{"id":215428,"date":"2020-03-12T10:36:54","date_gmt":"2020-03-12T17:36:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/?p=215428"},"modified":"2020-03-12T10:47:21","modified_gmt":"2020-03-12T17:47:21","slug":"social-skills","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/2020\/03\/12\/social-skills\/","title":{"rendered":"SOCIAL SKILLS"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>My #1 skill in life? Social skills.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<!--more-->\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-audio\"><audio controls src=\"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/EK060266-SOCIAL-SKILLS.mp3\"><\/audio><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-video wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-videopress\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe title=\"VideoPress Video Player\" aria-label='VideoPress Video Player' width='500' height='281' src='https:\/\/videopress.com\/embed\/OGHFKRLy?preloadContent=metadata&amp;hd=0&amp;cover=1' frameborder='0' allowfullscreen allow='clipboard-write'><\/iframe><script src='https:\/\/v0.wordpress.com\/js\/next\/videopress-iframe.js?m=1674852142'><\/script>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">who will be the future leaders and rulers of tomorrow?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed-youtube wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-embed-aspect-4-3 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"SOCIAL SKILLS\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/udriPw89DUU?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>My prediction:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\"><p>The future rulers will be those with the most social skills.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>What is a social skill? <strong>A social skill is a technique and approach to get others to like you, to trust you, and to &#8220;obey&#8221; you<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-video wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-videopress\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe title=\"VideoPress Video Player\" aria-label='VideoPress Video Player' width='500' height='281' src='https:\/\/videopress.com\/embed\/ddtym234?autoPlay=1&amp;loop=1&amp;muted=1&amp;persistVolume=0&amp;preloadContent=metadata&amp;hd=0&amp;cover=1' frameborder='0' allowfullscreen allow='clipboard-write'><\/iframe><script src='https:\/\/v0.wordpress.com\/js\/next\/videopress-iframe.js?m=1674852142'><\/script>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">WHO IS TO BLAME FOR ANTI-SOCIAL BEHAVIOR?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-video wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-videopress\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe title=\"VideoPress Video Player\" aria-label='VideoPress Video Player' width='500' height='281' src='https:\/\/videopress.com\/embed\/1FiTbuEK?autoPlay=1&amp;loop=1&amp;muted=1&amp;persistVolume=0&amp;preloadContent=metadata&amp;hd=0&amp;cover=1' frameborder='0' allowfullscreen allow='clipboard-write'><\/iframe><script src='https:\/\/v0.wordpress.com\/js\/next\/videopress-iframe.js?m=1674852142'><\/script>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Probably smartphones. Partly parents.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If a parent gives a child an iPad or phone from a young age, and the child becomes addicted to it, the parent is to blame.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Technology isn&#8217;t really the culprit. A technology is innocuous in itself. A technology can be used for strengthening or weakening. A technology can be in good\/bad depending on the context. It is like fire &#8212; fire can be used to cook delicious meat, or it could be used to burn the homes of others.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">IT IS NEVER TOO LATE<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-video wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-videopress\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe title=\"VideoPress Video Player\" aria-label='VideoPress Video Player' width='500' height='281' src='https:\/\/videopress.com\/embed\/6zB2rYmJ?autoPlay=1&amp;loop=1&amp;muted=1&amp;persistVolume=0&amp;preloadContent=metadata&amp;hd=0&amp;cover=1' frameborder='0' allowfullscreen allow='clipboard-write'><\/iframe><script src='https:\/\/v0.wordpress.com\/js\/next\/videopress-iframe.js?m=1674852142'><\/script>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>My optimistic thought:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>it is never too late to develop your social skills.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>A social skill is a technique and approach, which can be practiced and learned. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">ask lots of questions<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-video wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-videopress\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe title=\"VideoPress Video Player\" aria-label='VideoPress Video Player' width='500' height='281' src='https:\/\/videopress.com\/embed\/mU26aYJu?autoPlay=1&amp;loop=1&amp;muted=1&amp;persistVolume=0&amp;preloadContent=metadata&amp;hd=0&amp;cover=1' frameborder='0' allowfullscreen allow='clipboard-write'><\/iframe><script src='https:\/\/v0.wordpress.com\/js\/next\/videopress-iframe.js?m=1674852142'><\/script>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>To get others to like you, ask more questions to them. Let them talk 90% of the time, and only speak 10% of the time.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\"><p>the more you allow others to talk, the more they will like you.&nbsp;<\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>Generally, all humans like to talk about themselves.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">talk to everyone<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-video wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-videopress\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe title=\"VideoPress Video Player\" aria-label='VideoPress Video Player' width='500' height='281' src='https:\/\/videopress.com\/embed\/yrlVLOHt?autoPlay=1&amp;loop=1&amp;muted=1&amp;persistVolume=0&amp;preloadContent=metadata&amp;hd=0&amp;cover=1' frameborder='0' allowfullscreen allow='clipboard-write'><\/iframe><script src='https:\/\/v0.wordpress.com\/js\/next\/videopress-iframe.js?m=1674852142'><\/script>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Small talk and big talk. Ask deep life questions&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>What are your life goals?<\/li><li>What are your passions in life?<\/li><li>What\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s your life story?<\/li><\/ol>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">have fun with it!<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-video wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-videopress\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe title=\"VideoPress Video Player\" aria-label='VideoPress Video Player' width='500' height='281' src='https:\/\/videopress.com\/embed\/RZKFFWeY?autoPlay=1&amp;loop=1&amp;muted=1&amp;persistVolume=0&amp;preloadContent=metadata&amp;hd=0&amp;cover=1' frameborder='0' allowfullscreen allow='clipboard-write'><\/iframe><script src='https:\/\/v0.wordpress.com\/js\/next\/videopress-iframe.js?m=1674852142'><\/script>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Talk with people like a child. Don\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t censor yourself. Speak your mind, and have fun with people!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>ERIC KIM<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>My #1 skill in life? 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