{"id":220683,"date":"2020-04-03T09:11:33","date_gmt":"2020-04-03T16:11:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/?p=220683"},"modified":"2020-04-03T11:51:31","modified_gmt":"2020-04-03T18:51:31","slug":"silence-is-golden","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/2020\/04\/03\/silence-is-golden\/","title":{"rendered":"SILENCE IS GOLDEN."},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>When you&#8217;re angry, not sure what to say&#8211; silence is golden.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<!--more-->\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Delay sharing your opinion<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>First &#8212; if you are not sure what your opinion is, you can delay. Tell people:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\"><p>I have not yet formulated my opinion. I&#8217;ll get back to you.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>This incessant need of of modern society for instant responses is bad.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Why?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Most of the time, I&#8217;m actually not even sure what my opinion is. This is why it is useful to let an idea sit and marinate for a long time. You gotta digest an idea for a long period before sharing what you really think.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Let your ideas distill. You don&#8217;t gotta answer immediately.<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When you&#8217;re angry, not sure what to say&#8211; silence is golden.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":220206,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"advanced_seo_description":"","jetpack_seo_html_title":"","jetpack_seo_noindex":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[17],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-220683","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-posts"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/P1452024-scaled.jpeg?fit=2560%2C1710&ssl=1","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/220683","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=220683"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/220683\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":220686,"href":"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/220683\/revisions\/220686"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/220206"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=220683"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=220683"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=220683"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}