{"id":565176,"date":"2023-11-18T13:19:01","date_gmt":"2023-11-18T18:19:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/?p=565176"},"modified":"2023-11-18T13:19:04","modified_gmt":"2023-11-18T18:19:04","slug":"break-the-simulation-3","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/2023\/11\/18\/break-the-simulation-3\/","title":{"rendered":"BREAK THE SIMULATION."},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Obviously we are not living in a simulation, but if you think about the <a href=\"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/2018\/06\/06\/part-1-matrix-philosophy-and-cinematography\/\">MATRIX<\/a>, one of the most interesting things to consider is the interesting metaphor towards life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>First, I think everyone is running on the same social scripts. As a consequence, people just tend to be very boring. I\u00e2\u20ac\u2122ve actually found that the reason why most people are so boring is that they either lack exposure, or courage.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Second, we are conditioned by fear. Lot of what holds us back is fear; and also ethics.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Even one thing I was considering, why is it that sex, erotic matters, nudity etc.\u00e2\u20ac\u00a6 is seen as so bad, taboo and evil? Technically if we can go from purely biologic perspective, it doesn\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t really matter. Do we shame animals for being naked all the time or doing it in public, not really.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Or horses; let us consider stallions in heat, and their behavior.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I think when I consider my behavior, my thinking and worldview, being raised Catholic, Roman Catholic, and also being born and raised in America, notions of Catholic guilt, and also Confucian guilt\u00e2\u20ac\u00a6 and also Korean Korean American culture\u00e2\u20ac\u00a6 <strong>not the most open-minded worldview<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I am very happy fortunate and blessed that <a href=\"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/umma\/?amp=1\">my mom<\/a> was very contrarian, very unorthodox, even for being a Korean mom. I would definitely say her ethos was very unique; very independent, solo, self-reliant etc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In fact, how did I become who I am? I think 90% of it was the socialization of my <a href=\"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/umma\/?amp=1\">mom<\/a>. She is the one who taught me social skills and not to fear people. Funny enough, sometimes she is too na\u00c3\u00afve to a fault; but ultimately I would prefer my mom\u00e2\u20ac\u201d <strong>better to be happy joyful and na\u00c3\u00afve than to be like a scarecrow, overly suspicious and cold towards the world<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>\u00e2\u20ac\u0153Better to be a <a href=\"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/2020\/04\/21\/better-to-be-a-gay-monster-than-a-sentimental-bore\/\">gay monster<\/a> than a sentimental bore.\u00e2\u20ac\u009d &#8211; Galiani<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Suggestions<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>First, become more loud ostentatious, more \u00e2\u20ac\u0153ratchet\u00e2\u20ac\u0153. Be the big swinging dick (Michael Lewis, Flash Boys).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Second, throw politically correct vocabulary into the trash, and be maximally suspicious of any \u00e2\u20ac\u0153woke\u00e2\u20ac\u009d talk. My heuristic:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>\u00e2\u20ac\u0153Don\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t trust any woke people who toke!\u00e2\u20ac\u009d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>Haha. Toke means smoke weed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p>Also, the critical of anybody who has too strong of a political affiliation to any side, spends too much time on Facebook and social media etc. Anybody who consumes media, or gossip, has un-unique thinking. Ultimately my thoughts about people and thoughts is simple; <strong>there are interesting people and boring people<\/strong>. No good or bad people. In fact, most good people are insanely boring. A lot of bad people also tend to be boring.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Just be the real life troll<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Trolling on the internet is bad. However I think trolling in real life is good.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>After becoming a <a href=\"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/2023\/11\/15\/brave-new-world-of-ai-chatgpt\/\">ChatGPT<\/a> master, I\u00e2\u20ac\u2122m starting to understand that we should literally put 0% faith of anything we see or read on the Internet. Why? It is truly impossible to tell whether something was written by ChatGPT or not, or if the original text was written by ChatGPT, and then a human just edited it afterwards.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>For example for fun, I made two ChatGPT bots, in the spirit of ERIC KIM. It is actually both hilarious and scary how good they are \u00e2\u20ac\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Stoic philosophy: <a href=\"https:\/\/chat.openai.com\/g\/g-OT4ANaxmB-zen-of-eric\">ZEN OF ERIC<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Photography: ERIC KIM BOT](https:\/\/chat.openai.com\/g\/g-6UuzfnRjq-eric-kim-bot)<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p>How do you troll people in real life? Joke around, laugh, have fun, talk like a seven-year-old or five-year-old child, never give people a straight answer. Lie about funny things in a playful gist.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>For example, a lot of people try to be friendly by asking me how old Seneca is. Sometimes I will joke and say \u00e2\u20ac\u0153He is six months old!\u00e2\u20ac\u009d (He is 2 years, 9 months old). Some people become shocked and their eyes go really wide, and then I just joke that he is on steroids.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Also, everybody loves a good compliment. Doesn\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t matter if man or women etc. I love people, and so whenever I see people having a certain outfit or look that I like, I always try to make it a point to compliment them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Just try this out as an experiment: for a whole day: whenever you see somebody that you like, compliment them. Compliment their hair their outfit their look etc. Or inquire about their outfit, where they got it, etc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Second, throw your AirPods and airbuds pros into the trash. I think one of the most terrible things for modern day society, which atrophies our social skills is everyone always having AirPods on. Real men don\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t use headphones or AirPods or whatever. If you\u00e2\u20ac\u2122re going to listen to music, use a Bluetooth speaker or play it off your phone speaker and blast it like a person from the hood.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In fact, I\u00e2\u20ac\u2122m starting to hypothesize that in fact, <strong>it might be music, Spotify, and noise canceling headphones which is the driving cause to have people become more antisocial<\/strong>. Not phones and social media, the headphones.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Also as an experiment, the next time you go to the gym and lift weights, do it without any music or headphones on. You will actually benefit by naturally trying to block out all the annoying elevator music, and annoying chitchat of other people. Ultimately it makes you more interesting to <strong>NOT<\/strong> wear headphones than to wear them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Also, how do you know if somebody is actually really interesting or not? When you go to the gym, filter people into two categories:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>People who work out without headphones, and people who do.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>I only trust people who work out without headphones on<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Other assignments<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/2015\/06\/04\/free-book-the-street-portrait-manual\/\">Street portrait<\/a> assignment: start a street portrait project in which you\u00e2\u20ac\u2122re just trying to capture interesting faces of people in your own city or locale. You can complement people by telling them that they have a beautiful face, or great skin, or if they\u00e2\u20ac\u2122re older\u00e2\u20ac\u00a6 You could tell them that they have an elegant face and look. <a href=\"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/06\/The-Street-Portrait-Manual-Small.pdf\">PDF<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>If people ask you what you\u00e2\u20ac\u2122re doing, say that you\u00e2\u20ac\u2122re starting a personal photography project of the people of the city, and you consider them as integral to your project.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Download some ERIC KIM <a href=\"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/books\/\">books<\/a>, or attend an <a href=\"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/workshops\/\">ERIC KIM workshop<\/a>.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Now what?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>The sun is out, the sun is bright! Your future awaits you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And also, <strong>when in doubt, smile<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>ERIC<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Obviously we are not living in a simulation, but if you think about the MATRIX, one of the most interesting things to consider is the interesting metaphor towards life. First, I think everyone is running on the same social scripts. As a consequence, people just tend to be very boring. 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