{"id":28644,"date":"2016-04-19T08:44:34","date_gmt":"2016-04-19T15:44:34","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/?p=28644"},"modified":"2016-04-19T11:55:51","modified_gmt":"2016-04-19T18:55:51","slug":"make-someone-feel-beautiful","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/2016\/04\/19\/make-someone-feel-beautiful\/","title":{"rendered":"Make Someone Feel Beautiful"},"content":{"rendered":"<figure id=\"attachment_28646\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-28646\" style=\"width: 4928px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"28646\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/2016\/04\/19\/make-someone-feel-beautiful\/image-178\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/04\/image-2.jpeg?fit=4928%2C3264&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"4928,3264\" data-comments-opened=\"0\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;5.6&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;GR II&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;1460804346&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;18.3&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;1600&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0.0055555555555556&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"image\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"&lt;p&gt;SF, 2016&lt;\/p&gt;\n\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/04\/image-2.jpeg?fit=2000%2C1325&amp;ssl=1\" class=\"size-full wp-image-28646\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/04\/image-2.jpeg?resize=4928%2C3264\" alt=\"SF, 2016\" width=\"4928\" height=\"3264\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/04\/image-2.jpeg?w=4928&amp;ssl=1 4928w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/04\/image-2.jpeg?resize=660%2C437&amp;ssl=1 660w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/04\/image-2.jpeg?resize=768%2C509&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/04\/image-2.jpeg?resize=2000%2C1325&amp;ssl=1 2000w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/04\/image-2.jpeg?w=3000&amp;ssl=1 3000w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-28646\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">SF, 2016<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>Dear friend,<\/p>\n<p>I just did an <a href=\"http:\/\/www.photographytalkshow.com\/pts-018-eric-kim-redux\/\" target=\"_blank\">interview with my buddy Michael<\/a> and one of the things he asked me was, &#8220;How has your approach in photography changed the last 2 years?&#8221; Fantastic question&#8211; this is what I told him:<\/p>\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n<p>I used to be interested in capturing candid street photographs&#8211; capturing beautiful moments of everyday life. But nowadays, I am less interested in making photos; I am more interested in making connections&#8211; especially with strangers and close loved ones.<\/p>\n<p>I just did a workshop in SF this past weekend over the concept of &#8220;conquering your fear&#8221; in street photography. I feel that fear holds us back from so many things in life&#8211; the fear of starting a new company, the fear of approaching a stranger you find interesting, the fear of becoming an artist, or the fear of stepping outside of your comfort zone.<\/p>\n<p>What I feel that we need to do is not to necessarily <em>conquer<\/em> our fear in street photography and life, but to <em>harness<\/em> and to <em>channel<\/em> our fears.<\/p>\n<p>For example, whenever I am out shooting on the streets, nothing really interests me anymore. But when I do see someone or something interesting, I feel nervous. I feel my heart start to beat harder, I feel the sweat pour down my back, and I have an insatiable urge to make a photograph.<\/p>\n<p>In these moments, I know that I have something (possibly) good and interesting I want to photograph.<\/p>\n<h2>What I&#8217;m focusing on now<\/h2>\n<p>Another thing I told my buddy Michael is that currently I am more interested in shooting &#8220;street portraits&#8221;&#8211; photos of strangers with permission.<\/p>\n<p>Not only that, but I am shifting more to black-and-white nowadays&#8211; I love the simplicity, minimalism, and sublime-Zen nature of monochrome. While I love color photography, I started to feel that color was a distraction. Black-and-white helped me focus on emotion, soul, gestures, and what I found crucial and critical in an image.<\/p>\n<h2>A beautiful encounter<\/h2>\n<p>In the beginning of my workshop, I saw this girl with blue hair and braided pigtails&#8211; and she looked fantastic. I encouraged Lin, one of my students to approach her. Afterwards, I wanted to make a photograph too&#8211; but I was too nervous to approach her afterwards.<\/p>\n<p>However I knew I would be kicking myself in the face if I didn&#8217;t even try as well&#8211; so after mustering up my courage, I also approached her. And she was willing.<\/p>\n<p>I set my Ricoh GR II to &#8220;P&#8221; (program) mode, and asked her to stand in front of the doorway (nice soft light, learned this from Steve McCurry). I put my camera to &#8220;macro&#8221; mode, so I could focus really close with my 28mm lens. She first looked stiff, and so I asked her to &#8220;play with her braids&#8221; &#8212; which made her hands much more engaging, and helped loosen her up a bit.