{"id":23371,"date":"2015-04-09T02:00:42","date_gmt":"2015-04-09T09:00:42","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/?p=23371"},"modified":"2015-04-08T14:12:30","modified_gmt":"2015-04-08T21:12:30","slug":"how-to-get-people-to-say-yes-when-shooting-street-portraits","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/2015\/04\/09\/how-to-get-people-to-say-yes-when-shooting-street-portraits\/","title":{"rendered":"How To Get People to Say Yes When Shooting Street Portraits"},"content":{"rendered":"<figure id=\"attachment_23372\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-23372\" style=\"width: 532px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"23372\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/2015\/04\/09\/how-to-get-people-to-say-yes-when-shooting-street-portraits\/14186779141_ee405ffe07_c\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/04\/14186779141_ee405ffe07_c.jpg?fit=532%2C800&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"532,800\" data-comments-opened=\"0\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"14186779141_ee405ffe07_c\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"&lt;p&gt;Downtown LA, 2012&lt;\/p&gt;\n\" data-medium-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/04\/14186779141_ee405ffe07_c.jpg?fit=439%2C660&amp;ssl=1\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/04\/14186779141_ee405ffe07_c.jpg?fit=532%2C800&amp;ssl=1\" class=\"size-large wp-image-23372\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/04\/14186779141_ee405ffe07_c-532x800.jpg?resize=532%2C800\" alt=\"Downtown LA, 2012\" width=\"532\" height=\"800\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/04\/14186779141_ee405ffe07_c.jpg?w=532&amp;ssl=1 532w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/04\/14186779141_ee405ffe07_c.jpg?resize=439%2C660&amp;ssl=1 439w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 532px) 100vw, 532px\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-23372\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Downtown LA, 2012<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>In my street photography workshops, I often give the students a \u00e2\u20ac\u01535 yes\/5 no\u00e2\u20ac\u009d assignment. The concept is simple: you approach a bunch of strangers and ask permission to take their portrait. You intentionally try to get 5 people to say \u00e2\u20ac\u0153yes\u00e2\u20ac\u009d, and 5 people to say \u00e2\u20ac\u0153no.\u00e2\u20ac\u009d<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes students struggle to get all 5 people to say \u00e2\u20ac\u0153yes\u00e2\u20ac\u009d, and sometimes students have no problem.<\/p>\n<p>So what are some good strategies to quickly develop a rapport with strangers, and have strangers to say \u00e2\u20ac\u0153yes\u00e2\u20ac\u009d to having their picture taken?<\/p>\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n<h2>The secret: use the word: \u00e2\u20ac\u0153because\u00e2\u20ac\u009d<\/h2>\n<p>One of the biggest strategies when asking for street portraits is to say the word: \u00e2\u20ac\u0153because\u00e2\u20ac\u009d.<\/p>\n<p>I want to share a psychological study. The concept was simple: a psychologist ran an experiment trying to figure out how to be more persuasive.<\/p>\n<p>In the experiment the psychologist tried to cut a line in order to make photocopies, and tried 3 different variations to cut the line. The three variations she had the students were these:<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li><strong>No reason<\/strong>: \u00e2\u20ac\u0153Excuse me, I have 5 (20) pages. May I use the Xerox machine?\u00e2\u20ac\u009d<\/li>\n<li>\u00e2\u20ac\u0153<strong>Legit\u00e2\u20ac\u009d reason<\/strong>: \u00e2\u20ac\u0153Excuse me, I have 5 (20) pages. May I use the Xerox machine, <em>because I have to make copies<\/em>?\u00e2\u20ac\u009d<\/li>\n<li>\u00e2\u20ac\u0153<strong>Bullshit\u00e2\u20ac\u009d reason<\/strong>: \u00e2\u20ac\u0153Excuse me, I have 5 (20) pages. May I use the Xerox machine, <em>because I\u00e2\u20ac\u2122m in a rush<\/em>?\u00e2\u20ac\u009d<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>Her big finding was this:<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>No reason: 60% of people allowed her to cut the line.<\/li>\n<li>\u00e2\u20ac\u0153Legit\u00e2\u20ac\u009d reason: 94% of people allowed her to cut the line<\/li>\n<li>\u00e2\u20ac\u0153Bullshit\u00e2\u20ac\u009d reason: 94% of people <em>still<\/em> allowed her to cut the line!!!<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>You can read more about the experiment <a href=\"http:\/\/www.sociallypsyched.org\/item\/xerox-mindfulness-experiment\">here<\/a> see the full study <a href=\"http:\/\/psycnet.apa.org\/journals\/psp\/36\/6\/635\/\">here<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>If you want to learn more, this concept is called \u00e2\u20ac\u0153<a href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Automaticity\">automaticity<\/a>\u00e2\u20ac\u009d.<\/p>\n<h2>Takeaway point:<\/h2>\n<p>So when it comes to shooting street photography, in order to get strangers to say \u00e2\u20ac\u0153okay\u00e2\u20ac\u009d to being photographed, use the word: \u00e2\u20ac\u0153<strong>because<\/strong>\u00e2\u20ac\u009d. Give people a reason <em>why<\/em> you want to take their photo.