{"id":343282,"date":"2021-12-15T16:14:49","date_gmt":"2021-12-15T21:14:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/?p=343282"},"modified":"2021-12-15T16:14:57","modified_gmt":"2021-12-15T21:14:57","slug":"how-to-conquer-confidence-in-street-photography","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/2021\/12\/15\/how-to-conquer-confidence-in-street-photography\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Conquer Confidence in Street Photography"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dear friends,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A thought:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\"><p>Perhaps the greatest benefit of street photography is helping us build supreme confidence in ourselves.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">And if I think about it, even my <a href=\"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/workshops\/\">workshops<\/a> are mostly about conquering your fears, and to build confidence in your photography (approaching strangers, photographing strangers with or without permission, and just confidence in general).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">So how does one conquer confidence? Some thoughts:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<!--more-->\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">1. Say hello to everyone<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A funny thought while at a coffee shop today:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\"><p>You have all these folks who try to look cool, seem cool, and pretend like they&#8217;re not looking at anyone else (but they are).<\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">And typically what do you do? You both pseudo-make eye contact with one another, and check out one another, and size up one another \u00e2\u20ac\u00a6 but you pretend like you&#8217;re not.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">But why not instead&#8211;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\"><p>Next time, you make eye contact with them, nod your head and say wussup, or say hello.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">And funny enough a lot of these guys pretend like I didn&#8217;t acknowledge their existence, and just kind of move on.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">And the thought is:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\"><p>Better to have the confidence and courage to acknowledge someone else, say hello, or compliment them (and get ignored) than to pretend to be aloof.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The goal then isn&#8217;t to be aloof, or pretending like you don&#8217;t want to be seen. But in fact, <em>acknowledging<\/em> the existence of others and saying hello!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">2. On &#8216;coolness&#8217;<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It seems a lot of folks want to <em>be<\/em> cool, <em>seem<\/em> cool, or be <em>perceived<\/em> as cool. But \u00e2\u20ac\u00a6 why? Towards what ends?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">And what does it mean to be &#8216;cool&#8217; anyways?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I think what people <em>want<\/em> is actually to feel superior, to feel the supreme in terms of social hierarchy and eliteness.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Why do we wear certain brands, or care? Because it signals your social class (in some ways) or how rich you are.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">For example, if you wear Balenciaga sneakers ($700 USD) you are signaling:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\"><p>I am so rich I can afford these sneakers, and I am also rich enough that I can afford to <em>WEAR<\/em> these 700 dollar sneakers.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It is almost like walking around with people being able to see your net worth, or your bank account balance (but on your feet).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">But &#8212; does one <em>need<\/em> to own expensive things to feel superior? I say no.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">3. Why does everyone want to wear their Leica M cameras around their neck, when at a photo exhibition or show?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Another funny thing I have noticed when going to fancy photography events:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\"><p>All these photographers wearing these very expensive Leica M cameras around their neck, with expensive lenses and accessories (straps, etc), or limited edition bodies and lenses.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">And funny enough, the &#8216;real&#8217; photographers don&#8217;t even have their cameras on their neck or around them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">So this is my theory:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\"><p>The folks who show up to a photography show and put their camera around their neck are low-key insecure that others may not know they are photographers. And they want to be seen as important, thus they signal their wealth and &#8216;importantness&#8217; by displaying how expensive their camera is around their neck.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kind of similar to how guys wear expensive watches (AP, Rolex, Panerai, Richard Mille, etc) in order to say:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\"><p>Hey guys! I am rich and powerful and influential!<\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">But ironically enough, the <em>real<\/em> rich guys in the room (let&#8217;s say Elon Musk or Kanye West) don&#8217;t even wear or own watches!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kind of how the really rich folks don&#8217;t wear brand-name logos on their clothes (yet can be wearing an all-black outfit, with a $1000 cardigan without anyone knowing it). Or how a lot of the really really rich people will drive a Honda Odyssey Minivan, or even a Lexus to be more low-key.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">4. Practice making eye contact and saying hello<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The biggest tip is practice making eye contact, complimenting people on their clothes and fashion, and just saying hello. Or you can just make eye contact and do the &#8216;head nod&#8217;.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">5. You are supreme<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It doesn&#8217;t matter your clothes or outside appearance. Know it is that your mind, your character, your interests, your passions, and your soul is what makes you so great.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">In fact, practice going to fancy elite and luxury places, and just act &#8216;normal&#8217;. Smile, say hello. 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