{"id":117489,"date":"2018-11-07T10:28:22","date_gmt":"2018-11-07T18:28:22","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/?p=117489"},"modified":"2018-11-07T10:28:22","modified_gmt":"2018-11-07T18:28:22","slug":"self-focus","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/2018\/11\/07\/self-focus\/","title":{"rendered":"Self-Focus"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Dear friend,<\/p>\n<p>Simple idea:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>\n  Focus on yourself.\n<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"117442\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/2018\/11\/07\/self-focus\/9b912849-703d-41dd-9f37-044f93447d8c\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/9B912849-703D-41DD-9F37-044F93447D8C.jpeg?fit=5376%2C4032&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"5376,4032\" data-comments-opened=\"0\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;4&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;PENTAX 645Z&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;1507293357&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;Copyright 2018. All rights reserved.&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;55&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;1600&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0.003125&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;1&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"9B912849-703D-41DD-9F37-044F93447D8C\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/9B912849-703D-41DD-9F37-044F93447D8C.jpeg?fit=2000%2C1500&amp;ssl=1\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/9B912849-703D-41DD-9F37-044F93447D8C-1000x750.jpeg?resize=1000%2C750\" alt=\"\" width=\"1000\" height=\"750\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-117442\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/9B912849-703D-41DD-9F37-044F93447D8C.jpeg?resize=1000%2C750&amp;ssl=1 1000w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/9B912849-703D-41DD-9F37-044F93447D8C.jpeg?resize=768%2C576&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/9B912849-703D-41DD-9F37-044F93447D8C.jpeg?resize=2000%2C1500&amp;ssl=1 2000w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/9B912849-703D-41DD-9F37-044F93447D8C.jpeg?resize=830%2C623&amp;ssl=1 830w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/9B912849-703D-41DD-9F37-044F93447D8C.jpeg?w=3000&amp;ssl=1 3000w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>In modern society, the word &#8220;selfish&#8221; is synonymous with &#8220;evil&#8221;. According to Christian morality, anything that we do which is good for us (instead of focusing on helping others and the collective) is evil. In other words,<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>\n  Other people are more important than us.\n<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>To me, this makes no sense. If we desire to achieve anything <a href=\"http:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/2018\/11\/06\/live-an-epic-life-philosophy\/\">epic<\/a> in life, we must be selfish and self-focused.<\/p>\n<h2>Self-focused<\/h2>\n<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"117208\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/2018\/11\/07\/self-focus\/eric-kim-black-and-white-film-photography-trix-1600-2015-europe-077\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/Eric-kim-black-and-white-film-photography-Trix-1600-2015-Europe-077.jpg?fit=1545%2C1024&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"1545,1024\" data-comments-opened=\"0\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;1&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"Eric kim black and white film photography Trix 1600 2015 Europe -077\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/Eric-kim-black-and-white-film-photography-Trix-1600-2015-Europe-077.jpg?fit=1545%2C1024&amp;ssl=1\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/Eric-kim-black-and-white-film-photography-Trix-1600-2015-Europe-077-1000x663.jpg?resize=1000%2C663\" alt=\"\" width=\"1000\" height=\"663\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-117208\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/Eric-kim-black-and-white-film-photography-Trix-1600-2015-Europe-077.jpg?resize=1000%2C663&amp;ssl=1 1000w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/Eric-kim-black-and-white-film-photography-Trix-1600-2015-Europe-077.jpg?resize=768%2C509&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/Eric-kim-black-and-white-film-photography-Trix-1600-2015-Europe-077.jpg?resize=830%2C550&amp;ssl=1 830w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/Eric-kim-black-and-white-film-photography-Trix-1600-2015-Europe-077.jpg?w=1545&amp;ssl=1 1545w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>The reason I like the word &#8220;self-focused&#8221; is because it sounds more &#8220;politically correct&#8221; than &#8220;selfish&#8221; (even though the concept is the same).<\/p>\n<p>In modern utilitarian society, to be &#8220;focused&#8221; is a good thing. And to be &#8220;self-compassionate&#8221; and all that jazz is seen as good&#8211; thus I don&#8217;t see this term &#8220;self-focused&#8221; as ruffling anyone else&#8217;s feathers.<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<h2>What can you achieve with self-focus?<\/h2>\n<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"117203\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/2018\/11\/07\/self-focus\/dark-skies-over-tokyo-eric-kim7-9\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/dark-skies-over-tokyo-eric-kim7-scaled.jpg?fit=4928%2C3264&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"4928,3264\" data-comments-opened=\"0\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;2.8&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;GR II&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;1478962359&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;ERIC KIM STREET PHOTOGRAPHY&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;18.3&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;3200&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0.076923076923077&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;1&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"dark skies over tokyo &amp;#8211; eric kim7\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/dark-skies-over-tokyo-eric-kim7-scaled.jpg?fit=2000%2C1325&amp;ssl=1\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/dark-skies-over-tokyo-eric-kim7-1000x662.jpg?resize=1000%2C662\" alt=\"\" width=\"1000\" height=\"662\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-117203\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/dark-skies-over-tokyo-eric-kim7-scaled.jpg?resize=1000%2C662&amp;ssl=1 1000w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/dark-skies-over-tokyo-eric-kim7-scaled.jpg?resize=768%2C509&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/dark-skies-over-tokyo-eric-kim7-scaled.jpg?resize=2000%2C1325&amp;ssl=1 2000w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/dark-skies-over-tokyo-eric-kim7-scaled.jpg?resize=830%2C550&amp;ssl=1 830w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/dark-skies-over-tokyo-eric-kim7.jpg?w=3000&amp;ssl=1 3000w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s impossible to do anything epic in life without self-focus. Self-focus will allow you to accumulate your own power and strength to develop your own personal powers to the maximum. And it&#8217;s of my belief that <strong>you cannot help others if you are weak.