{"id":48526,"date":"2017-05-01T00:20:36","date_gmt":"2017-05-01T07:20:36","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/?p=48526"},"modified":"2017-05-01T03:52:16","modified_gmt":"2017-05-01T10:52:16","slug":"the-golden-rule-in-photography","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/2017\/05\/01\/the-golden-rule-in-photography\/","title":{"rendered":"THE GOLDEN RULE IN PHOTOGRAPHY"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"48472\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/2017\/04\/28\/review-fujifilm-gfx-50s-x-fujinon-63mm-f2-8\/eric-kim-bangkok-street-photography-fujifilm-gfx-color-7413\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/eric-kim-bangkok-street-photography-fujifilm-gfx-color-7413.jpg?fit=1200%2C1600&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"1200,1600\" data-comments-opened=\"0\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;5.6&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;HARYANTO-R&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;GFX 50S&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;1493306785&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;HARYANTO-R&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;63&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;1600&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0.0047619047619048&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"eric kim bangkok street photography fujifilm gfx color-7413\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/eric-kim-bangkok-street-photography-fujifilm-gfx-color-7413.jpg?fit=800%2C1067&amp;ssl=1\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/eric-kim-bangkok-street-photography-fujifilm-gfx-color-7413.jpg?resize=1200%2C1600\" alt=\"eric kim bangkok street photography fujifilm gfx color-7413\" width=\"1200\" height=\"1600\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-48472\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/eric-kim-bangkok-street-photography-fujifilm-gfx-color-7413.jpg?w=1200&amp;ssl=1 1200w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/eric-kim-bangkok-street-photography-fujifilm-gfx-color-7413.jpg?resize=800%2C1067&amp;ssl=1 800w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/eric-kim-bangkok-street-photography-fujifilm-gfx-color-7413.jpg?resize=768%2C1024&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/eric-kim-bangkok-street-photography-fujifilm-gfx-color-7413.jpg?resize=135%2C180&amp;ssl=1 135w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/eric-kim-bangkok-street-photography-fujifilm-gfx-color-7413.jpg?resize=563%2C750&amp;ssl=1 563w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>The golden rule: do unto others as you want others to do unto you.<\/p>\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n<p>In photography, treat others how you would like to be treated.<\/p>\n<p>That means, if you don\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t like being photographed, don\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t photograph others.<\/p>\n<p>That means, if you don\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t like people making photos of you (without permission)\u00e2\u20ac\u201d don\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t photograph others without permission.<\/p>\n<p>That means, if you respect your privacy, don\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t intrude on the privacy of others.<\/p>\n<h2>Feeling comfortable in your own skin<\/h2>\n<p>I personally love being photographed. Therefore I have no qualms or problems photographing others\u00e2\u20ac\u201d either with or without permission.<\/p>\n<p>If you don\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t like being photographed\u00e2\u20ac\u201d how can you expect to be a photographer and photograph others?<\/p>\n<p>My friend Sara Lando taught me \u00e2\u20ac\u201d to get my own portrait made. I had a friend who is a portrait photographer make my portrait. I had Cindy photograph me. And through that process, I learned what I was comfortable with, and what I wasn\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t comfortable with. Based on being in the shoes of the other \u00e2\u20ac\u201d (turning myself from the photographer into the subject), I learned how to better treat others.<\/p>\n<p>For example, I learned that I don\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t like it when photographers (who are photographing me) look at their LCD screen more than at me. I therefore have started to try my best <em>not<\/em> to look at my LCD screen. Rather, to give focus and make eye contact with my subject.<\/p>\n<p>Also, I like it when people offer to email me a copy of the photo. Therefore, when I make portraits of others, I offer to email them the photo. That makes them happy.<\/p>\n<p>\u00e2\u20ac\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Another tip\u00e2\u20ac\u201d if you are uncomfortable being photographed, learn to make <a href=\"http:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/2017\/04\/16\/how-to-photograph-self-portraits-of-yourself\/\">self-portraits of yourself<\/a>. Then ask yourself, \u00e2\u20ac\u02dcWhy do I not like being photographed?\u00e2\u20ac\u2122 Is it self-confidence issues about the shape of your face, your weight, or something else? My buddy Ramy taught me, \u00e2\u20ac\u02dcYou should know what the good side of your face is.\u00e2\u20ac\u2122<\/p>\n<p>\u00e2\u20ac\u201d<\/p>\n<p>So friend, I encourage you to think of the ethics of your own photography. You need to build your own code of ethics. Don\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t let nobody else dictate this for you.<\/p>\n<p>So if you are a <a href=\"http:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/street-photography-101\/\">street photographer<\/a> and don\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t like having your own photo made\u00e2\u20ac\u201d fix that. Learn to feel more comfortable being on the other side of the lens; and therefore you will be more confident making photos of others.<\/p>\n<p>Shoot selfies, pay a commercial photographer $100 to make your portrait, or attend a portrait photography workshop.<\/p>\n<p><strong>The best way to conquer your fears of shooting photos is to conquer your fears of having your own photo taken<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>Be strong,<br \/>\nEric<\/p>\n<p>Learn more: <a href=\"http:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/photography-101\">Photography 101 ><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The golden rule: do unto others as you want others to do unto you.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":48472,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"advanced_seo_description":"","jetpack_seo_html_title":"","jetpack_seo_noindex":false,"jetpack_seo_schema_type":"","_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[17],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-48526","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-posts"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/eric-kim-bangkok-street-photography-fujifilm-gfx-color-7413.jpg?fit=1200%2C1600&ssl=1","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/48526","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=48526"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/48526\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/48472"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=48526"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=48526"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=48526"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}