{"id":259391,"date":"2020-08-01T03:36:39","date_gmt":"2020-08-01T10:36:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/?p=259391"},"modified":"2020-08-01T03:36:41","modified_gmt":"2020-08-01T10:36:41","slug":"why-am-i-always-disappointed-in-others","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/2020\/08\/01\/why-am-i-always-disappointed-in-others\/","title":{"rendered":"Why Am I Always Disappointed in Others?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>My theory:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\"><p>I like others to treat me how I treat them, but this almost never happens. Why? I expect everyone to treat me highly. <\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>As a consequence, I treat everyone else highly. But is this reasonable?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And perhaps why I\u00e2\u20ac\u2122m always disappointed in others is because I expect them to treat me how I treat myself, because I have such a high expectation of myself? And I feel disappointed because I don\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t see others as high as me?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>My theory: I like others to treat me how I treat them, but this almost never happens. Why? I expect everyone to treat me highly. As a consequence, I treat everyone else highly. But is this reasonable? And perhaps why I\u00e2\u20ac\u2122m always disappointed in others is because I expect them to treat me how I [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":259404,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"advanced_seo_description":"","jetpack_seo_html_title":"","jetpack_seo_noindex":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[17],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-259391","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-posts"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/8340DA4F-31E1-461E-ACAF-793D92B902E2.jpeg?fit=1668%2C2224&ssl=1","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/259391","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=259391"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/259391\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":259403,"href":"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/259391\/revisions\/259403"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/259404"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=259391"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=259391"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=259391"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}