{"id":101520,"date":"2018-07-05T08:17:59","date_gmt":"2018-07-05T15:17:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/2018\/07\/05\/photolosophy-101-dont-photograph-others-the-way-you-wouldnt-want-to-be-photographed\/"},"modified":"2018-07-07T01:04:44","modified_gmt":"2018-07-07T08:04:44","slug":"photolosophy-101-dont-photograph-others-the-way-you-wouldnt-want-to-be-photographed","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/2018\/07\/05\/photolosophy-101-dont-photograph-others-the-way-you-wouldnt-want-to-be-photographed\/","title":{"rendered":"Photolosophy 101: Don\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t Photograph Others the Way You Wouldn\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t Want to Be Photographed"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>The silver rule of ethics in photography: Don&#8217;t photograph others the way you wouldn&#8217;t want to be photographed. Much thanks to <a href=\"http:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/2018\/06\/24\/3-lessons-nassim-taleb-has-taught-me-about-philosophy-and-living-life\/\">Nassim Taleb<\/a> (Skin in the game book) for the idea and inspiration.<\/p>\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/newsletter\/\">ERIC KIM NEWSLETTER &gt;<\/a><\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"101519\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/2018\/07\/05\/photolosophy-101-dont-photograph-others-the-way-you-wouldnt-want-to-be-photographed\/img_6898\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/img_6898.jpg?fit=1668%2C1024&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"1668,1024\" data-comments-opened=\"0\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;1&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"img_6898\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-medium-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/img_6898.jpg?fit=1500%2C921&amp;ssl=1\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/img_6898.jpg?fit=1668%2C1024&amp;ssl=1\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-101519\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/img_6898.jpg?resize=1668%2C1024&#038;ssl=1\" height=\"1024\" width=\"1668\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/img_6898.jpg?w=1668&amp;ssl=1 1668w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/img_6898.jpg?resize=1500%2C921&amp;ssl=1 1500w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/img_6898.jpg?resize=768%2C471&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/img_6898.jpg?resize=830%2C510&amp;ssl=1 830w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>According to <a href=\"http:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/2018\/06\/24\/3-lessons-nassim-taleb-has-taught-me-about-philosophy-and-living-life\/\">Nassim Taleb<\/a>, the Silver Rule (Don&#8217;t do onto others as you don&#8217;t want others to do unto you) is better than the Golden Rule (Do unto others as you want others to do unto you). More info in his book, &#8220;Skin in the game&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p>Why?<\/p>\n<p>Well, the golden rule of ethics assumes we all want to be treated the same. And that&#8217;s not true. I personally love fatty lamb racks, and according to the golden rule, I would want to give everyone delicious fatty lamb racks. However this isn&#8217;t smart, as I shouldn&#8217;t superimpose lamb unto my vegetarian or vegan friends. But also similarly, vegans and vegetarians shouldn&#8217;t superimpose their eating habits unto omnivores like myself and others.<\/p>\n<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/img_1291-149.jpg\"><\/p>\n<p>The silver rule isn&#8217;t perfect, but it&#8217;s more robust and better as an ethical rule. We generally don&#8217;t know how people like to be treated, but we often know how people <i>don&#8217;t<\/i> like to be treated.<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/img_1563-218.jpg\"><\/p>\n<p>With ethics in my real life with Cindy, I follow the personal rule for myself:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>\n  Don&#8217;t do things unto Cindy which would annoy me, if she did it to me.\n<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Or also,<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>\n  If Cindy does something that annoys me, I should never in any circumstances be petty and vengeful, and do it to her as well.\n<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<hr \/>\n<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/img_5945.jpg\"><\/p>\n<p>Now these ethics get very interesting when it comes to photography, especially street photography:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>\n  Don&#8217;t shoot others the way you wouldn&#8217;t want to be photographed.\n<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>For example, if you were homeless &#8212; would you like someone photographing you without your permission? If I were homeless, I wouldn&#8217;t like it if they showed my face. But if a street photographer photographed me not showing my face, I wouldn&#8217;t mind. Also, if the photographer talked with me, engaged me, and treated me as a human being, I wouldn&#8217;t mind being photographed.<\/p>\n<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/img_1499.jpg\"><\/p>\n<p>A few years ago, I did a video with Kaiman Wong on Digital rev, shooting street photography in Hong Kong. I dressed like a pirate, and tourists photographed me on their phones. I actually liked the attention and being photographed! Therefore I have no ethical qualms photographing others with or without permission.<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/8111762700_95da4c62a9_o.jpg\"><\/p>\n<p>So friend, to conclude &#8212; don&#8217;t shoot others how you wouldn&#8217;t like to be shot.<\/p>\n<p>Our ethics are all different &#8212; so simply, try to put yourself in the shoes of others.<\/p>\n<p>If you&#8217;re a street photographer and you don&#8217;t like being photographed yourself, I encourage yourself to confront yourself, and understand why not? Do you not like your own self image, or are you self conscious for some other reason?<\/p>\n<p>No right or wrong answers here &#8212; just be brutally honest with yourself.<\/p>\n<p>Also, never let anyone superimpose their photographic code of ethics onto you (ethic tyrants).<\/p>\n<p>ERIC<\/p>\n<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/img_1170-112.jpg\"><\/p>\n<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/img_0863-9.jpg\"><\/p>\n<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/img_1416-171.jpg\"><\/p>\n<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/img_1306-153.jpg\"><\/p>\n<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/img_1293-150.jpg\"><\/p>\n<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/img_1093-98.jpg\"><\/p>\n<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/img_0861-8.jpg\"><\/p>\n<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/img_1358.jpg\"><\/p>\n<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/img_1449-179.jpg\"><\/p>\n<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/img_1383-164.jpg\"><\/p>\n<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/img_1101-100.jpg\"><\/p>\n<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/img_0843.jpg\"><\/p>\n<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/img_1025.jpg\"><\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<h1><a href=\"http:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/photolosophy\/\">Photolosophy &gt;<\/a><\/h1>\n<p>Stay updated for our new course, &#8216;PHOTOLOSOPHY&#8217; by subscribing to <b><a href=\"http:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/2017\/11\/04\/join-the-free-eric-kim-newsletter-for-exclusive-content-and-free-resources\/\">ERIC KIM NEWSLETTER<\/a><\/b>:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/2018\/07\/05\/photolosophy-101-street-photography-and-the-art-of-people\/\">Photolosophy 101: Street Photography and the Art of People<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/2018\/07\/05\/introduction-to-photolosophy\/\">Introduction to Photolosophy<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/2018\/07\/04\/photography-entrepreneurship-philosophy\/\">Photography Entrepreneurship Philosophy<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/erickimphotography.com\/blog\/2018\/07\/04\/photography-philosophy-101\/\">Photography Philosophy 101<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The silver rule of ethics in photography: Don&#8217;t photograph others the way you wouldn&#8217;t want to be photographed. 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