<\/strong> Therefore <strong>focus on becoming powerful, before you seek to help the weaker and less fortunate<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<h2>Wise altruism<\/h2>\n<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"117199\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/2018\/11\/07\/self-focus\/dark-skies-over-tokyo-eric-kim11-7\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/dark-skies-over-tokyo-eric-kim11.jpg?fit=4928%2C3264&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"4928,3264\" data-comments-opened=\"0\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;3.5&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;GR II&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;1479289603&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;ERIC KIM STREET PHOTOGRAPHY&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;18.3&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;1600&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0.016666666666667&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"dark skies over tokyo &amp;#8211; eric kim11\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/dark-skies-over-tokyo-eric-kim11.jpg?fit=2000%2C1325&amp;ssl=1\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/dark-skies-over-tokyo-eric-kim11-1000x662.jpg?resize=1000%2C662\" alt=\"\" width=\"1000\" height=\"662\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-117199\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/dark-skies-over-tokyo-eric-kim11.jpg?resize=1000%2C662&amp;ssl=1 1000w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/dark-skies-over-tokyo-eric-kim11.jpg?resize=768%2C509&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/dark-skies-over-tokyo-eric-kim11.jpg?resize=2000%2C1325&amp;ssl=1 2000w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/dark-skies-over-tokyo-eric-kim11.jpg?resize=830%2C550&amp;ssl=1 830w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/dark-skies-over-tokyo-eric-kim11.jpg?w=3000&amp;ssl=1 3000w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I still believe that altruism is good. You don&#8217;t <em>need<\/em> to be altruistic, but I think being altruistic is one of the most magnanimous things you can do while you&#8217;re alive.<\/p>\n<p>For myself personally, I feel the greatest joy when I&#8217;m empowering others. Yet,<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>\n  How can I empower others if I haven&#8217;t developed my personal power to the maximum?\n<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"117078\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/2018\/11\/02\/ikuru-to-live-cinematography-composition-by-akira-kurosawa\/ikuru-kurosawa-composition-51\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/ikuru-kurosawa-composition-51.jpg?fit=2224%2C1668&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"2224,1668\" data-comments-opened=\"0\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"ikuru &amp;#8211; kurosawa &amp;#8211; composition 51\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/ikuru-kurosawa-composition-51.jpg?fit=2000%2C1500&amp;ssl=1\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/ikuru-kurosawa-composition-51-1000x750.jpg?resize=1000%2C750\" alt=\"\" width=\"1000\" height=\"750\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-117078\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/ikuru-kurosawa-composition-51.jpg?resize=1000%2C750&amp;ssl=1 1000w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/ikuru-kurosawa-composition-51.jpg?resize=768%2C576&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/ikuru-kurosawa-composition-51.jpg?resize=2000%2C1500&amp;ssl=1 2000w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/ikuru-kurosawa-composition-51.jpg?resize=830%2C623&amp;ssl=1 830w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>\n<h2>Conclusion<\/h2>\n<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"117068\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/2018\/11\/02\/ikuru-to-live-cinematography-composition-by-akira-kurosawa\/ikuru-kurosawa-composition-41\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/ikuru-kurosawa-composition-41.jpg?fit=2224%2C1668&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"2224,1668\" data-comments-opened=\"0\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"ikuru &amp;#8211; kurosawa &amp;#8211; composition 41\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/ikuru-kurosawa-composition-41.jpg?fit=2000%2C1500&amp;ssl=1\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/ikuru-kurosawa-composition-41-1000x750.jpg?resize=1000%2C750\" alt=\"\" width=\"1000\" height=\"750\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-117068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/ikuru-kurosawa-composition-41.jpg?resize=1000%2C750&amp;ssl=1 1000w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/ikuru-kurosawa-composition-41.jpg?resize=768%2C576&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/ikuru-kurosawa-composition-41.jpg?resize=2000%2C1500&amp;ssl=1 2000w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/ikuru-kurosawa-composition-41.jpg?resize=830%2C623&amp;ssl=1 830w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Thus as a simple conclusion:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>\n  Altruism is good, but before we can be altruistic and help others, we must develop our own power to the maximum.\n<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>GET STRONGER!<br \/>\nERIC<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Dear friend, Simple idea: Focus on yourself.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":117078,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"advanced_seo_description":"","jetpack_seo_html_title":"","jetpack_seo_noindex":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[17],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-117489","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-posts"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/ikuru-kurosawa-composition-51.jpg?fit=2224%2C1668&ssl=1","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/117489","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=117489"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/117489\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":117490,"href":"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/117489\/revisions\/117490"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/117078"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=117489"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=117489"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=117489"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}