{"id":245048,"date":"2020-06-18T08:00:28","date_gmt":"2020-06-18T15:00:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/?p=245048"},"modified":"2020-06-18T08:04:06","modified_gmt":"2020-06-18T15:04:06","slug":"you-dont-like-me-because-you-cannot-understand-me","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/2020\/06\/18\/you-dont-like-me-because-you-cannot-understand-me\/","title":{"rendered":"You Don\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t Like Me Because You Cannot Understand Me"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The bias:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\"><p>We tend to hate those who we don\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t understand, those who we feel inferior to, or those who violate our own personal vanity or view of the world. <\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<!--more-->\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Why does everyone hate Kanye?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">We hate <a href=\"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/2017\/05\/10\/10-lessons-kanye-west-can-teach-you-about-photography\/\">Kanye<\/a> because we cannot understand or control him. Why do we hate JAY Z? Because <a href=\"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/2017\/03\/27\/15-lessons-jay-z-has-taught-me-about-hustling\/\">JAY Z<\/a> bragging about his money makes us feel small and poor. Why do we hate Migos and trap music? Because it goes against our own personal aesthetic taste. Why do we hate people who flex? Because <a href=\"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/2020\/05\/29\/self-hate-2\/\">we hate our own body<\/a> (bodily dysmorphia).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Towards a more robust self love<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-video wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-videopress\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe title=\"VideoPress Video Player\" aria-label='VideoPress Video Player' width='1180' height='664' src='https:\/\/videopress.com\/embed\/oGgOVX0Z?autoPlay=1&amp;loop=1&amp;muted=1&amp;persistVolume=0&amp;preloadContent=metadata&amp;hd=0&amp;cover=1' frameborder='0' allowfullscreen allow='clipboard-write'><\/iframe><script src='https:\/\/v0.wordpress.com\/js\/next\/videopress-iframe.js?m=1770107250'><\/script>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">No social media. Quit the news. Quit social media. Never compare oneself with others. Only compare and judge one against dead heroes (Achilles, Hector, Hercules, Alexander the Great) than modern living people. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-gallery columns-2 is-cropped wp-block-gallery-1 is-layout-flex wp-block-gallery-is-layout-flex\"><ul class=\"blocks-gallery-grid\"><li class=\"blocks-gallery-item\"><figure><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"182749\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/the-farnese-hercules-1742-by-richard-dalton-1715-or-20-1791\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/hercules-furens.jpg?fit=%2C&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"\" data-comments-opened=\"0\" data-image-meta=\"[]\" data-image-title=\"The Farnese Hercules 1742 by Richard Dalton 1715 or 20-1791\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"&lt;p&gt;The Farnese Hercules 1742 Richard Dalton 1715 or 20-1791 Purchased as part of the Opp\u00c3\u00a9 Collection with 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