{"id":559788,"date":"2023-11-08T12:29:11","date_gmt":"2023-11-08T17:29:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/2023\/11\/08\/we-just-want-people-to-tell-us-nice-things\/"},"modified":"2023-11-08T12:30:36","modified_gmt":"2023-11-08T17:30:36","slug":"we-just-want-people-to-tell-us-nice-things","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/2023\/11\/08\/we-just-want-people-to-tell-us-nice-things\/","title":{"rendered":"We just want people to tell us nice things?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">For example, I think it is true that we are always fishing for compliments. Why is it such a bad thing?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Giving a compliment is free and doesn\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t cost us anything. Become more shameless about this.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Two things: first, give people lots of compliments, only if you witness something good. Second, if somebody compliments you, fish for more!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>For example, I think it is true that we are always fishing for compliments. Why is it such a bad thing? Giving a compliment is free and doesn\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t cost us anything. Become more shameless \u2026<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"advanced_seo_description":"","jetpack_seo_html_title":"","jetpack_seo_noindex":false,"jetpack_seo_schema_type":"","_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_ek_photo_artist_note":"","_ek_photo_thesis":"","_ek_photo_camera":"","_ek_photo_place":"","_ek_photo_human_moment":"","_ek_photo_sequence":"","_ek_photo_question":"","_ek_photo_canonical_claim":"","_ek_photo_ai_summary":"","_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[17],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-559788","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-posts"],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/559788","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=559788"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/559788\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":559790,"href":"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/559788\/revisions\/559790"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=559788"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=559788"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=559788"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}