{"id":134926,"date":"2019-03-25T14:16:14","date_gmt":"2019-03-25T21:16:14","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/?p=134926"},"modified":"2019-03-26T11:16:14","modified_gmt":"2019-03-26T18:16:14","slug":"why-getting-off-social-media-has-improved-my-self-esteem","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/2019\/03\/25\/why-getting-off-social-media-has-improved-my-self-esteem\/","title":{"rendered":"Why getting off social media has improved my self-esteem"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I&#8217;m no longer high off the social-media opium dream; I&#8217;m empowering myself and building my own self-esteem.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<!--more-->\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image alignwide\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1000\" height=\"750\" data-attachment-id=\"134889\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/iphone-xs-max-eric-kim-photography-camera-review-12\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/iphone-xs-max-eric-kim-photography-camera-review-12.jpg?fit=1000%2C750&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"1000,750\" data-comments-opened=\"0\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;1.8&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;iPhone XS Max&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;1553429948&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;4.25&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;25&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0.00044306601683651&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"iphone xs max eric kim photography camera review 12\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/iphone-xs-max-eric-kim-photography-camera-review-12.jpg?fit=1000%2C750&amp;ssl=1\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/iphone-xs-max-eric-kim-photography-camera-review-12.jpg?resize=1000%2C750\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-134889\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/iphone-xs-max-eric-kim-photography-camera-review-12.jpg?w=1000&amp;ssl=1 1000w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/iphone-xs-max-eric-kim-photography-camera-review-12.jpg?resize=768%2C576&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/iphone-xs-max-eric-kim-photography-camera-review-12.jpg?resize=690%2C518&amp;ssl=1 690w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/iphone-xs-max-eric-kim-photography-camera-review-12.jpg?resize=500%2C375&amp;ssl=1 500w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I&#8217;m far <a href=\"http:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/2017\/12\/17\/why-i-am-happier-after-deleting-my-instagram\/\">happier after deleting my Instagram<\/a> nearly a year+ ago. Why? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>No more chasing that shallow high that comes off from getting likes on your photos and new followers.<\/li><li><a href=\"http:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/2018\/12\/29\/anti-self-quantification\/\"><strong>Anti-quantified self<\/strong><\/a> (I don&#8217;t quantity my self-worth and self-esteem as a photographer\/visual-artist based on my like\/follower numbers).<\/li><li><b>Less anxiety and pressure to constantly share photos online<\/b>: No need to upload 1 photo a day (exactly at noon to maximize your likes). No fear of losing influence (algorithms change our behavior)<\/li><li><b>More artistic freedom<\/b>: I have experimented more with my photography (shooting more textures, non-street photography, and videos). When I was addicted to social media, I strove to prove to others that I was a &#8216;good&#8217;\/competent\/legitimate street photographer (by making &#8216;good&#8217; street photographs), instead of just focusing on making photos that I personally liked looking at.<\/li><li><b>More enjoying of the photographic process<\/b>: I strive to <a href=\"http:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/2019\/03\/25\/if-you-love-looking-at-your-own-photos-buy-an-ipad-pro\/\">make photos that I like to look at<\/a>, for my own private enjoyment. It seems the best way to stay motivated in photography is to make photos you like to look at, and then share those photos.<\/li><li><b>More focus on building my own platform<\/b>: Don&#8217;t be a digital-share cropper (only sharing your photos on Instagram\/Facebook). Don&#8217;t build your kingdom on quicksand (the land of others). Invest in yourself and <a href=\"http:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/2018\/04\/21\/why-you-must-own-your-own-platform\/\">build your own platform <\/a>(your own website\/blog). Also by getting off Instagram, I have more focus to build my own new photo startup (<a href=\"http:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/2019\/03\/22\/ars-the-ultimate-democratic-feedback-platform-for-photographers\/\">ARS &#8212; the first &#8216;democratic&#8217; photography feedback platform<\/a>).<\/li><li><strong>More publishing to my own blog<\/strong>: Since being off social media, I&#8217;ve been able to focus on publishing more to this blog. Ultimately I know that building up this blog will <a href=\"http:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/2019\/01\/09\/how-to-build-equity-in-yourself\/\">increase my own personal equity,<\/a> giving me more long-term success, and more long-term control over myself, my photos, and my life.<\/li><\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">More turbo thoughts to come.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">ERIC<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>If you&#8217;re looking for more personal meaning and feedback on your photos, <\/em><a href=\"http:\/\/arsbeta.com\"><em>upload them to arsbeta.com &gt;<\/em><\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Related Articles<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image alignwide\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1000\" height=\"750\" data-attachment-id=\"134921\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/iphone-xs-max-eric-kim-photography-camera-review-44\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/iphone-xs-max-eric-kim-photography-camera-review-44.jpg?fit=1000%2C750&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"1000,750\" data-comments-opened=\"0\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;1.8&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;iPhone XS Max&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;1553435491&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;4.25&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;25&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0.00041305245766212&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"iphone xs max eric kim photography camera review 44\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/iphone-xs-max-eric-kim-photography-camera-review-44.jpg?fit=1000%2C750&amp;ssl=1\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/iphone-xs-max-eric-kim-photography-camera-review-44.jpg?resize=1000%2C750\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-134921\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/iphone-xs-max-eric-kim-photography-camera-review-44.jpg?w=1000&amp;ssl=1 1000w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/iphone-xs-max-eric-kim-photography-camera-review-44.jpg?resize=768%2C576&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/iphone-xs-max-eric-kim-photography-camera-review-44.jpg?resize=690%2C518&amp;ssl=1 690w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/iphone-xs-max-eric-kim-photography-camera-review-44.jpg?resize=500%2C375&amp;ssl=1 500w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li><a href=\"http:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/2018\/12\/02\/why-you-should-delete-your-instagram-and-start-your-own-blog\/\">Why You Should Start Your Own Blog<\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"http:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/2018\/04\/06\/deleteinstagram\/\">#DeleteInstagram<\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"http:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/2017\/05\/16\/why-i-deleted-my-instagram\/\">Why I Deleted My Instagram<\/a><\/li><\/ul>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;m no longer high off the social-media opium dream; 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