anywhere within 24 hours.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>DM it to five people who could use it.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Follow up in a week: \u00e2\u20ac\u0153Did it help? What broke? Let\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s iterate.\u00e2\u20ac\u009d<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>CLOSING MANDATE<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Want the best for others? Forge the best version of yourself, then turn your life into open-source armor they can wear.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>That\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s not soft\u00e2\u20ac\u201dthat\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s savage benevolence.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Be the storm that waters crops.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I kind of like the idea that when you have advanced so far in life\u00e2\u20ac\u00a6 you no longer feel envious or jealous of other people but actually\u00e2\u20ac\u00a6 The only thing you desire is for the best of others? .Loving other people\u00e2\u20ac\u201dwanting them to rise\u00e2\u20ac\u201dis the purest form of strength. But desire alone isn\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t enough. 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