<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_28647\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-28647\" style=\"width: 2416px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"28647\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/2016\/04\/19\/make-someone-feel-beautiful\/image-179\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/04\/image-3.jpeg?fit=2416%2C1652&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"2416,1652\" data-comments-opened=\"0\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"image\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"&lt;p&gt;Contact sheet&lt;\/p&gt;\n\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/04\/image-3.jpeg?fit=2000%2C1368&amp;ssl=1\" class=\"size-full wp-image-28647\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/04\/image-3.jpeg?resize=2416%2C1652\" alt=\"Contact sheet\" width=\"2416\" height=\"1652\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/04\/image-3.jpeg?w=2416&amp;ssl=1 2416w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/04\/image-3.jpeg?resize=660%2C451&amp;ssl=1 660w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/04\/image-3.jpeg?resize=768%2C525&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/04\/image-3.jpeg?resize=2000%2C1368&amp;ssl=1 2000w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-28647\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Contact sheet<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>I chatted with her a bit afterwards, and found out that she was with her parents (who both just got out of an alcoholics-anonymous meeting) and was spending time with them that day.<\/p>\n<p>When I first approached her, she was stiff and reserved, but the interaction I had with her was able to make her laugh and smile a bit. I didn&#8217;t realize this, but one of the students told me that afterwards she said that I made her feel &#8220;beautiful&#8221; and &#8220;like a model.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Which got me thinking&#8211; shouldn&#8217;t we make our subjects feel beautiful? Shouldn&#8217;t we put them in a positive mood? Shouldn&#8217;t our photography empower our subjects, and make them feel good about themselves?<\/p>\n<p>I feel that so much of photography is documenting pain, poverty, and misery in the world. While that type of photography is very important, I feel that there is a huge dearth or absence of &#8220;<em>positive photography<\/em>&#8220;&#8211; photography that makes people feel good (both the photographer, subject, and viewer).<\/p>\n<p>Life is short. I don&#8217;t want to add more misery and depression to the world. I want to make beautiful images that uplift my subjects, uplift my viewers, and uplift myself. I want my photos to be a testament to the beauty in the world&#8211; beautiful people, beautiful places, and beautiful moments (especially in ordinary or &#8216;mundane&#8217; situations).<\/p>\n<p>So friend, I encourage you&#8211; don&#8217;t be afraid. Have the courage to make the types of images you want. Have the courage to approach strangers you find interesting, and as <a href=\"http:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/2015\/03\/02\/5-lessons-sebastiao-salgado-has-taught-me-about-street-photography\/\">Sebastiao Salgado<\/a> says&#8211; figure out a way to make them look &#8220;heroic and honorable.&#8221; Find the beauty in the ordinary or the mundane, and uplift yourself, your subject, and your viewer.<\/p>\n<p>There is so much beauty in the world; why not focus on it?<\/p>\n<p>Always,<br \/>\nEric<\/p>\n<p><em>Tuesday, April 19, 2016 @ 8:33am, finally starting to wake up after restless sleep, but a nice espresso at home<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p>If you want to learn more about street portraits, download my free book: &#8220;<a href=\"http:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/2015\/06\/04\/free-book-the-street-portrait-manual\/\"><b><i>The Street Portrait Manual<\/i><\/b><\/a>.&#8221;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Dear friend, I just did an interview with my buddy Michael and one of the things he asked me was, &#8220;How has your approach in photography changed the last 2 years?&#8221; Fantastic question&#8211; this is what I told him:<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"advanced_seo_description":"","jetpack_seo_html_title":"","jetpack_seo_noindex":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[17],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-28644","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-posts"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/28644","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=28644"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/28644\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=28644"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=28644"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=28644"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}