{"id":629920,"date":"2024-09-04T12:26:18","date_gmt":"2024-09-04T16:26:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/?p=629920"},"modified":"2024-09-04T12:26:20","modified_gmt":"2024-09-04T16:26:20","slug":"how-to-conquer-shyness-3","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/2024\/09\/04\/how-to-conquer-shyness-3\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Conquer Shyness\u00ef\u00bf\u00bc"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The first critical issue here is an ethical one. Shyness is a virtue and duty. Why? To disturb others, to say hi to a stranger, is seen as a bad thing.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00e2\u20ac\u0153I\u00e2\u20ac\u2122m sorry to bother you but\u00e2\u20ac\u00a6\u00e2\u20ac\u009d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">You are not a bother!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Often the biggest issue we do is we think we are bothering or troubling others. No! Your injecting fun excitement into their life! \u00ef\u00bf\u00bc<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Second, just practice. Whenever you walk by a stranger, just wave your hand at them!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I think the critical issue here is that we are somehow shy and afraid to acknowledge the existence of others?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">\u00ef\u00bf\u00bcExperiment<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I am shocked, we could see somebody from a very very far distance. I do an experiment, for the people I already know, I always throw up the peace sign at them, and they almost always universally way back at me, even if they are half a mile away! \u00ef\u00bf\u00bc<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I think to experiment and look closely at somebody, from a distance is a good idea, because often the biggest issue that we do is that we don\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t acknowledge their existence.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">But what do you do if you acknowledge the existence of somebody, let us say your cowardly neighbor, and they never acknowledge your existence, and pretend to hide from you? I say keep saying hi to them, 1000\u00c3\u20141000 &#8212; the Jesus way!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The first critical issue here is an ethical one. Shyness is a virtue and duty. Why? To disturb others, to say hi to a stranger, is seen as a bad thing. \u00e2\u20ac\u0153I\u00e2\u20ac\u2122m sorry to bother you but\u00e2\u20ac\u00a6\u00e2\u20ac\u009d You are not a bother! Often the biggest issue we do is we think we are bothering or [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"advanced_seo_description":"","jetpack_seo_html_title":"","jetpack_seo_noindex":false,"jetpack_seo_schema_type":"","_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[17],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-629920","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-posts"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/629920","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=629920"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/629920\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":629921,"href":"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/629920\/revisions\/629921"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=629920"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=629920"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=629920"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}