{"id":215477,"date":"2020-03-12T17:09:59","date_gmt":"2020-03-13T00:09:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/?p=215477"},"modified":"2020-03-12T17:22:50","modified_gmt":"2020-03-13T00:22:50","slug":"self-hate","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/2020\/03\/12\/self-hate\/","title":{"rendered":"SELF-HATE"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">What is the worst hate? Self-hate.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<!--more-->\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Who taught you to hate yourself?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sometimes society teaches us to hate ourselves. To think you were born with \u00e2\u20ac\u0153original sin\u00e2\u20ac\u009d, or to think you need to buy x, y, z or earn $x money to be considered worthy, or to have some certain level of social class. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed-youtube wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"SELF-HATE\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/iQR3AAybfqM?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">But who wins from the notions of self-hate? Religions gain more followers, and companies can sell more products. If we hate ourselves, we try to buy things in order for us to love ourselves. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-video wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-videopress\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe title=\"VideoPress Video Player\" aria-label='VideoPress Video Player' width='500' height='281' src='https:\/\/videopress.com\/embed\/TXUG1gZo?autoPlay=1&amp;loop=1&amp;muted=1&amp;persistVolume=0&amp;preloadContent=metadata&amp;hd=0&amp;cover=1' frameborder='0' allowfullscreen allow='clipboard-write'><\/iframe><script src='https:\/\/v0.wordpress.com\/js\/next\/videopress-iframe.js?m=1674852142'><\/script>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">A world without self hate <\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">My vision is this \u00e2\u20ac\u201d a world in which nobody hates themselves. Where there is only self love.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-video wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-videopress\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe title=\"VideoPress Video Player\" aria-label='VideoPress Video Player' width='500' height='281' src='https:\/\/videopress.com\/embed\/gtgvzl5H?preloadContent=metadata&amp;hd=0&amp;cover=1' frameborder='0' allowfullscreen allow='clipboard-write'><\/iframe><script src='https:\/\/v0.wordpress.com\/js\/next\/videopress-iframe.js?m=1674852142'><\/script>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Consider \u00e2\u20ac\u201d there is no kid who hates themselves. They\u00e2\u20ac\u2122re only taught to hate themselves by getting bullied in school, through religious teachers, teachers, or even our parents. We learn shame, guilt, and pangs of conscience. Generally speaking, a child has a clear mind and no guilt in anything they do. They get punished to feel bad, and to feel fear.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-video wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-videopress\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe title=\"VideoPress Video Player\" aria-label='VideoPress Video Player' width='500' height='281' src='https:\/\/videopress.com\/embed\/sIsflpAb?preloadContent=metadata&amp;hd=0&amp;cover=1' frameborder='0' allowfullscreen allow='clipboard-write'><\/iframe><script src='https:\/\/v0.wordpress.com\/js\/next\/videopress-iframe.js?m=1674852142'><\/script>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Learn to love yourself <\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-video wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-videopress\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe title=\"VideoPress Video Player\" aria-label='VideoPress Video Player' width='500' height='281' src='https:\/\/videopress.com\/embed\/psWMqYfK?preloadContent=metadata&amp;hd=0&amp;cover=1' frameborder='0' allowfullscreen allow='clipboard-write'><\/iframe><script src='https:\/\/v0.wordpress.com\/js\/next\/videopress-iframe.js?m=1674852142'><\/script>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">learning yourself:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>Stop reading any forms of media which have advertisements.<\/li><li>no social media<\/li><li>no news<\/li><li>nothing which is based on \u00e2\u20ac\u0153fear feeds\u00e2\u20ac\u009d or fear-based marketing.<\/li><\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">gain self respect by augmenting your own <em><a href=\"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/2020\/03\/05\/ego-is-good\/\">ego<\/a><\/em>. Great self love is the goal!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">ERIC KIM <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>What is the worst hate? 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