{"id":175303,"date":"2019-09-29T08:04:44","date_gmt":"2019-09-29T15:04:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/?p=175303"},"modified":"2019-09-29T08:04:49","modified_gmt":"2019-09-29T15:04:49","slug":"suggestion-not-expectation","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/2019\/09\/29\/suggestion-not-expectation\/","title":{"rendered":"Suggestion not Expectation"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Don&#8217;t let the actions and behaviors of others affect your self-ego.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<!--more-->\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A realization: one of the downsides of altruism (or trying too hard to be &#8220;selfless&#8221; or help others):<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\"><p>When others act in a way which is contrary to your personal beliefs or morals, your own personal ego and self-esteem is hurt.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Then perhaps the goal should be to best try to help give <em>suggestions<\/em> and ideas to others but don&#8217;t bind them to your suggestions. Or in simple words:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\"><p>Give others your suggestion, but don&#8217;t expect them to do what you suggest them to do. <\/p><\/blockquote>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Don&#8217;t let the actions and behaviors of others affect your self-ego.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":175222,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"advanced_seo_description":"","jetpack_seo_html_title":"","jetpack_seo_noindex":false,"jetpack_seo_schema_type":"","_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[17],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-175303","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-posts"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/eric-kim-photography-providence-ricoh-gr-iii-21mm-201973.jpg?fit=2048%2C1365&ssl=1","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/175303","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=175303"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/175303\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":175304,"href":"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/175303\/revisions\/175304"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/175222"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=175303"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=175303"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=175303"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}