<\/p>\n<p>If you approach a stranger and ask them to take their photo, many strangers are just curious why you want to take a photo of them.<\/p>\n<p>So my suggestion is this: be very specific <em>why<\/em> you want to photograph them, and what details of them you find interesting.<\/p>\n<p>Some ideas:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>I want to photograph you <em>because<\/em> I love your style.<\/li>\n<li>I want to photograph you <em>because<\/em> I love your sunglasses\/haircut\/face\/outfit.<\/li>\n<li>I want to photograph you <em>because<\/em> I am doing a photography project on strangers.<\/li>\n<li>I want to photograph you <em>because<\/em> I love photographing interesting strangers.<\/li>\n<li>I want to photograph you <em>because<\/em> I am a tourist.<\/li>\n<li>I want to photograph you <em>because<\/em> I am doing a project on New York City and I think you would be a great part of the project.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Of course you can add to this list of \u00e2\u20ac\u0153because\u00e2\u20ac\u009d. What are some other phrases or lines you use? Share them in the comments below.<\/p>\n<p>If you also want other street photography assignments, check out my article: &#8220;<a href=\"http:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/2014\/12\/19\/15-street-photography-assignments-re-energize-re-inspire\/\" target=\"_blank\">15 Street Photography Assignments to Re-Energize and Re-Inspire You<\/a>&#8220;.<\/p>\n<h2>How to shoot street portraits<\/h2>\n<p>If you are drawn to shooting portraits of strangers on the streets, I recommend reading these articles:<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/2013\/04\/16\/3-tips-to-conquer-your-fear-of-shooting-street-portraits\/\" target=\"_blank\">3 Tips To Conquer Your Fear of Shooting Street Portraits<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/2013\/05\/02\/how-to-direct-your-subjects-when-shooting-street-portraits\/\" target=\"_blank\">How to Direct Your Subjects When Shooting Street Portraits<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/2011\/05\/12\/how-to-shoot-street-portraits-with-permission-by-danny-santos\/\" target=\"_blank\">How to Shoot Street Portraits With Permission by Danny Santos<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<h2>Conquer your fears in street photography<\/h2>\n<p>If you want to build your confidence and conquer your fears in street photography, I recommend reading these articles:<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/2015\/01\/22\/how-to-overcome-your-fear-in-street-photography-with-rejection-exposure-therapy\/\" target=\"_blank\">How to Overcome Your Fear in Street Photography with \u00e2\u20ac\u0153Rejection Exposure Therapy\u00e2\u20ac\u009d<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/2014\/12\/18\/harness-fear-become-confident-street-photographer\/\" target=\"_blank\">How to Harness Your Fear to Become a More Confident Street Photographer<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/2011\/11\/how-to-avoid-paralysis-by-analysis-in-street-photography\/\">How to Avoid Paralysis by Analysis in Street Photography<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/2011\/05\/how-to-become-a-fearless-street-photographer\/\">How to Become a Fearless Street Photographer<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/2011\/05\/how-to-become-an-invisible-street-photographer\/\">How to Become an Invisible Street Photographer<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/2010\/06\/5-tips-to-overcome-your-fear-of-shooting-in-public\/\">5 Tips How To Overcome Your Fear of Shooting in Public<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/2011\/04\/5-reasons-why-you-shouldnt-be-sneaky-when-shooting-street-photography\/\">5 Reasons Why You Shouldn\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t Be Sneaky When Shooting Street Photography<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/2015\/03\/09\/the-golden-rule-in-street-photography-photograph-others-how-you-would-like-to-be-photographed\/\" target=\"_blank\">The Golden Rule in Street Photography: Photograph Others How You Would Like to Be Photographed<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>Also check out my <strong>Free Ebook:<\/strong> \u00e2\u20ac\u0153<a href=\"http:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/2012\/06\/free-ebook-31-days-to-overcome-your-fear-of-shooting-street-photography\/\" target=\"_blank\">31 Days to Overcome Your Fear of Shooting Street Photography<\/a>&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>You can also watch my free hour-long presentation: &#8220;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=gn0HmyxHiNw\" target=\"_blank\">How to Conquer Your Fear of Shooting Street Photography<\/a>&#8220;.<\/p>\n<p>If you want to learn how to conquer your fears in street photography with personal guidance from me, and a push outside of your comfort zone, check out my <a href=\"http:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/workshops\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>upcoming street photography workshops<\/strong><\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>In my street photography workshops, I often give the students a \u00e2\u20ac\u01535 yes\/5 no\u00e2\u20ac\u009d assignment. 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