{"id":44929,"date":"2017-03-29T12:30:57","date_gmt":"2017-03-29T19:30:57","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/?p=44929"},"modified":"2017-03-28T02:16:55","modified_gmt":"2017-03-28T09:16:55","slug":"how-to-become-enlightened","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/2017\/03\/29\/how-to-become-enlightened\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Become Enlightened"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"44930\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/how-to-become-enlightened\/doves5-2\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/03\/doves5-1.jpg?fit=2560%2C1600&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"2560,1600\" data-comments-opened=\"0\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;1&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"doves eric kim teal\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/03\/doves5-1.jpg?fit=800%2C500&amp;ssl=1\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/03\/doves5-1-800x500.jpg?resize=800%2C500\" alt=\"doves eric kim teal\" width=\"800\" height=\"500\" class=\"alignleft size-large wp-image-44930\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/03\/doves5-1.jpg?resize=800%2C500&amp;ssl=1 800w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/03\/doves5-1.jpg?resize=768%2C480&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/03\/doves5-1.jpg?w=2360&amp;ssl=1 2360w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>No, becoming enlightened is not becoming some Buddhist monk, and meditating on a rock in the middle of the ocean.<\/p>\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n<h2>1. Enlightenment is simple<\/h2>\n<p>To become \u00e2\u20ac\u02dcenlightened\u00e2\u20ac\u2122 is just to turn on the lights in your mind.<\/p>\n<p>To \u00e2\u20ac\u02dcenlight\u00e2\u20ac\u2122 \u00e2\u20ac\u201d to add light to yourself.<\/p>\n<p>That means, if you feel lost in life, you\u00e2\u20ac\u2122re just wandering in the dark. You need a flashlight, to figure out where you are, where you want to go, and what gives you purpose and direction.<\/p>\n<p>Fortunately, we all have smartphones, and we all have the flashlight app on our phone. So we are ready any time to \u00e2\u20ac\u02dcenlighten\u00e2\u20ac\u2122 ourselves.<\/p>\n<h2>2. What worked for me<\/h2>\n<p>For me, I think I was always enlightened; ever since I was 12 years old. The problem was that I let my inner-light go dim, as I got older.<\/p>\n<p>When I was 12, I knew that happiness was doing creative work, having fun, having loving and meaningful relationships, to not care about money, and to not envy others.<\/p>\n<p>But as I got older, I was told that I needed to get into a good college, to get a good job, to make a bunch of money, to buy a house, and to buy a BMW, and maybe one day retire and travel.<\/p>\n<p>I think as children, we are all already enlightened. But the problem is staying enlightened as we become adults.<\/p>\n<h2>3. Am I crazy?<\/h2>\n<p>I remember when I was 18 years old, then 21 years old, still thinking the rest of the world was crazy. Then I wondered:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>\n  Am I the only sane one? Or am I the only crazy one?\n<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>I took a (somewhat) different path from my peers\u00e2\u20ac\u201d I followed my passion (while holding down a 9-5 office job). I was an optimist; but a pragmatist. I knew I needed to pay my rent, so having a 9-5 job helped me do that. But I knew that I wanted to pursue my passion in life (teaching, photography, blogging, traveling) and that I could do that on the side.<\/p>\n<p>As I became more \u00e2\u20ac\u02dcsuccessful\u00e2\u20ac\u2122 in life, I got more stressed. More emails to answer, more networking, more kissing ass, more business deals, more traveling away from loved ones, more jetlag, and more stress and anxiety.<\/p>\n<p>Now, my leading motto is:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>\n  Memento mori.\n<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Know you will die; and you must die.<\/p>\n<h2>4. What is important to me?<\/h2>\n<p>So my simple leading philosophy is \u00e2\u20ac\u0153Live everyday like it is your last.\u00e2\u20ac\u009d<\/p>\n<p>This is the easiest way to give you focus in life.<\/p>\n<p>This will point your light to what is truly important to you. For me, the important things in my life include:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Showing love to everyone, especially to Cindy, my family, and friends.<\/li>\n<li>Doing creative work (writing, thinking, reading, watching uplifting films, listening to empowering music, making music, making slideshows, making photos, blogging, making videos, etc).<\/li>\n<li>Staying physically, mentally, and spiritually healthy (reading philosophy, working out, and dispelling anger and envy from my life).<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>So I feel enlightened. I know what is important in my life, and what <em>isn\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t<\/em> important in my life.<\/p>\n<p>What isn\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t important in my life:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Having a lot of social media followers<\/li>\n<li>Having a ton of money<\/li>\n<li>Having a big ass house<\/li>\n<li>Having an expensive car<\/li>\n<li>Having expensive clothes<\/li>\n<li>Having expensive cameras<\/li>\n<li>Trying to become immortal<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>I also feel that my mission statement in life is love. To love others, to love myself, and to help others spread love.<\/p>\n<p>Pretty simple.<\/p>\n<h2>5. Do more cool shit in life<\/h2>\n<p>I also think to become enlightened\u00e2\u20ac\u201d you gotta do shit. Not to just think, and sit under a tree, and think deep thoughts.<\/p>\n<p>But to make changes in the real world. To take action.<\/p>\n<p>All matter is inert, unless we act upon it.<\/p>\n<p>So to become more enlightened\u00e2\u20ac\u201d is to do your life\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s passion. To do more of what you are passionate about.<\/p>\n<p>If your passion is photography; to become an \u00e2\u20ac\u02dcenlightened\u00e2\u20ac\u2122 photographer is to just make more photos that uplifts your soul.<\/p>\n<p>If your passion is writing; just write more.<\/p>\n<p>If your passion is film; learn how to make films (not just watching them).<\/p>\n<p>Spend less time consuming; more time producing.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t fear what others will think of your work. Just do it. And publish works in progress. Don\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t aim for perfection. Get it 80% good, and just hit publish.<\/p>\n<h2>Conclusion: Don\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t listen to me<\/h2>\n<p>Of course; all advice is autobiographical. I\u00e2\u20ac\u2122ve (kind of) figured out a lot of stuff for myself. And my biggest hope is to help you out.<\/p>\n<p>But honestly, I can\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t help you. Philosophers can\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t help you. Only you can help you.<\/p>\n<p>But I really do feel that enlightenment is something simple. It is just tapping into your inner-child; and pursuing what you are passionate about in life. Doesn\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t matter if you have an office job\u00e2\u20ac\u201d you can do your passion right now.<\/p>\n<p>Everyday, stay hungry, keep learning, and keep on hustling. Keep creating, and live everyday like it were your last. But plan like you will live to be 120 years old.<\/p>\n<p>Be strong,<br \/>\nEric<\/p>\n<p>Learn more: <a href=\"http:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/philosophy\">Philosophy ><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>No, becoming enlightened is not becoming some Buddhist monk, and meditating on a rock in the middle of the ocean.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":44930,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"advanced_seo_description":"","jetpack_seo_html_title":"","jetpack_seo_noindex":false,"jetpack_seo_schema_type":"","_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_ek_photo_artist_note":"","_ek_photo_thesis":"","_ek_photo_camera":"","_ek_photo_place":"","_ek_photo_human_moment":"","_ek_photo_sequence":"","_ek_photo_question":"","_ek_photo_canonical_claim":"","_ek_photo_ai_summary":"","_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[17],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-44929","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-posts"],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/03\/doves5-1.jpg?fit=2560%2C1600&ssl=1","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/44929","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=44929"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/44929\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/44930"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=44929"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=44929"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=44929"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}